based on the new decisions and changes they've made, i will definitely move to another wallet.
is there an alternative u suggest for the desktop?
I recommend you to use
iancoleman for generating a seed phrase. iancoleman will give you a seed phrase and several addresses.
Then you can import your seed phrase into Electrum. (No need to import the wallet into Electrum as long as you don't want to spend your bitcoin. Just keep your seed phrase very very secure.)
This way you will have a wallet with BIP39 seed phrase in Electrum.
If you want to import the wallet into Electrum:
Go to Electrum and create a new wallet, select "I already have a seed" and enter your seed phrase. When importing your seed phrase, click on options and check "BIP39".
You must select the correct script type when importing your wallet into Electrum.
Select "Legacy" if the addresses iancoleman give you starts with 1. Select "native segwit" if they start with bc1 and "p2sh-segwit" if they start with 3.
Note: For your security, use iancoleman offline.