I'm just wondering what 3rd party you are using? I have a website and I would like to be sent directly to my wallet. I have seen this list on their site.
- btcpayjungle.com
- btcpaynow.net
- btcpayprovider.com
- exitpay.org
- lightbo.lt
- lightninginabox.co
- merklesig.com
- nodl.it
I'm not so worried about the Security Concerns because I'm not sure if it's going to receive a lot of transaction or something. It is based on trust so I would like to know yours, so it's kind of a review and referral in a way.
I haven't tried them yet. I'm currently using their demo server the main net one which is this
https://mainnet.demo.btcpayserver.org, for now, it's fine but I am planning to make my own full node too with raspi because I think it is much safer than using any 3rd party.
If you are planning to use btcpay for long term I suggest you choose the self-hosted and install your own full node.