That is exactly what I think. If LN worked well, everyone would be using it. But Bitcoin is no longer very accessible due to all the security concerns. Now with LN it is much more difficult to use.
Well, I might be a bit biased and I probably skipped a lot of the learning curve due to being around from the times before the lightning network was discussed for the first time. I actually started running my first lightning node when c-lightning was only available for the testnet... But I personally find recent lightning wallets pretty easy to use... They're pretty user-friendly... We've come a long way since the first releases...
I'm not saying there is no learning curve, and yes, it's a learning curve on top of the already existing learning curve users have to go trough in order to use bitcoin... But all in all, it doesn't seem like such a big deal if you're already reading up on bitcoin's main principles.
Nobody is forcing new users to know all the technical details about the lightning network... They just have to know it's a second layer that's faster and cheaper than the first layer, but the price is that the security is a bit less, so they should use it for smaller payments.
It's not unusable... I have received a couple hundred lightning payments so far, and I haven't lost any funds... But yeah, in the beginning the learning curve was a bit steep, and there's some FUD going around aswell...