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December 14, 2019, 01:10:32 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard.
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December 14, 2019, 01:40:28 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. This is a Bitcoin forum. BITCOIN. It's the source on the net for all things BITCOIN... not so much for anything else (well maybe altcoins). Don't come here for advice on work-life balance - we're a bunch of freaks mostly. There are thousands of books and website about work-life balance which likely be a much better place for the advice you seek.
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December 14, 2019, 01:43:06 PM |
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That is a problem for everyone. Here's a thought. Suppose you see a beautiful woman/man that you would like to get together with. But they are already happily married. Of course their spouse is a different person than you are. But consider. The spouse is having similar feelings of closeness to the person they are married to as you would have if you were married to that person. In other words, there are other people around who do the things in life that you don't have time to do. They have feelings about what they do, just like you would have if you did those things. We are not built to do everything. We are built to do only so much. Think your life out, and pick a direction you enjoy. Then do the things that you have chosen. After all, other people do the other things, and they feel the feelings of doing those other things... just like you would if you did the other things. So, do something, so that you get the enjoyment of doing them. Why wait around trying to decide what to do. Get some joy by choosing a direction and going for it.
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xhomerx10
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December 14, 2019, 01:48:16 PM |
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^I've been proven wrong... I did say mostly though.
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December 14, 2019, 01:51:31 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. If you enjoy your job then you won't blame about too much of work so either you need to move to different job which you may like or follow your passion if you have any.Having friends and family is not a burden to be honest.
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December 14, 2019, 09:35:14 PM |
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organise your days better
what alot of self employed people do is a get a day planner and actually cross out certain times. so that when a customer calls to book an appointment/visit/service you can just say your busy with another customer(little white lie)
many customers dont actually like people who seems too lackin of work that they can turn up instantly. yes they enjoy the fast service but they question your quality if your too open its like night clubs and even bitcoin transactions. people think things are more popular and useful if the are left waiting, they think it must have a real demand and desire if they have to wait a bit.
so telling someone you can be there in 10 minutes rather than 45 minutes works agaist you. try to give yourself an extra 30 minutes so you can see ur family and do some prep work before turning up to the customer.
... also try to work out what jobs and tasks take the most time to do and find ways to do them faster or better that way it reduces how much time you waste and then gives you more free time
take bitcoin trading. instead of buying a coin and then waiting for a price before putting in a sale order. meaning your watching the screen like a zombie. just put a sell order in at a higher price your happy with and ofcourse by the time the price moves up to your order it will fill automatically. meaning you dont have to sit like a zombie watching the screen but instead get on with other things and just get alerted when the trade fills
in short: dont be afraid to allot a bit of personal time in a work calender for family/work prep become more efficient and find ways to multitask to reduce time wastage
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I DO NOT TRADE OR ACT AS ESCROW ON THIS FORUM EVER. Please do your own research & respect what is written here as both opinion & information gleaned from experience. many people replying with insults but no on-topic content substance, automatically are 'facepalmed' and yawned at
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December 15, 2019, 06:27:20 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. It is not hard, you have 24 hours a day, you can use them in your work, with your family, with your friends, and even for your sleep, relaxation, and with yourself, You need to organize your time, Give everything its time and don't waste time on things that not benefit you, you have to be energetic, not to be lazy, and always be optimistic and love your works until you finally find your pleasure and comfort.
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December 16, 2019, 01:10:10 PM |
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You follow the rules set. Divide specific work hours so that you can allocate your workload. Do important things first
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December 16, 2019, 07:06:53 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. lol it is your time and no one can take that from you. why not just stop working for at least 1 week?and enjoy life outside comfort zone?the reason why we are working is to gain money and to enjoy life ,so dont stress your self and just take a break sometimes.
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December 17, 2019, 02:14:02 AM |
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The work will choose you, lol. Or you should pursue your own passions and interests. I left all my work at the company and at home with the cryptocurrency market. I feel happy every day.
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December 17, 2019, 07:20:56 AM |
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You don't know what to do? know your priorities. By doing that, you can easily distinguish knowing the things that you have to do. If you still don't know your priorities, take time to vacation. It's probably what you needed most.
To chill and relax and after taking time for yourself, you can now think lightly of the things that you have to do. Practice time management too.
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December 17, 2019, 11:32:58 AM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. Nothing to impossible in this hard man this take easy so why you want take hard? First think keep yourself and work time then you will make enjoy life with family, friends everything. You want good sleeping then you need enough money , you want enough money then you need more hard working.
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December 17, 2019, 08:08:20 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. I agree, it's hard to manage all of the things you want to do at the same time or same day. You must balance everything. My advice is you must do atleast 2 things in a day like. Business and family. Family and friend or business and friends. Don't settle if you can't handle. Remove or resched in other day the one thing that is not very important. In that way you can manage everything in a week
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December 17, 2019, 10:05:00 PM |
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I usually have too much work when I'm lazy and procrastinate. Therefore, so there are no busy days, when I do everything in advance.
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semobo
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December 20, 2019, 01:26:40 PM |
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I usually have too much work when I'm lazy and procrastinate. Therefore, so there are no busy days, when I do everything in advance.
Doing work in advance is also kind of lazy mentality,we have to allocate our time for the day to complete our daily tasks.
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December 20, 2019, 01:36:23 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. You need time management. How many hours are you working everyday? If you're not happy with your work then I think it would be better to find another job wherein you can enjoy working while earning at the same time.
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December 20, 2019, 05:42:01 PM |
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Know your time is limited and spend it wisely on things that bring joy to yourself or help others prosper.
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Supie (OP)
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December 21, 2019, 03:43:51 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. This is a Bitcoin forum. BITCOIN. It's the source on the net for all things BITCOIN... not so much for anything else (well maybe altcoins). Don't come here for advice on work-life balance - we're a bunch of freaks mostly. There are thousands of books and website about work-life balance which likely be a much better place for the advice you seek. Thank you for reminding me, I really appreciate that. Because I found this Off-topic section and I saw many people posting a lot of things here, so i think I can post something else here. Sorry if my post bothers you and everyone.
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Supie (OP)
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December 21, 2019, 03:53:42 PM |
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That is a problem for everyone. Here's a thought. Suppose you see a beautiful woman/man that you would like to get together with. But they are already happily married. Of course their spouse is a different person than you are. But consider. The spouse is having similar feelings of closeness to the person they are married to as you would have if you were married to that person. In other words, there are other people around who do the things in life that you don't have time to do. They have feelings about what they do, just like you would have if you did those things. We are not built to do everything. We are built to do only so much. Think your life out, and pick a direction you enjoy. Then do the things that you have chosen. After all, other people do the other things, and they feel the feelings of doing those other things... just like you would if you did the other things. So, do something, so that you get the enjoyment of doing them. Why wait around trying to decide what to do. Get some joy by choosing a direction and going for it. Thank you for the amazing evidence. You're right, just do what we like, why hesitate? This life is too short to wait. Thank you for this advice. Wish you success with your life.
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Supie (OP)
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December 21, 2019, 04:01:24 PM |
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Every day, there are many things we have to do. Business, family, friends ... There are times when I really don't know what to do when the work is always around. Can you give me advice? Sometimes I want to spend time with myself but it's really hard. If you enjoy your job then you won't blame about too much of work so either you need to move to different job which you may like or follow your passion if you have any.Having friends and family is not a burden to be honest. I do enjoy my job, i do love my family, my friend. So I want everything and the people around me whom I love to be happy. But I was too focused on work and forgot what my loved ones needed ... Maybe I had to adjust myself and have a reasonable schedule for work and people who love me. Your words has startled me, I have to look at myself. Thank you.
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