Love - its just a physical attraction?

[matchi2011]

Referring to the title, no, it’s not.

There’s a deeper meaning to the word love.

Love is the feeling you feel towards your family, partner, some friends, things you’re passionate about and other being you’re caring for.

If it’s just a physical attraction, it’s called lust and it has a shallow meaning compare to the word love.

This is not to discuss about the love between family,friends or anyone just between the couple who says I fell in love with you at first sight and got the feel you are my future do you think love really works in this way?

It's attractions that most of the time build the foundation of love, maybe there's some of it that see this as lust and it isn't work that way, but
that's also reality where people being attract in the first sight and build a good foundations of dreams togetherness.

 We can't remove the fact that it is happening, there's people who fell in love at first meetings and stay together till death.

[akram143]

Referring to the title, no, it’s not.

There’s a deeper meaning to the word love.

Love is the feeling you feel towards your family, partner, some friends, things you’re passionate about and other being you’re caring for.

If it’s just a physical attraction, it’s called lust and it has a shallow meaning compare to the word love.

This is not to discuss about the love between family,friends or anyone just between the couple who says I fell in love with you at first sight and got the feel you are my future do you think love really works in this way?

It's attractions that most of the time build the foundation of love, maybe there's some of it that see this as lust and it isn't work that way, but
that's also reality where people being attract in the first sight and build a good foundations of dreams togetherness.

 We can't remove the fact that it is happening, there's people who fell in love at first meetings and stay together till death.

If lust becomes the foundation of love then,lust becomes obsolete at some point so love also will extinct? Or they will love with the same attitude as before?

Only there are some but what happens with most,cheating or divorce.

[Cnut237]

If lust becomes the foundation of love then,lust becomes obsolete at some point so love also will extinct? Or they will love with the same attitude as before?

Only there are some but what happens with most,cheating or divorce.

Lust is superficial, love is deeper. You can have lust at first sight because that's mostly what lust is, first sight. But you can't love someone without knowing them - meaning romantic love rather than unconditional family love.
Love is deeper. And yes lust can survive as a part of a greater love. Doesn't always, but does plenty of times and I would imagine does in most successful marriages.

[akram143]

If lust becomes the foundation of love then,lust becomes obsolete at some point so love also will extinct? Or they will love with the same attitude as before?

Only there are some but what happens with most,cheating or divorce.

Lust is superficial, love is deeper. You can have lust at first sight because that's mostly what lust is, first sight. But you can't love someone without knowing them - meaning romantic love rather than unconditional family love.
Love is deeper. And yes lust can survive as a part of a greater love. Doesn't always, but does plenty of times and I would imagine does in most successful marriages.

So between couples love is lust and lust is love,that is why they wanted to marry their partner.

[Naida_BR]

If lust becomes the foundation of love then,lust becomes obsolete at some point so love also will extinct? Or they will love with the same attitude as before?

Only there are some but what happens with most,cheating or divorce.

Lust is superficial, love is deeper. You can have lust at first sight because that's mostly what lust is, first sight. But you can't love someone without knowing them - meaning romantic love rather than unconditional family love.
Love is deeper. And yes lust can survive as a part of a greater love. Doesn't always, but does plenty of times and I would imagine does in most successful marriages.

So between couples love is lust and lust is love,that is why they wanted to marry their partner.

It is not the same... Just, lust endures over the time and it doesn't fade.
This makes love survive forever.

[akram143]

If lust becomes the foundation of love then,lust becomes obsolete at some point so love also will extinct? Or they will love with the same attitude as before?

Only there are some but what happens with most,cheating or divorce.

Lust is superficial, love is deeper. You can have lust at first sight because that's mostly what lust is, first sight. But you can't love someone without knowing them - meaning romantic love rather than unconditional family love.
Love is deeper. And yes lust can survive as a part of a greater love. Doesn't always, but does plenty of times and I would imagine does in most successful marriages.

So between couples love is lust and lust is love,that is why they wanted to marry their partner.

It is not the same... Just, lust endures over the time and it doesn't fade.
This makes love survive forever.

Even if we have the world's most beautiful girl the things will change because everyone will get aged over time so it won't remain more longer.

[Innocant]

Love is just only a emotion we express our feelings to the girl that would we like to live forever.
A physical reaction of it on when the two lover have getting married and make have some beautiful children.
Their are lots of kind physical reaction about love but I cant answer all of them on what are those.

[AlmazWin]

Love is not only physical attraction, it is also support in difficult moments of life

[CryptoMargo]

I think this is more than a physical connection
quote
I breathe - and that means I love!
I love - and that means I live!

[DaftAjax]

I breathe - and that means I love!
I love - and that means I live!

