How to improve speaking skills?

[Sigrid Percy]

Talking people say how others love to listen, and all the listeners are still convinced. Why don't people who can't talk don't know what is wrong or even talk nonsense in the middle of speaking, and the listeners have no interest in you. In the end, I don’t know how to talk to others like a normal person. How to practice speaking? What kind of good quality and psychological quality are needed to speak?

[Emma Brown]

If you want to communicate smoothly with people for a long time, you must first be sincere, not playful, not fake, and not pretentious. There is a saying that you are the mirror of your heart. When you hesitate, your brows are frowned. When you are happy, others can feel your happiness, and when you lie, others can feel your hypocrisy and anxiety. So when you are sincere, you have the courage to communicate with each other boldly without fear of being exposed.

[Eva Arnold]

Speak logically, let the other party quickly understand the idea you want to express, and improve communication efficiency. First, you must speak in an orderly manner. The best way to speak is to line up "one, two, three," so that the expression is clear and simple, and the other party can understand it well. Second, you must speak rigorously, and the words spoken can withstand scrutiny and are related to cause and effect.

[bitterguy28]

Talking people say how others love to listen, and all the listeners are still convinced. Why don't people who can't talk don't know what is wrong or even talk nonsense in the middle of speaking, and the listeners have no interest in you. In the end, I don’t know how to talk to others like a normal person. How to practice speaking? What kind of good quality and psychological quality are needed to speak?

You must Know how to be yourself mate , talking to people deserves seriousness and truthfulness it doesnt matter if he will Believe what you say or not , but your generosity and sincerity will surely take place.

and also always consider your words , limit your delivery that won't Hurt their feelings in any possible ways.

[Miranda Trenton]

Before you say something, think about it from the other side's perspective. That way is more suitable for the other side. Think about what the other person wants; think about what expression the other person can accept; think about the level of literacy, and use those words that he can understand. Being able to speak and do things with transpositional thinking is a watershed between the way of thinking between masters and ordinary people.

[boyptc]

Talking people say how others love to listen, and all the listeners are still convinced. Why don't people who can't talk don't know what is wrong or even talk nonsense in the middle of speaking, and the listeners have no interest in you. In the end, I don’t know how to talk to others like a normal person. How to practice speaking? What kind of good quality and psychological quality are needed to speak?

It is about comprehension. It is okay to start slow and go along with the process of understanding while you read, speak and listen.

These three are in tandem if you want to improve. You don't have to be at an excellent rate at the start and to improve speaking, you need to be talkative and apply it through talking with someone or just whenever you go like falling in line in the grocery, talk to the man/woman infront and behind of you. Start the discussion.

[Nisterse]

Talking people say how others love to listen, and all the listeners are still convinced. Why don't people who can't talk don't know what is wrong or even talk nonsense in the middle of speaking, and the listeners have no interest in you. In the end, I don’t know how to talk to others like a normal person. How to practice speaking? What kind of good quality and psychological quality are needed to speak?

Mostly practice speaking to myself in front of a mirror. I think thats way more effective especially when you are about to speak to a bunch of people or in front of a huge crowd. At least you can see yourself speaking and point out some issues you might see for yourself.

[BlackPinker]

Talk more, of course, you can say anything in a place where there is no one, such as the bathroom, and slowly improve. Try to speak as meaningful as possible

[Vincent Keith]

Reduce the output of uncertain words such as "probably", "maybe", "maybe", and "maybe". It is often because you are not sure enough about your own expression that these words appear. Especially when reporting work, you should be accurate to the number, not fuzzy. Otherwise, your boss will just think you are inadequate.

[KEN B]

Conscious memory when watching English movies.
chat with friends.

[Kittygalore]

Speak logically, let the other party quickly understand the idea you want to express, and improve communication efficiency. First, you must speak in an orderly manner. The best way to speak is to line up "one, two, three," so that the expression is clear and simple, and the other party can understand it well. Second, you must speak rigorously, and the words spoken can withstand scrutiny and are related to cause and effect.

I would agree but being too logical would leave a bad impression to the person that you are talking to, you don't want to sound like a robot when you are talking to someone, and you don't want someone to talk to you like that. What you need is just confidence to talk and maintaining an eye contact can be a good way to impose confidence. Your second advice sounds like something that you should do when you are being interrogated or being on the witness stand being questioned by lawyers but I do agree with that, although do not be too loose lips when talking, just get to the point and be playful.

[peter0425]

When i was young i am also aloof to other people in which i cannot talk directly to them because i'm afraid of being corrected.

But when i start in college ? i build up my confidence and start becoming a speaker.

It is only in our Internal mind that hinders us from doing what we really wanted to do, but i believe that once you want it?you can achieve it.

[trickbergen5]

First, stop giving a FCK about what others might interpret about your phrases and opinions. And then be sincere with what you say, ask questions a lot and obviously questions that are innocent and can be understood well by others.

[KEN F]

Communicate more with others.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes.
Accumulate and recite basic vocabulary.

[Monique Doohan]

Give yourself 10 minutes of replay and 10 minutes of meditation every day.

[cabron]

Its about confidence. To improve speaking skills, one must know exactly what they are talking about, you can't influence someone when you don't even know what you are talking about. Most of it will be solved if you have confidence and confidence can be solved if you have dress well, groom well and appear to have money in your pocket. Its best if you really have money and a source of income.

[sherryDEFI]

Don't set limits to yourself, don't give up without starting.

[newwest]

Assuming being the beginner, so firstly you should be able to have a clear thought so that while speaking there is a connection between your thoughts and the words. This will make sense to other listeners. Secondly, include live examples or some scenarios which can relate to what you talk and these stories build a good impression and easy understanding to others as well. Making complex things easy should be the key and not otherwise.

[hartley]

Hey, I had a problem with these 2 years ago when I had a project to present at work, but this problem appeared since I was in the school, but at school I was with my classmates and teachers that I know and they could understand me. I have tried a lot of things and I am ready to share with my experience: I started to speak a lot and train myself in front of the mirror, read books and record your voice and listen it to understand where you have problems and should work to improve yourself.

[Ucy]

Your topic reminds of my past life when I was too bothered about speaking in public. I read lots of articles but non worked for me. I experienced stage fright alot whenever I tried to speak in public.
My speech tend to flow easily these days when I'm deeply concerned about people I want to speak to, and I prefer to only speak when I am moved in the spirit to speak. By the way, it's better to speak about what you know really well.

Before I speak, I always make sure my mind is  clear.     Lots of times when I speak really well without much thinking, the speech is likely coming from the Spirit. That is the kind of speech I have noticed moves my listeners alots. And it works most of the time whenever I'm moved in the spirit to speak.