Well we couldn't know something like that, it would be like how many IPs exist.
That particular information IMO is publicly available and there are websites dedicated to showing the number of active nodes which help the bitcoin network. One example is given by the user above. And
this one also lists the current number of nodes for bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies.
But, maybe we could calculate, almost, the number of nodes based on those connected to the default of bitcoin core when you're downloading it?
I don't quite get what you're trying to say in here. Those peers that you see when you download bitcoin core does not represent the whole number of active bitcoin nodes.