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February 15, 2021, 03:05:50 PM |
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I've been married for 14 years... My wife thinks I'm weird cuz I always get up at 5h00 to read for two hours before the day starts... Actually I don't always read.. I just enjoy these two hours alone before she and the kids wake up.. that's the only time alone I can get in my day... And I really like it.. But I'm starting to think it might be weird or a bad sign... Like usually people love to spend time with their families.. Any married people out there with thoughts on this..?
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I think there is nothing wrong about it. Every people have different routines. For example, there is no way that I can get up that early. But I also don't like getting up too late too (e.g. 11 am). It is just about when you feel yourself better to get up.
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February 16, 2021, 10:46:10 AM |
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I don't wake up early to have a time alone I would rather spend more time on night when everyone is sleeping since I couldn't wake up earlier than my housemates. I always do it without thinking that it is weird or whatever I just spend the time browsing on my phone while I am on bed.
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Ucy
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February 16, 2021, 06:34:01 PM |
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I actually prefer to wake up around that time for almost thesame reason.
I guess people won't feel very comfortable when they notice you have been awake on thesame bed with them while they were sleeping, Or they just find it weird/non-random that you regularly stay awake around that time while everyone was asleep, Or they're probably concerned that something may be bothering you, etc .
I think telling her why you stay awake around that time will make things easy for both of you. It's important you don't get misunderstood by her.
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February 17, 2021, 09:42:05 AM |
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You are above 1 hr from mine , because i woke up at 5am but i will leave the house at 6:30 to go in office meaning the first 1 hour will be spend for nothing but just staring in the sky or for listening to Music while doing nothing.
Maybe this is the sign that we are aging ? we are thinking for what we will do progressive aside from our daily routine?
I don't know but this is what it is.
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February 18, 2021, 12:25:38 AM |
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I don't think thats weird , How old are you mate if you don't mind?
because i believe that it is depend on how young or old you are to have that attitude.
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Why would that be a bad sign? Every couple needs a bit of space once in a while, talking from experience as well. You could use that time to do some exercise also because it seems like you've got a full-on lifestyle. Maybe it'll relax you a bit.
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March 30, 2021, 10:41:09 PM |
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Is it weird to wake up 2 hours before anybody else to have time alone?Only if you do it by accident.
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April 02, 2021, 06:18:03 AM |
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No matter what time you should have some time for yourself, it is also a way to relax yourself in a busy life, even if you get married, it should not be a reason to restrain yourself.
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Ucy
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April 02, 2021, 09:05:59 AM |
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Why would that be a bad sign? Every couple needs a bit of space once in a while, talking from experience as well. You could use that time to do some exercise also because it seems like you've got a full-on lifestyle. Maybe it'll relax you a bit.
Ofcourse. Should be space to do things that are not bad. I think husband and wife are One Body, so they shouldn't keep secrets if they are both True Believer and trust each others. I believe it's OK for a good wife to know why the husband stays awake around that time and vise versa.
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April 02, 2021, 04:07:27 PM |
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No matter what time you should have some time for yourself, it is also a way to relax yourself in a busy life, even if you get married, it should not be a reason to restrain yourself. I fully agree, everybody needs time for himself. And honestly it doesn't matter if you wake up earlier or if you stay up later at night. I am more of a night owl, so I like to go 1-2 hours to bed after everybody else, but we need to do what works for us and our body.
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April 02, 2021, 05:48:38 PM |
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*weird? I didn't find anything wrong with you...Every human being has unique habits and I think your wife should accept your habits. Bad habits are when they affect your lifestyle and make it bad but reading or alone for 2 hours is 'me time' IMO.
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April 02, 2021, 08:34:17 PM |
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This sounds super healthy, I was out of work for a while spending too much time with my girlfriend and it honestly nearly sent me crazy, getting a part time just, working only 3 days a week helped me so much. I think we really need some alone time to help process thoughts and feelings, whether they be extreme ones or not.
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