Beliathon
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March 25, 2014, 03:42:33 AM |
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Please define "sexual revolution" so I can understand what you're talking about without having to click any links.
Edit: Nevermind, I'll do it for you:
Self Determination One of the first differences between Sex 2.0 and Sex 3.0 is that 3.0 completely lays the cards out on the table. Sex 3.0 offers the choice of either fenced or unfenced relationships and, under no duress or pressure whatsoever you are invited to choose whichever best suits you and your relationship. This is in sharp contrast to Sex 2.0 where you are not only not offered the choice of unfenced relationships by society but you are subject to being stigmatised, demonised and bullied if you do not chose fenced relationships. Under Sex 3.0 you are told that there is no "correct" choice when it comes to the choice of fenced or unfenced, there is only the choice that is right for you. In this sense 3.0 is completely based on self-determination. In the Sex 3.0 core design, self-determination replaces control.
Honesty With Sex 3.0 there is the honest acceptance that the Sex 2.0 framework was not designed to serve humanity as a framework for happy, healthy relationships long term relationships. Sex 2.0 was not designed to serve the individual in that respect, it was designed to deal with society's anxiety when it came to establishing lines of heritage in the face of the invention of property. In the Sex 3.0 core design, honesty replaces deception.
Love In the Sex 3.0 core design, love replaces fear. Love is the most human emotion of all. Human beings have always been social animals, have always pair-bonded, have always had great empathy and felt the deep emotional need for the well-being of another. However Sex 2.0 as a framework was designed for fear based love and as fear suffocates love, this is a fundamentally dysfunctional design.
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I approve this message, we really need to get away from all the myths that dominating modern human mating.
If anyone is interested, I highly recommend reading such excellent books as "The Ethical Slut", "Opening Up", "Sex at Dawn", and "The Bonobo Handshake"
Those four books are life-changingly good. Okcupid's "OKtrends" blog is/was also quite awesome.
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