I've been reading this thread and it's unclear if you've actually used the option "Cancel (double-spend)" on the one with the wrong receiving address.
Same here...
This is what is confusing me:
i need help so basiclly i payed to a wrong adress and cancel it with a new payment same amount of btc but higher fee to my address
How exactly did you "cancel" this wrong address payment?
Which one of these options did you do:
1. Did you just goto "send" and try sending coins somewhere else?
2. Did you use coin control to attempt to spend exactly the same UTXOs as spent in the wrong address payment?
3. Did you use the "cancel (double-spend)" option on the wrong address payment?
Without knowing exactly what you did to start with, it's going to be difficult to figure out how to fix it (if indeed it is still fixable)...