By nature we tend to envy those people who have what we need.
The envy is good only if constructive (aka for you to realize that
you don't have what you need so you have to take action and
change your life), but most people will use it against themselves.
Let's have an example, you see a yellow Lamborghini Urus
parking. Most people will criticize the owner, saying that the
Urus is not a good choice because is ugly, or,
most people will jump to conclusion saying that the owner
has only got that Lamborghini because he either inherited money,
won lottery or, scams other people. What most people don't do is
appreciating and recognising that other people have a better life,
that other people have made it with their own power.
The successful people have the 'energy of success' and by envying
you deny it. The guy has everything you want and you deny having
it because you envy.
Start appreciating the small things, stop criticising, stop envying and
then you will have what you want. It doesn't happen overnight.
The reason I am sharing this is because since I started applying this
concept in my life, everything goes my way. Every obstacle or barrier
that I had, I could easily bypass it. Hope this will enable others to
become successful person. If you want to add something, or share anything
let us know in this thread
I think envying others is not a bad thing when it takes by the person not too much. It is because sometimes, envy can make you thrive more for you to reached the person you have envy with or to even surpassed him or her. Just don't take it to much and make it as a motivation for you to become a better person.
