How do you make friends when you're 30+?

[Miranda Trenton]

1. Who you are, you will attract whom.
2. Do a good job in self-improvement, you can re-establish your sense of worth through reading, yoga, and writing. Participate in book clubs, such as Fan Deng Book Club.
3. Distinguish the difference between the circle of concern and the circle of influence. A circle of interest means you can only comment. Things you can't change that can only be sulking but useless. Circles of influence are things that you can change within your power.

[Damian Britton]

Enrich your hobbies and make friends with common fans! Allow yourself to be involved in all aspects, so that you can catch everyone's interest, establish a common language, and develop friendships! The field of people involved in hobbies is quite large, so this is a good platform for you to make friends! Now there are various interest groups on the Internet, you can add more groups of your own interests, so you can make many friends!

[benedikt_sofronov]

Birds of a feather flock together. Similar interests naturally have common topics, and the process of language communication can reflect a person's temperament and accomplishments, and a deeper understanding of each other can be developed from this. If two people don’t have a common language, there will only be awkward silence when they get together. This is not suitable for being friends.

[Jax Rahman]

I won’t take the initiative to expand my circle of friends when I’m about 30 years old, because I’m more inclined to maintain previous friendships. I always believe that there are few friends but good ones, and they don’t need too much. I am willing to help you when you are in difficulty. Is the true friend.

[zerogrown]

Almost 30, but I think getting along with the neighbors are pretty much not my best suit. Im pretty shy. I dont really approach any one that I dont know. I will just simply wait till something happen that might interest me to approach anyone.

[shenmedoubudong]

People after the age of 30 have more family responsibilities and may also be struggling for their careers, and it may be less easy to give so much real affection.

[Mauser]

After many, many years of avoiding most of my neighbors I have spent the last year forcing myself to befriend and actually get to know the people around me (we moved here a year ago so new scenery new outlook I guess). One neighbor sucks butt, three neighbors are awesome, another neighbor is weird (like, weird for me), the new family is great but with something Mormon-y about them.

It's really nice. I like these people and I'm glad they're around my family.

I think the best way to connect with people once you are older is to find similar minded people who enjoy the same things you like. For example, if you are into sports you could just join a sports team and connect with people their, or if you are into playing games there are usually gaming groups in bigger cities who meet once or twice a month to play board games. I meet quite a few cool people like that. Of course now with the corona pandemic everything might be a bit limited.

[plandemic_master]

It is a great success if you find friends who become your close friends after 30 years of your life. If you find such friends after 30 years, then you are on the right path, and the universe is throwing you such gifts!

[DeathAngel]

I don’t have anything to do with my neighbours really. Other than signing for their parcels & vice versa I don’t wish to have any real relationship with mine. I’m polite & stuff but I don’t want to befriend them.

[ethereumhunter]

No matter how old you are, if you want to make friends, it is easy. You can try to give a smile to them as a start. After that, you can ask about the situations around you or you can ask what he did.

You can imagine yourself as a child, where you do not know everyone, but you want to know and have a big curiosity about one thing. You can watch a kid, how they interact with someone new to them. I think you will have an idea how to start to make friends with other people. If you are an open mind with other people, it will not be too difficult to start.

[newwest]

When you hang out with friends, you will meet some new friends.
Everyone will bring new friends, and through communication, they will make new friends.

If you want to make new friends, then you can travel worldwide and make the international friends by meeting them. You can participate in the networking session that happen in some places, you can make friends of your locality where you stay , in gym, or sports which you play, classes, etc.

[bitterguy28]

When you hang out with friends, you will meet some new friends.
Everyone will bring new friends, and through communication, they will make new friends.

Depend on how the communication goes, and not because you conversate with the person meaning you are already friends .

Remember friends means you and Him has been in good terms together and has many compatible likes , because interests makes us friends .

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[xodakovs]

I still think the best friends are relatives! It's not that I don't like making new acquaintances or making friends, I just like the fact that in a family circle people are united not only by trust, such people are usually much more trustworthy

[peter0425]

Birds of a feather flock together.

Birds of the SAME feather Flocks Together.

Similar interests naturally have common topics, and the process of language communication can reflect a person's temperament and accomplishments, and a deeper understanding of each other can be developed from this.

when you say "MAKING FRIENDS" meaning you must the one to adjust and you have no need to look for your same interest .

Specially if you are new in a community , better adjust to be with them or find another place to stay.

If two people don’t have a common language, there will only be awkward silence when they get together. This is not suitable for being friends.

There is no need to be together everytime , there are certain time that we will be needing the person and same as He will need us at some point.

[watch222]

I'm not over 30 but its hard to make new friends.. I have many friends from my childhood, but can't call somebody friend who I recently met.
The new people who you met are not friends, it must spend so much time with them to can call them friends, which in the adulthood its hard because you have job, chords, family, kids.. you can't spend some time with somebody who you just met, so I think its hard to make new friends when you are older..

[Rruchi man]

When you are 30, you definitely must have had some bad experiences with people in general or friends, if you have never had an experience, you probably must have heard a story. Because of this sometimes, you are not generally open to everyone and you selectively choose people you mingle with.

To make new friends, you must be selective and intentional about the friends you keep, you must identify individuals who will make good friends fit for you and your growth and development and then you must be social, hospitable and give people a chance.

[mohammed7777]

Even though it seems daunting, making friends in your thirties is an essential.,Here's how to go about it.
Tap friends of friends.
Compliment someone.
Be consistent.
Use an app.
Get real real fast.
Reconnect with old friends.
Keep your expectations low.

[mich]

After many, many years of avoiding most of my neighbors I have spent the last year forcing myself to befriend and actually get to know the people around me (we moved here a year ago so new scenery new outlook I guess). One neighbor sucks butt, three neighbors are awesome, another neighbor is weird (like, weird for me), the new family is great but with something Mormon-y about them.

It's really nice. I like these people and I'm glad they're around my family.

It sounds like you have a good living situation because my 2 neighbors are mean old people and I dont ever talk to them.  Honestly I only know 1 of the womens names because I get her mail sometimes.   

This is unfortunate because if there was ever a emergency with my family and I was not home I dont think I could rely on them to call the authorities if I need their help.

There are always going to be people who we find are weird.  Just best you avoid them tan let them be.

[PixxelDesign]

After many, many years of avoiding most of my neighbors I have spent the last year forcing myself to befriend and actually get to know the people around me (we moved here a year ago so new scenery new outlook I guess). One neighbor sucks butt, three neighbors are awesome, another neighbor is weird (like, weird for me), the new family is great but with something Mormon-y about them.

It's really nice. I like these people and I'm glad they're around my family.

It sounds like you have a good living situation because my 2 neighbors are mean old people and I dont ever talk to them.  Honestly I only know 1 of the womens names because I get her mail sometimes.   

This is unfortunate because if there was ever a emergency with my family and I was not home I dont think I could rely on them to call the authorities if I need their help.

There are always going to be people who we find are weird.  Just best you avoid them tan let them be.

My 2 neighbours are both old and both has alcohol problems