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[Little Mouse]

I would try to make me realized how bad is gambling addiction and try to leave the gambling addiction. I think I would be able to make me realized the situation and was able to leave it. So, no worries for me.

[cabalism13]

Have you ever been addicted with gambling? Without having the real experience you will failed to realize the real life scenario. It's easy to talk about something and argue whole day but when you experience something then you have your own way of feelings.

I hope you were never been addicted to gambling. It's really a very bad habit and very hard to rehab.

Cheers :-)

Yes, I really am addicted to a certain game on the past, but I'm an honest guy, I really can't help forcing myself to argue with my wife so I just ended up not playing anymore, but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly
Now that I can say that I have a control to myself but yet I can also say I'm still addicted to it.

I don't always argue with her for I really respect her feelings. Sometimes women can really help men with their problems.


And yeah, it's really hard to go to the rehab, I feel like I'm going to be crazy the moment I stepped into their door.

[AB de Royse777]

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but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly
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You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

[iMark]

I would try to make me realized how bad is gambling addiction and try to leave the gambling addiction. I think I would be able to make me realized the situation and was able to leave it. So, no worries for me.

it's a good choice, usually people who hear bad effects, like poor or something else then the player will think twice to play, and it's worthed to stop in addiction, I won't discuss it with my partner or my wife, because it's embarrassing, and I won't discuss for how I play again

[cabalism13]

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You might be right about that, maybe she could find any, but still whenever I see my friends playing I really can't stop myself being jealous that's why I'm still playing secretly. I do have a secret salary besides from my work and that's what I'm spending through my games. It really gives me the feeling of being relieved and some what release my stress, I find myself enjoying with my friends.

Though this might be a problem to myself but I want to get rid of it as soon as I can, I don't also want ending up being ZERO on my pocket.

[Moiyah]

Everyone had an addiction habits. It depends on us how to handle your "level" of addiction. If it was me who got addicted in gambling sites to the point that our savings have been touched, then hold back and think many times that there is something wrong with yourself and you have to lie low, take a step back and regain yourself.

[niceboy999]

yes yes that happens me in last year.i  think it's normal as i remember when i lose thousands of Dollars i got frustrated even did not sleep for day or two,then i faces family problems a lot can't explain more sorry

[AB de Royse777]

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You might be right about that, maybe she could find any, but still whenever I see my friends playing I really can't stop myself being jealous that's why I'm still playing secretly. I do have a secret salary besides from my work and that's what I'm spending through my games. It really gives me the feeling of being relieved and some what release my stress, I find myself enjoying with my friends.

Though this might be a problem to myself but I want to get rid of it as soon as I can, I don't also want ending up being ZERO on my pocket.

I hope that does not happen, you keep full control to yourself and exactly doing it just for pure fun instead of getting pushed to place a bet. Feeling the push inside to bet is very dangerous.

I wish you good luck bud.

Cheers :-)

[Johnzky]

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Yes, I really am addicted to a certain game on the past, but I'm an honest guy, I really can't help forcing myself to argue with my wife so I just ended up not playing anymore, but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly
Now that I can say that I have a control to myself but yet I can also say I'm still addicted to it.

I don't always argue with her for I really respect her feelings. Sometimes women can really help men with their problems.


And yeah, it's really hard to go to the rehab, I feel like I'm going to be crazy the moment I stepped into their door.

You’re not an honest man mate,because you are keeping secret from your wife and not just simple secret its a vices that you know she will disagree,sorry to tell this but you are cheating on her admit it or not i am just being true here for the sake of you partnership because being a husband like you I don’t want my wife as well to cheat or do secret things that i know wasn’t good for our live being husband and wife,i hope you consider this as an Brotherly Advice since e have both same past being a gambling addict but i cross the border and become occasional gambler.and mostly when i wanna play i make sure she knows or much better if she will go with me so lessen the opportunity of losing higher amount lol

Hope you understand my point here mate

[Patatas]

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

- Seek medical attention
 - Talk to your friends/closed ones about it.
 - The sooner you realize the better
 - Take an initiative

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

It's very subjective. I bet most of the people here won't even bother telling their wives that they gamble. Blaming somebody else doesn't help the situation.

