Damaged salary

[YOSHIE]

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.

If something like that happens, there is nothing that can be done more than regretting what we have done.
You certainly know the risk of betting in gambling, defeat and victory is certain, it is only we who determine in the game of gambling.
Losing, in gambling for me all I can do is, stop opening gambling sites and go on a vacation to calm my brain for maybe two or three weeks, then I just decide to stop and keep playing.

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[Reatim]

At first it started thinking I couldn't lose, so after a few rounds I lost a small amount of money, and since then everything goes to hell, I was in transition I didn't know what happened to me.

you know what is happening to you but the problem is you dont want to admin that stupidity and your greediness covers your whole character.

I was always grateful to be alive and well, being a family together. But I don't know where I'm so nervous and sad about material things, I got depressed, it never happened to me.

now think another because it does happened already

How to turn my attention to other things, how to forget.

you wont forget but you can tell yourself in the mirror and don't wait untill things comes worst .

And I advise everyone that they are not trying to get some lost money back.

lol don't be stupid to give advise when you cannot apply to yourself because who will listen to you when you can't even stand for it.

[ralle14]

Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
Is the best cure time?  Wait a while to get things back in place.

Time is always the best cure for gambling since you can change the way you spend but for me there's other things that felt worse. Money can always come back while there are other things that can't be cured with time like health related problems.

I don't see the direct relation of this OP to the gambling but I want to relate it somehow. Damaged Salary could be achieve if you have too much debt to other people when you gamble too much. Your salary will be cut especially because you need to payback them. Thus, implying that in gambling, for you to have a stable salary is to control yourself and void borrowing money from others just to play and have something to bet.

For some gamblers who can't stop themselves after a bad gambling session that's one way to lose their hard earned money. Sometimes they would even ask for more or extend their loan if they lose it. 

[Strongkored]

honestly I have never experienced anything like what happened to the OP, my salary has been allocated to pay a lot of bills and usually only play gambling with the results of bounty or when there is more money from trading results.

For those who have experienced something like this, it would be better not to think directly about how to return the money that has been used in gambling, it would be better to take a break a day and start thinking of ways to get money back, when our minds are clear we can find an ideas to recover funds.

[TGD]

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.

If something like that happens, there is nothing that can be done more than regretting what we have done.
You certainly know the risk of betting in gambling, defeat and victory is certain, it is only we who determine in the game of gambling.
Losing, in gambling for me all I can do is, stop opening gambling sites and go on a vacation to calm my brain for maybe two or three weeks, then I just decide to stop and keep playing.

Yeah, Relax and unwind is the best way to cool off the stress of losing in gambling. There is a tendency to lose more if a person keeps gambling in an unstable state of mind which is actually what
the casino wants because more human error is present at that condition. In my own way, I play games that I love like DOTA and Legend of Zelda every time I lose significant amounts.
I already tried going on vacation after the big loss but it didn't work. It always breaks my mood every time I remember it so I always end up being scolded by my girlfriend for killing the vacation mood.

[aioc]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

This topic should be in the altcoin section and maybe what he means by a paycheck is the bounty rewards which he should receive but miss the opportunity because of some unknown reasons, I experienced that on so many occasions I missed a lot of bounty rewards, because they announced when bounty hunters are not aware.

[BitcoinsGreat]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

In the first case you should never risk your whole salary in gambling. That's the silly mistake which most of the gamblers make. If the gambler is unable to understand the risk in gambling, he should not be playing it . I normally try to gamble with a limited amount and it is a very small portion of my total earning, and in this way even if i lost the amount, it will not have much effect on my overall life and income.

[sheenshane]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

If I were you OP, I will not feel regret when I get lose or something to make decisions that make me lose. First, I only gamble that I can afford to lose not just my entire balance that comes from my salary. Second, I'm strick on my decision of what I had decided to stake, win or lose it would be fine. Think first your family or even your self for the daily budget needs and then, set amount if you have extra money to gamble. Of course, if all your salary will lose from gambling you will feel depressed.

Overall, it needs self-control and self-discipline.

[swogerino]

I have been in such situation only one time in my life when I gambled all the money I had and lost all of them.The feeling is a great sadness that surrounds you and you think that all is lost.After staying laid down on bed for several hours I borrowed some money from a friend of mine and continued my life routine.I thought a lot and decided to always set a small bankroll to gamble which I still do this day.That situation helped me to not become addicted like many others.

[NeuroticFish]

At first it started thinking I couldn't lose, so after a few rounds I lost a small amount of money, and since then everything goes to hell, I was in transition I didn't know what happened to me.

Yep, sadly this can happen when you lack experience.
I know exactly how is this, from my experience.

I was always grateful to be alive and well, being a family together. But I don't know where I'm so nervous and sad about material things, I got depressed, it never happened to me.
How to turn my attention to other things, how to forget.
I know that over time it will slowly go into the fog, but now it is very difficult for me.
And I advise everyone that they are not trying to get some lost money back.

If you have a family you know that any action, good or bad, has its consequences.
Family can help. Friends can help too. Maybe some can lend you some money here and there to loosen the burden until the next paycheck.
Usually one month is not enough to compensate the loss, especially if others also depend on that money (in my case at least that was not the case, so your situation is more difficult than mine was). So you'll need help (you can also see it as a test, to see who is friend and who is just buddy). Maybe ask your boss give you some money in advance.

