This one more reason to use Electrum instead of ledger app.
Electrum is far more tested and trusted. Additionally, you have much more control over transactions with Electrum than with ledger app.
The software you use to communicate with the ledger does (most probably) NOT have any influence on exploiting this vulnerability.
It is the bitcoin application (on the ledger) which is (or better: was) vulnerable, not ledger live (which is just the GUI to access the ledger nano s).
Electrum itself is also communicating with the bitcoin application (on the nano s), just as any other GUI is.
@OP:
You are right that updating the firmware can be risky regarding the security.
But the nano s is verifying the signature of the update before installing. If it is not signed by ledger's (the company) key, the installation will fail.
So, feel free to update the firmware. You are running a greater risk not updating it, than when updating it.
But make sure to have your seed properly backed up.