[carlfebz2]

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

It's very subjective. I bet most of the people here won't even bother telling their wives that they gamble. Blaming somebody else doesn't help the situation.

Blaming somebody would just add up on your bad image among other people and it doesn't really help at all. Telling your wife about your gambling activity would really just
like a suicide on my part.Why? They do know on what would happen on where your funds is the main thing would be mainly affected.No woman would be happy on that for sure.

[cabalism13]

I bet most of the people here won't even bother telling their wives that they gamble. Blaming somebody else doesn't help the situation.

Well in my case, here on our place we don't really socialize with other people, that's why we don't have any friends near us. And most of mine were just online friends. So, it's only my wife that I can talk with it. It maybe like a suicide but, that's just that.

Well, to tell you honestly in any arguement that I have made with my wife, I never win, not a single chance, that's why in my part, she's the only one that can help me with my addiction. But as I said, I think I'll just handle this secretly first for I really still want to play some more of my games.

[sana54210]

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but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly
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You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

[Mister1k]

yes yes that happens me in last year.i  think it's normal as i remember when i lose thousands of Dollars i got frustrated even did not sleep for day or two,then i faces family problems a lot can't explain more sorry

Lol where did you loose the fund mate. There are people gamblers experience this same many time. Even i had such experience on directbet few years back.
I left the gambling after these things happen.
When I need to do bet for any league matches that time also I goes some gambling sites buddy.

[niceboy999]

yes yes that happens me in last year.i  think it's normal as i remember when i lose thousands of Dollars i got frustrated even did not sleep for day or two,then i faces family problems a lot can't explain more sorry

Lol where did you loose the fund mate. There are people gamblers experience this same many time. Even i had such experience on directbet few years back.
I left the gambling after these things happen.
When I need to do bet for any league matches that time also I goes some gambling sites buddy.

well known online casino but can't blame casino for that.i lost because of over greedness,bad strategies and no control on my emotions.Though i can tell you in pm if you want to know more . 

[AB de Royse777]

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That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

Man gotta do that he needs to do. Everyone of us has secrets which we hide from our partners. Who cares it's good or bad until it harms the relationship. I wish cab (short for cabalism13, I hope you don't mind) and other guys good luck.

Cheers :-)

[peter0425]

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but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly
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You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

Good for them though, but up to what point they're not gonna tell? Sooner they will be on lots of problem, financially, emotionally. Remember that if also involves a lot, just not the money you have lost. Yes they can manage but I believe that it will put a emotional toll on them, just saying and it might be too late as it will causes more complications, I reckon.

[AB de Royse777]

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Good for them though, but up to what point they're not gonna tell? Sooner they will be on lots of problem, financially, emotionally. Remember that if also involves a lot, just not the money you have lost. Yes they can manage but I believe that it will put a emotional toll on them, just saying and it might be too late as it will causes more complications, I reckon.

Everyone has their own choices. We live with the consequences of our choices.

If I was OP then I would definitely speak with my partner however there are a lot of people like OP who will do that he is doing. When time will come may be they will resolve it with their partner. After all they are their partner. A silly habit like gambling is not gonna break up their relationships.

Good luck to OP.

Cheers :-)

[bitcoinisbest]

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but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly
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You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

Good for them though, but up to what point they're not gonna tell? Sooner they will be on lots of problem, financially, emotionally. Remember that if also involves a lot, just not the money you have lost. Yes they can manage but I believe that it will put a emotional toll on them, just saying and it might be too late as it will causes more complications, I reckon.

This is the reason people have to get it right at the first place only as when you gamble you should do it for fun this will solve the problems as you will not run after money. But moment you want to make money from it all the problems start from their itself.

[AB de Royse777]

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This is the reason people have to get it right at the first place only as when you gamble you should do it for fun this will solve the problems as you will not run after money. But moment you want to make money from it all the problems start from their itself.

I do not think OP is making any money or even trying to make any money. OP is addicted to the gambling fun (My justification could be wrong though) and I am sure there are a lot of people like OP who does the same.