Why is it hard to say sorry

[ehmeelii]

What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?

[MakeMoneyBtc]

Well, it think it's because everyone has a different mindset and everyone handles things in a different manner. So for example you might no feel to say sorry when you do a certain thing wrong because in your mind you don't see that thing as being wrong while other person thinks what you did was horrible and you should say sorry immediately. I don't find it hard to say sorry when I fell like doing it.

[Accounting87]

For me, it's damn hard to say sorry when I see that my mistake shows my incompetence or involves ego anyhow.
On the flipside, I can't help saying sorry to my close people in case I'm not sure who's falt it was. People matter more, in this case

[LUCKMCFLY]

I think these reasons are the most common, but they are often difficult to accept:

1.- You are not used to saying words like that.
2.- Your pride maybe makes it hard for you to do.
3.- Do not accept that you had an error.

[BRE]

What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?

Because when you say sorry you accept a mistake and accepting things is something that some people find very hard, but it depends a lot on each person and on reason for repentance.

[Jating]

It's because people can't accept their mistakes. And they are in a defensive mode, very very hard to admit to themselves that they have make a mistakes and the possible consequences of it.

Or possible they don't want to hurt the feelings of the other party and just chooses to ignore everything as if nothing happens.

[blockman]

Pride.

You can't accept that you are wrong and saying sorry makes you feel you are lowering your ego.

[MadmanAmazon]

Sorry is basically admitting guilt. Of course it’s our natural instinct to not admit guilt.

[Johnzky]

What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?

There’s no normal reasn but its for the Pride,we can’t lowered our pride thats why even if we know about beinh wrong or committed mistakes yet we stand not guilty about that

[Daniel91]

What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?

I can't say for others but can share my experience.
I feel that sometimes is very difficult to say sorry because we don't want to confess that we are wrong or we are afraid that we will lose our reputation or authority.

[bitcoin31]

We have different situation if we want to say sorry to the person we hurt sometimes maybe if we want to say sorry we are shy to say that sinple words but lot's of meaning. Apology is being a good person because you know that you are wrong of what action you do.

[daniel08]

What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?

It is not hard to say sorry , saying the truth is the hardest part of it because sorry is just a word and is not difficult to say sorry to everyone. If you hurt someone and saying sorry is just easy as one , two , three , but the feeling is not the factor to make the person easy again in the situation. Saying sorry that is not meant is like fooling a person.

[Nanoverso]

People don't like to admit being wrong, and have a sense of pride going on, don't know if its in our nature or some cultural issue.

[blockman]

People don't like to admit being wrong, and have a sense of pride going on, don't know if its in our nature or some cultural issue.

Not an expert in terms of this topics but I guess it's more of a nature of human being.

It's more on a mechanism and reaction that we do when others find fault within us. Though this attitude can be removed base on how you were raised and on how you grew up, environment where you live at is also a big factor.

[CherylltheBombshell]

It’s hard to say sorry. For me, its like losing your pride and belittled by others. Your losing your power and kinda humiliating. I would rather say, “ i’ll do better next time” than “I’m sorry”

[Jan_Vl]

Because people are too proud to admit their mistakes

[tt9362717]

in your head you are sorry. You really are. But you can't say it. Something to do with Ego.

[Malsetid]

Is it hard though? I don't really find it hard to apologize esecially if it's my fault. Pride is something that needs to be taken aside sometimes if you want to be at peace both with yourself and with other people. A simple apology can have a lot of positive effects both for you and the other person.

[efrenbilantok]

It is because sometimes we feel like sorry is not enough to revoke the mistake that we did to someone,
sometimes it's not the word that works to make them see you feel sorry we must mix it with action and good deeds.

[Accounting87]

Pride.

You can't accept that you are wrong and saying sorry makes you feel you are lowering your ego.

I agree with your point. When pride walks in, it's so hard to apologise. You need to be higher than yourself, to overcome this feature for the sake of your relationships