Bullying at school

[tiknack]

  The consequences of bullying can be reduced self-esteem, anxiety disorders, social phobia, post-traumatic conditions, psychosomatic disorders, suicidal ideation. And what we are increasingly dealing with is the aggression of a victim driven to despair.
 
  Now the word "bullying" is starting to blur in people's eyes. It often happens that any child aggression is called bullying. This is the path taken in some European schools, which adopt protocols of zero tolerance to aggression and violence. And if one child pushes another, then immediately begins the boil with the call of parents and expulsion from school. It's a bad idea. Studies show that the ban on aggression does not reduce the level of bullying, but rather increases. Optionally it is possible baiting without touching hands.
  A common mistake adults — to consider persecution a problem of the victim. All this has nothing to do with reality. A victim are completely different people. Kids might say they bully someone because hes ugly, fat. In fact, children bully him because they want to do so. And the explanation will be found.
  Bullying is not a problem between individuals. It is a disease of the group. Take the most wonderful children, create unfavorable conditions — and they will begin to poison each other in the most severe way. And the opposit: take already bullied someone children, create for them other conditions — and they will cease to do it. It happens that the child is bullied, and then in the middle of the second grade comes another teacher, and for some reason everything stops. Although it does not hold any anti-bullying activities. Like this? After all, children have not changed. Just another adult who set different rules of the game.
  According to very optimistic Scandinavian estimates, 10-15 % of children are in the situation of bullying victims. If you apply this estimate to the United States, it means that we have a million children go to school every day as an execution. And, most likely, there are more. You can say as much as you want that there is no problem. Until then, until something horrible happened, and then a problem at all.

Educate your kids with intolerance to bullying, do not let other people's children suffer because of their children.
 
Share your school stories on this topic. I know you have them.

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[crepasta]

I did bad things back in school. Bullied my classmate with friends. But we had a solid reason: this guy was a lil pervert and always used to peep under girls skirts

[Johnzky]

I let my children’s learn basic karate and self defense so anytime they need skills I told them not to hesitate to make some moves .

But I make sure they will have a maximum tolerance before doing some actions

[TopTort777]

Doubt that there are bullies in school anymore, because kids nowdays spend more time in mobile, playing Minecraft, PUG or "whatever is popular now".

Better educate children not to laught on other "different" looking people (like cerebral palsy, cross-eyed, excess weight and etc).

[crepasta]

Doubt that there are bullies in school anymore, because kids nowdays spend more time in mobile, playing Minecraft, PUG or "whatever is popular now".

Better educate children not to laught on other "different" looking people (like cerebral palsy, cross-eyed, excess weight and etc).

Smartphones won't change anything. Its just another way to bully a child with low-end smartphone and brag about iphones parrents bought them

[Siren]

I guess you need to edit the Title it’s BULLYING and not BULLYUNG

Anyway that’s why we parents must be on hand and closer to their teachers so we will be updated in everything that’s happening in school.same as we must teach our children’s to find good friend and never hold a secret to us,so everything that will happen to them will be on our sight

From these we can prevent our children’s to be a bullying victims

[mersal]

Many countries started to notice this and had some strict rules against bullying and in my country also it was a serious problem but now bullying is a crime and you will be send to be jailed if there is something proven of bullying at schools and college.

[tiknack]

I guess you need to edit the Title it’s BULLYING and not BULLYUNG

Anyway that’s why we parents must be on hand and closer to their teachers so we will be updated in everything that’s happening in school.same as we must teach our children’s to find good friend and never hold a secret to us,so everything that will happen to them will be on our sight

From these we can prevent our children’s to be a bullying victims

The keyboard is too small for my giant hands
Got it thanks

[omonuyak]

I did bad things back in school. Bullied my classmate with friends. But we had a solid reason: this guy was a lil pervert and always used to peep under girls skirts

That is very bad and on this I think the guy needs to be bullied as you have done . Peep into girls skirts is lack of confidence in approaching life and women in general and that may lead to low esteem and dirtiness in life. Your bulling him will deliver him from that compelling forces that is driving him for that and you may safe his soul from hell.

[mich]

I let my children’s learn basic karate and self defense so anytime they need skills I told them not to hesitate to make some moves .