Getting nervous and depressed is normal, between certain limits (!), but you have to think on solutions, that'll be a first step.

How to turn my attention to other things, how to forget.

Play more with your kids if you have. Go out more. Go to events, for example sport events. You may find some where you don't have to pay to enter. Concentrating on the game/contest can take your mind off from your problems for a while. Do sports until you get too tired to even think. Go fishing if you have friends to go with (don't go alone, because then you'll be alone with your thoughts). A risky option would be to dive into computer games, but then you may neglect your family, and that's also not OK.

Basically avoid staying alone with your thoughts. If you didn't manage that and you're alone, simply do sport if you have nothing better to do.

[btc_angela]

I think every gambler has experience this sort of "all-in" in gambling, it depends on how you're going to react on it. Others find a way to get over it on a day, while others takes time, learn from their lesson and vow not to experienced it again. I'm also on the same predicated before, lost my months' salary in casino, and soon it was really a hard lessons for me not to gambler all my money, and I understand what others are saying, "play what you can afford to lose".

[Ucy]

Important advice: invest/gamble with amount you can afford to lose. Bitcoin/Crypto trading is a better than typical gambling though (especially luck-based gambling). Holding is one of the things that make it better, assuming that holding is not possible in gambling... So the "hold" probably don't apply in gambling discussion

[Oasisman]

Lossing all your paycheck which I assume your whole month salary is somehow a pain in the ass, but let's look at the bright side of it, considering there are people who just lost everything (car, house, and family) not just in a single stake, but an overall total amount of losses. Consider it lucky if you still feel remorse after lossing a paycheck than lossing everything in the long term. That's a scenario to ponder.

I don't see the direct relation of this OP to the gambling but I want to relate it somehow.

If you were able to read the whole thread you will easily notice the OP did clarified his statement above to relate everything in gambling.
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5204775.msg53188390#msg53188390

[Ziskinberg]

There is always a solution to that, borrow money if you already loss your salary.

I experience that in the past already, I have my salary by the end of the money and I really need to gamble because of the urge, so I decided to loan my ATM card to a certain lender and promise to pay the loan when my salary came out by the end of the month, unfortunately, I also loss that borrowed amount so basically I am left with nothing by the end of the month since I promise to pay, what I did is just ask for a loan again and that time it will be long term one, I guess that was for 6 months equal amortization and the lender agrees, but the feeling is not good if you are paying on a monthly basis on the amount that you even didn't enjoy.

lesson learned, never gamble what you can't afford to lose, and always be a discipline gambler.

[Zeke_23]

Lossing all your paycheck which I assume your whole month salary is somehow a pain in the ass, but let's look at the bright side of it, considering there are people who just lost everything (car, house, and family) not just in a single stake, but an overall total amount of losses. Consider it lucky if you still feel remorse after lossing a paycheck than lossing everything in the long term. That's a scenario to ponder.

I don't see the direct relation of this OP to the gambling but I want to relate it somehow.

If you were able to read the whole thread you will easily notice the OP did clarified his statement above to relate everything in gambling.
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5204775.msg53188390#msg53188390

I don't see your point. Your seeing a bright side of there is someone lost more than how much you have lost. It is not a bright side, it is something that an individual can take to risk. Every individual does have their own level of financial capability, and if the only money you can risk is the same as the amount of your paycheck, it is just the same as some other gambler who lost even their car or house due to gambling. They are capable of it, and that's how it is.

[Inkdatar]

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

[imstillthebest]

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

true  .  this is why there is an advice called gamble only what you can afford  . when you have a good salary earnt from your job , just take only half or amount that you can easily forget whenever you loose  but never ever gamble all of it because you did work hard for that money to earn it and its pretty much weaking if you can loose it all in an instant  . i do also have a job but i dont like to gamble my salary because its only small and my work is tedious  .

[AliMan]

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

If you're a responsible person, it wouldn't happen, but when you're not having self-control and yet, you're an irresponsible type of guy; gambling the entire salary is a possible. The most addicted gamblers only worked for money, just for gambling lucky betting without even thinking the value of their salary on how hard to earn by your own sweat. Always prioritize family budgets, and if you can't avoid betting for gambling then have it 10% of your salary as occasional allowance for gambling to minimize it.

[alisonwonder]

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

some bad ideas when playing gambling is to use money from salary and borrowed money. I have lost so much in gambling, but I have never felt pain, because I gambled from free money that got it not with difficulty.

[angrybirdy]

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

true  .  this is why there is an advice called gamble only what you can afford  . when you have a good salary earnt from your job , just take only half or amount that you can easily forget whenever you loose  but never ever gamble all of it because you did work hard for that money to earn it and its pretty much weaking if you can loose it all in an instant  . i do also have a job but i dont like to gamble my salary because its only small and my work is tedious  .

Half is too much, I think a little percentage is fine from salary since gambling can be used to make yourself have a fun time.
Of course, OP should have realized that he earned his money through his hard work, and it should be used in his own needs or in his family. Using it only to gambling is not a wise decision.