Damaged salary

[Maotezi]

Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
I just feel that way, angry, but I'm strong enough not to make desperate decisions and continue to ruin.
Is the best cure time?  Wait a while to get things back in place.

For all of us who have lost, HOLD! 

[NeuroticFish]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

[Maotezi]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

[NeuroticFish]

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

I've lost, long time ago (1994, I think), all the money I had for a month.
Basically most I've lost trying to recover the initial loss
It's bad. Depressing. And you can easily go further down the hole.
You have to stop and get your mind busy with other things.
Sometime in the future, maybe in a month, maybe in years, you'll look back to this as an experience.
Sometime in the future you'll understand how to play and have fun with smaller amounts you can afford to lose.
At least that's my case.

[milewilda]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

Thanks for clarifying it out because i do have the same question after i do read up on whats being posted first on op.So you do pertain with losing all of your 1 month pay by gambling.You would surely mess up and panic out
specially if you do know that money is already allocated for your monthly expenses+needs etc. and then you suddenly lost it all a short period of time thru betting? You would really go into that desperation mode
and since people do have different will and things on mind then circumstances do happen will vary on each personals view and reaction.

[jossiel]

Depends on how much you lost. If the amount isn't that big, I doubt it that you'll be feeling worse. Is this a gambling-related topic? or you've lost a lot with your last gamble op?

Whatever you're going through right now, I wish you to overcome it as soon as possible.

[goinmerry]

Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
I just feel that way, angry, but I'm strong enough not to make desperate decisions and continue to ruin.
Is the best cure time?  Wait a while to get things back in place.

For all of us who have lost, HOLD! 

The statement is misleading. I thought you missed your salary's paycheck.

Ok, to make it clear, you used your salary in gambling and you messed up and wrecked at the end.

In the first place, it's gambling. It's the consequence of doing gambling. You have to accept that you lose even how hard it is.

You know to yourself that losing money is not easy to endure so why end up doing gambling? You take the risks of gambling your money to expect something good in return although the other way around happened.

There is no other way to do but to MOVE ON. Next time, save your next salary into something good.

[Maotezi]

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

I've lost, long time ago (1994, I think), all the money I had for a month.
Basically most I've lost trying to recover the initial loss
It's bad. Depressing. And you can easily go further down the hole.
You have to stop and get your mind busy with other things.
Sometime in the future, maybe in a month, maybe in years, you'll look back to this as an experience.
Sometime in the future you'll understand how to play and have fun with smaller amounts you can afford to lose.
At least that's my case.

At first it started thinking I couldn't lose, so after a few rounds I lost a small amount of money, and since then everything goes to hell, I was in transition I didn't know what happened to me.
I was always grateful to be alive and well, being a family together. But I don't know where I'm so nervous and sad about material things, I got depressed, it never happened to me.
How to turn my attention to other things, how to forget.
I know that over time it will slowly go into the fog, but now it is very difficult for me.
And I advise everyone that they are not trying to get some lost money back.

[marcotheminer]

If you're going through a difficult time (losing good money is never easy..) then just take it one day at a time, speak with people around you, avoid isolation and get back into a 'groove' so to speak. Step by step, the pain you feel now dulls (but never forget it or the mistake is deemed to be repeated).

[mindrust]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

Gambling and investing have one rule in common:

You don't invest/wager more than you could afford to lose. If you lost everything, that means you took more risk than you should have which is the violation of the most important rule.

Read some stuff about "risk management" and you'll do alright next time.

[Oceat]

Losing your hard earned money is hard to accept especially if it is already listed as your budget money for the entire month and here you are playing then suddenly it's gone. This must serve you as a lesson for future gambling experience because stopping right away is not that easy especially if the scars that left to you was still fresh. So you must gamble only with the amount that you are ready to lose next time.

[Jating]

I understand where you coming from mate, believed me I have been in that situation many times before in my life because of gambling. Lost everything that I have work in just one day so the feeling is very difficult. You feel stressed out because you know you needed money to like let say pay the bills, put food in the table.

So I need to think very fast, like go and pawn something or borrow money to your friends. But I completely change because I don't like that feeling and learn to prioritised everything before I go on my gambling habits.

[Yamifoud]

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

How hard is that when you've to turn nothing just in wrong thinking and wreck everything you have been holding. This is happening to many gamblers but they accept such mistakes cause maybe this is a way we have to learn. Of course, it is really disappointing and making us to believe that we can double our money in gambling but it compromises in the end. That is why we should have to think about what we are doing and knows what is the possible result we've got in the end.

[leowonderful]

If you know you're going to be upset about the amount of money you're risking and thus could potentially lose through gambling, just don't gamble in the first place or set a limit so that you're less unhappy in case of a loss. Always plan for the worst, especially if you're gambling. I typically always save a part of my paycheck and only gamble a small amount of it so the losses don't affect me much, and I suggest you also do something similar if possible. You're not going to get that money back, so learn from this lesson and move on.

[AakZaki]

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

Maybe it will be a little confused if I lose money in gambling, but it won't do anything crazy. because every time I gamble the money I use is money that is ready to lose. not money that can make you despair if you lose in gambling.

[uneng]

After a big loss there is nothing to do besides learning from your own mistake to not commit it again in the future. All the depression, angry, sadness, desperation won't help you anyway, it will just make things worse for you as individual.
Change the way you see gambling and its meaning in your life, then you should be fine. Remember that it's possible to gamble without compromising your entire income on this activity, you just need to be a reasonable person.

[DarkDays]

If you managed to lose your entire salary to gambling, then you either have a gambling problem, or you just acted very irrationally once (unlikely).

Most gambling platforms have a disclaimer warning you to address your problem gambling... They're not trying to send you into debt or ruin your life.

Here's the one from crypto-games.net, take a read and act on it.

"What if I can't stop gambling?
Gambling can become an addiction that can have serious negative effects on your life. If you lose more than you planned to, please check these sites for information that can help you: Help Guide, Wikipedia. Or, you can contact us and we'll block your account and/or IP address. We truly value our players and do not want our Casino to negatively affect their lives."

[GreatArkansas]

Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
(...)

No regrets. Because I'm a person with strict decision. Like once you bet and lost, move on. Because in the world of gambling, you need to be strong, you take the risk and you should able to accept what are the consequences once you lost.

I think you felt like that is because you didn't afford those lost, like they are huge for you to put in gambling. I also felt that sometimes especially before I lost my 1month paycheck for just 1week of gambling.

[jhonjhon]

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

Losing everything at stake is indeed the very worst feeling at all and sometimes it can lead to stress and mental breakdown to some people but regardless of what is happening you should always think that everything happens for a reason and that there will really be a time that you will be able to win. Bitcoin now is struggling to even reach the $10k mark again but I know for sure that it will surely bounce back so we just have to be positive and patient.

[Debonaire217]

I don't see the direct relation of this OP to the gambling but I want to relate it somehow. Damaged Salary could be achieve if you have too much debt to other people when you gamble too much. Your salary will be cut especially because you need to payback them. Thus, implying that in gambling, for you to have a stable salary is to control yourself and void borrowing money from others just to play and have something to bet.