Can I update files on another one and make a new device with same address
Can’t I recreate the private key from a new device?
Such a possibility would make the devices completely pointless, as well as making bitcoin itself obsolete. If you could recreate a private key from only having knowledge of the address, then anyone could steal anyone else's bitcoin at any time.
As above, your only option is to find that OpenDime device. In future, if you want a device in which you can recover the coins if you lose the device then you should look at a hardware wallet such as a Ledger or Trezor which provides you with a back up seed phrase which you can write down on paper.