I don't want to bump the fee because I don't want to use higher fee for all the 14 inputs which will turn into a bug amount which I don't want to pay. That's why I combined all of them into one input now.
I hate to break it to you, but a CPFP will be more expensive then bumping the fee from an opt-in RBF transaction.
Paying a mining pool will be even more expensive.
Waiting untill it gets dropped from the mempool and double spending afterwards might be more expensive or cheaper, depending on the average feerate in ~2 weeks.
The cheapest option will be to keep rebroadcasting the 1 sat/byte tx and wait untill the average feerate from the tx's in the mempool goes down. This can be in 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year???
The next cheapest option will either be bumping the fee or waiting 2 weeks and double spending (depending on wether the feerate rises or drops in 2 weeks)
An even more expensive option will probably be CPFP, because the total fee you'll have payed in the end is the fee of the stuck transaction + the fee of the child transaction, which is equal to the fee of a transaction with a size of (stuck tx + child tx) minus the fee you've already payed.
Everything depends on the evolution of the optimal feerange, so you either have to wait it out and hope for the best, or if you want this fixed right now your cheapest option is bumping the fee.
It's clear to me you value your privacy, so you don't have to share the txid with us, however, could you answer this questions:
- How long are you prepared to wait
- Was the tx opt-in rbf
- Do you mind "gambling" on the probability of the fee decreasing in the near future