I do not jest with red tags (although I have occasionally told friendly jokes in neutrals).
Then how would you explain the red tag here? I do not think leaving nag for opinions, against a user who is having issues with users who you like (I guess) is not something the community practice. The trust system is not here to approve/disapprove each others because one likes/dislikes others, it's here so that:
1. We alert the community against a scammer or shady (who can cause one loss) users by red tags, creating flags.
2. We appreciate others for the good work etc they are doing for the community, if a trade goes fine etc.
3. In some cases we want to have an opinion about a user which does not warn a red or a green
Above all are not all but the basics.
To the contrary, it is the likes of me who get kicked out of Default Trust, leaving it as a cesspool. Your such remark shows that you have not been paying attention.
I really do not pay attention to a lot of things but once something become interesting to me and get involved, I then give my best to give my all.