But I make sure they will have a maximum tolerance before doing some actions

My youngest son refuses to learn basic self defense - my older son cant get enough of it
Trust me there is still bullying in schools today - even with smart phones and the internet.
Best thing to do is get your child involved in being able to defend themself if danger arises.
You can never be to sure these days with all these crazy kids bringing semis to school 

[tiknack]

I did bad things back in school. Bullied my classmate with friends. But we had a solid reason: this guy was a lil pervert and always used to peep under girls skirts

Well that was  solid reason for you. I don't blame personaly

[tiknack]

I guess you need to edit the Title it’s BULLYING and not BULLYUNG

Anyway that’s why we parents must be on hand and closer to their teachers so we will be updated in everything that’s happening in school.same as we must teach our children’s to find good friend and never hold a secret to us,so everything that will happen to them will be on our sight

From these we can prevent our children’s to be a bullying victims

The keyboard is too small for my giant hands
Got it thanks

were you bullied for your hands back in school? :DD

Yes :c

[BADecker]

How do students bully their teachers? By not completing their assignments.

[Johnzky]

I let my children’s learn basic karate and self defense so anytime they need skills I told them not to hesitate to make some moves .

But I make sure they will have a maximum tolerance before doing some actions

My youngest son refuses to learn basic self defense - my older son cant get enough of it
Trust me there is still bullying in schools today - even with smart phones and the internet.
Best thing to do is get your child involved in being able to defend themself if danger arises.
You can never be to sure these days with all these crazy kids bringing semis to school  

Ofcourse mate we all know that bullying in any form might happen to them,that’s  why I said that they must have maximum tolerance so Incase they used force to fight bullying at least reasonable for me to accept the verdict of teachers

There’s a chance that my son punched down one of the bully in school because of nonstop daring for him to practice his karate and when he got tired of him?so the verdict happened lol 😂

[pavlooster]

I think it's important to teach our children that they are 'matter' so they can respect themselves and not fall to any bullies. They have to be confident. It is important to surround our child with love so they feel loved and can love their friends too. I think the situation at home is also important. If they always hearing their parent critics something then this thought may settles in their mind whether they critics other or themselves.

[serjent05]

Doubt that there are bullies in school anymore, because kids nowdays spend more time in mobile, playing Minecraft, PUG or "whatever is popular now".

Better educate children not to laught on other "different" looking people (like cerebral palsy, cross-eyed, excess weight and etc).

There are lots of cases about school bullying.  You should have heard it over the news unless your government censored such  incident to the public.  Even with children being busy with smartphones, they tend to bully people especially on social media, or onlinge games.    and if you search the internet about school bullying, you will find lots of them everywhere in the world.

Lucky, I have a friendly environment in our section in school, though there are lots of bully in other sections, we tend to stay away from them.

[hondapond]

I let my children’s learn basic karate and self defense so anytime they need skills I told them not to hesitate to make some moves .

But I make sure they will have a maximum tolerance before doing some actions

My youngest son refuses to learn basic self defense - my older son cant get enough of it
Trust me there is still bullying in schools today - even with smart phones and the internet.
Best thing to do is get your child involved in being able to defend themself if danger arises.
You can never be to sure these days with all these crazy kids bringing semis to school 

Self defense is pointless when everyone in America has guns.  Guns will always trump physical strength.

[cobbs87]

In my group or friends, there is always the bully and the bullied but that doesnt really maintained. I mean its like teasing you know. But I get your point, being bullied is something to get serious about. Its like a disease actually. And it sup to us adults to cure it.

[walton687]

Doubt that there are bullies in school anymore, because kids nowdays spend more time in mobile, playing Minecraft, PUG or "whatever is popular now".

Better educate children not to laught on other "different" looking people (like cerebral palsy, cross-eyed, excess weight and etc).

Actually innovation of technology can be utilize by bullies to bully someone online. So yeah, it is better to educate children in doing such things that is not right. Good parenting it is!

[Johnzky]

I let my children’s learn basic karate and self defense so anytime they need skills I told them not to hesitate to make some moves .

But I make sure they will have a maximum tolerance before doing some actions

My youngest son refuses to learn basic self defense - my older son cant get enough of it
Trust me there is still bullying in schools today - even with smart phones and the internet.
Best thing to do is get your child involved in being able to defend themself if danger arises.
You can never be to sure these days with all these crazy kids bringing semis to school 

Self defense is pointless when everyone in America has guns.  Guns will always trump physical strength.

We are talking school mate and not neighborhood so why that Guns come to business?your so violently in mind and thoughts things that not good for you as ell for others

And besides we’re talking with children’s atleast below 15 yrs of age and don’t even know what is gun