New girlfriend.... having issues, ahem... rising to attention

[DavidAC]

How goes gents,

Got me a new girlfriend... gorgeous, 26 years old. Getting masters in psychology, AMAZING legs and ass....

However, for some reason I'm having issues getting it up. First couple times I got nervous, and she said it was okay (I went down on her to get her off), but can't help but feel like crap about this. I got me a script for Viagra from my GP, but I'm concerned I will become too reliant on it, like they describe here: https://www.mistermanpower.net/blog/can-you-become-psychologically-dependent-on-viagra.php

I don't want to become dependent on the stuff to get it up... want to be able to get it up on my own again.

Any advice would be much appreciated...

Thanks.

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[ClockworkTrader]

How old are you?

[DavidAC]

32

[eddie13]

You still couldn't get up while you were going down?
Do that first, they like that fist, start with 4play like that and don't even pressure yourself to get up in the first place.. Just enjoy pleasing her, and I bet you will get it, and if not just do a good job of that and all is well.. Take it slow and easy, time is good..

I bet it's the pressure or nervousness..

[Fvold]

Maybe you need to find a new girl? Maybe this girl just does not fit you.
This is not a problem, I think you need to try a few days dating site, for example, https://www.naughtydate.com site. And you will have a new girl. At least I have already found a girls several times through dating sites.

[LUCKMCFLY]

My friend, what happens is that you are so aware that she is so well that you only base your life on her, I recommend that you worry more about yourself, if you please her and you are fine that is what matters first, then be good you, feel good about what you do, there if you care about her, but put it in various ways in how you feel more morbid, buy sexy dresses, buy underwear that provokes you, put it on, that will happen to you.

Do not get too much medication, are dangerous to the heart and it is not recommended that all the time functions with that, I recommend you think of things that make you feel very good and do it to her, keep calm, do not worry that she Just feel, do not despair, it can be your nerves to please her that make you miss her.

[davis196]

You should go to the gym and start training.Physical activities will increase your confidence and optimize your blood pressure.Viagra is just an easy solution,but sometimes the easy solutions can damage you.
Why don't you just talk with her about this problem.A simple and honest conversation can help a lot.

[philipma1957]

You still couldn't get up while you were going down?
Do that first, they like that fist, start with 4play like that and don't even pressure yourself to get up in the first place.. Just enjoy pleasing her, and I bet you will get it, and if not just do a good job of that and all is well.. Take it slow and easy, time is good..

I bet it's the pressure or nervousness..

at the op this is very close to what you should be doing.

here is why muff diving allows the girl to have orgasms.

if giving the girl orgasms is the number one priority  for you the girl will reciprocate  if she is worth while.

hard ons are not as necessary as you think for orgasms or pleasure on a guys part.

if sex is pleasure based for both of you  oral sex works both ways.

If you are not into oral sec and your girl friend in not into oral sex.  you won't realize full sexual pleasure as a couple.

I been with a few women in my life and only one girl I was with was intercourse or oral sex  for her orgasms.  the other girls all preferred to receive oral sex for their best pleasure.

Once you realize she really likes to get and give oral sex hard-ons will show up more naturally.

Good luck sorting this out.

and do not watch porn for a month. Instead close your eyes and think about giving the new  girl friend solid long powerful muff jobs.


I do assume at 32 you are healthy and not 100 pounds over weight.

[blitzy]

my bet would be elevated cortisol and lack of sleep, but im no doctor, i just play one on the internet.

Seriously though, poor sleep can be the easiest and fastest way to kill your testosterone, but thankfully also the easiest/fastest way to get it back up, literally.

[OgNasty]

Perhaps not the best answer, but maybe women aren’t your thing?

[kotajikikox]

32

32 is very younger age exercise and complete sleeping time with eat healthy foods.

You should go to the gym and start training.Physical activities will increase your confidence and optimize your blood pressure.Viagra is just an easy solution,but sometimes the easy solutions can damage you.
Why don't you just talk with her about this problem.A simple and honest conversation can help a lot.

Great advice mate even 60 years is still stronger up in the love making 32 years is so very young relax give more rest itself.