The r4 really seems to be a very good option. Are there similar miners with such a sound level? they can also be bigger in hight
The r4 was the last home-friendly miner the world created, at least to my knowledge, from that point onward, mining gears became more of an industrial thing where noise is probably in the bottom of the list for manufactures, so if you want quite and somehow efficient you need R4 or follow phill's advice and modify an S9, i really see no other options for you, sorry.