I can sympathize with the 2nd line in a rational and scientifical standpoint. Rational--being in love (disclaimer: there are types of love) means you're living your life. Scientifical--we just gave it a term called "love" because it's easy to comprehend, but we can literally explain why we feel that way (e.g. Attraction is driven by adrenaline, dopamine, and serotonin—the same chemicals that are released by exciting, novel experiences). But the 1st line seems to lack any connection at all. How can breathing be a result of love? Breathing makes you alive, i.e. being alive means you can breathe. But breathing doesn't guarantee that you're in love.

Source: Scientifically explained

[akram143]

Love is not only physical attraction, it is also support in difficult moments of life

Yes,when someone gets married after they loved for years,have to share sorrow and happiness between them and help themselves to get comfortable live with them but this is actually not happening other than few drama and movies.People will leae you when you are no more beneficial to them,its bit harsh but that the reality of modern day love.

[DaftAjax]

Yes,when someone gets married after they loved for years,have to share sorrow and happiness between them and help themselves to get comfortable live with them but this is actually not happening other than few drama and movies.People will leae you when you are no more beneficial to them,its bit harsh but that the reality of modern day love.

That's not really a marriage should be. The things you see in drama and movies are quite exaggerated, tho there is some resemblance to reality it doesn't really portray what's the actuality. And some people take it as the truth--they believe it's the truth. Which is wrong in many ways.

The last part you mentioned sounds more like a contract than a marriage.

[rodel caling]

Everyone in this world knows what is the meaning of love and it also involved in everyone's life from different relationship but what's your thought about the love.

Difficult to explain what is love, everyone have an own understanding what is love, but love is very inportant specially in the family I believe without there nothing happiness.

I think this is more than a physical connection
quote
I breathe - and that means I love!
I love - and that means I live!

That true love is more than an physical connection is came from the heart beat.

[xen1oph]

What kind of love are you talking about? What do you mean? I understand love as something divine. This is a comprehensive feeling of love for everything that surrounds you. Including the love of a life partner. Therefore, even if we consider the love of another person, I can't say that this is just a physical attraction. This is deep respect, this is trust, this is the acceptance of the person for who he/she is. Although you need to understand that, first of all, the soul of a person is important, and if you like the soul, you will also like the physical shell.

[lienfaye]

Everyone in this world knows what is the meaning of love and it also involved in everyone's life from different relationship but what's your thought about the love.

Love is a feeling that is hard to explain. You'll just feel it towards someone you really care.

We might have different definition about love but what important is you know deep inside you the true meaning of this and no words can express it.

[carriebee]

Love is just only a emotion we express our feelings to the girl that would we like to live forever.
A physical reaction of it on when the two lover have getting married and make have some beautiful children.
Their are lots of kind physical reaction about love but I cant answer all of them on what are those.

We have different views what love is all about. Love is not just all about physical attraction, it is our emotion we feel towards a person. True many kind of physical reaction in love. Despite many times, we failed how many instances we messed up a person that really loves you will accept no matter what.

[peter0425]

Everyone in this world knows what is the meaning of love and it also involved in everyone's life from different relationship but what's your thought about the love.

if you are only attractive thru physical then there is nothing that it can be called love,because love is a heartfelt ,not by eyes and not by mind but by Heart.

maybe its infatuation or something related but surely it wasnt Love if for physical attractions.

[NanLomarig]

It's hard to say, I have been with my girlfriend for 9 years, and only a couple of years ago we really started to appreciate what we have each other.

[akram143]

What kind of love are you talking about? What do you mean? I understand love as something divine. This is a comprehensive feeling of love for everything that surrounds you. Including the love of a life partner. Therefore, even if we consider the love of another person, I can't say that this is just a physical attraction. This is deep respect, this is trust, this is the acceptance of the person for who he/she is. Although you need to understand that, first of all, the soul of a person is important, and if you like the soul, you will also like the physical shell.

Soul,divine are good to hear but in actual what is happening,people get attracted each other and they call themselves they fell in love with each other deeply,madly,soulful,divine,blah blah but later things changes,cheating,affair,divorce....

[DaftAjax]

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Soul,divine are good to hear but in actual what is happening,people get attracted each other and they call themselves they fell in love with each other deeply,madly,soulful,divine,blah blah but later things changes,cheating,affair,divorce....

Just because it had happened to some doesn't mean it's gonna happen to everyone.

Regardless of what happened after, I'm pretty sure the majority of it is genuine. It's true that they're in love--there's an attraction, a spark between them. But you see, relationships should come a long way--it needs effort and time. In some cases, it's hard to even begin a relationship, and in other cases, it's hard to maintain a healthy relationship.

Based on your statement, healthy romantic relationships from the beginning often turn into toxic, unhealthy relationships. That's probably because they don't provide as much time and effort for each other as they have from the beginning. That's also the reason why some relationships burn out because they thought that there's nothing more for them to do with/for each other. They tend to stop there and don't even try to fix things up. That's also the reason why they find other things to satisfy themselves, then comes cheating, affair, divorce as you mentioned. Though there are other reasons why, it is very complicated to include as there are so many ways why relationships turn out like that, sometimes it's not about cheating, affair, a divorce of the sorts.