I have never questioned the real KYC. Because what I saw first was how the project was. If the project is good, of course I will always be ready to do KYC. And also the project in my opinion is not good and not potentially of course I can't do it because I just waste my time doing KYC for projects that are not good.
I also align with your method too, now that most of them are now requesting for KYC and there is little to which we can do to handle this since we cannot impose our own decision on them, we just have to be extremely picky about projects.
We should only engage ourselves in projects that have very high potential and can guarantee an increase in our investment even if we leave for a long term. Any projects such as airdrop and co, I don’t bother trying to check it out immediately I see KYC as requirements. The only projects I see that we may not have control over are the ones that doesn’t request for KYC during participation, but after participation.