Ending the life - Gambling

[Vaskiy]

Have you guys thought of ending the life after big losses. Right now my mind is thinking of ending the life. It all started with just $700. I lost it, and in the event of recovering those fund I went for a loan and deposited around $2500. Here my fate, I lost everything once again. Then the recovery value increased from $700 to $3200. Here once again I deposited $9000 borrowing. Now that too is lost. My mind keeps saying end the life, with your earning you can't repay the amount lost.

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[bitbollo]

human life itself is more precious of any crypto currency or stupid FIAT money.
you can't buy! You can't lend! you have just one and that's all.

Considering your gambling loss as a lesson in your life an experience (even if negative).
Stop thinking about gambling and recovering your loss.
Just focus your self in what you like. A loss can be forget and even it's a bigger amount, just matter of time you can just forgive it.

[Mahanton]

Have you guys thought of ending the life after big losses. Right now my mind is thinking of ending the life. It all started with just $700. I lost it, and in the event of recovering those fund I went for a loan and deposited around $2500. Here my fate, I lost everything once again. Then the recovery value increased from $700 to $3200. Here once again I deposited $9000 borrowing. Now that too is lost. My mind keeps saying end the life, with your earning you can't repay the amount lost.

Sorry guys.

Better stop on minding to recover those losses back because you would really make the situation even gets more worst.Dont end up your life because financial issues isnt really that worth
for ending your life.Every problem does have its own solution, it might be that hard or you do see impossible but there are ways.Live your life even though you are struggling.
Dont tend to make those thoughts on making recovery because it will really just lead for another possible loaning action. Try to seek out some help on your loved ones or relatives
and change up yourself for the better.

[hopenotlate]

Please don't do stupid things you can't come back from.
Take immediately a break from gambling, talk with someone you trust and can understand your mood now ( a true friend, a brother/sister, parents, relatives or  call  Gambler Anonymous) and talk with someone.
The fact you wrote here is already a good sign...you are on the right path.
Money come and go but we only have one life : think about all the people who will suffer because of some stupid move on your side....DON'T DO PLEASE.

Recover the correct mental attitude ....then you will think about settling everything.

Ask for help, talk with someone and don't take rash decisions. ..and keep us posted.

[Yogee]

I probably wouldn't come to that situation since I set a limit to how much I can wager and strictly follow it.

Sorry for your gambling losses. It's not a small amount and I understand that you're stressed out thinking of how you'll repay your debts so take a break for a while. I'm not an expert on giving out advice but talk to someone dear to you.

[Hamphser]

Dont!

Nothing is more precious than on someones life and just like what others been saying where it isnt really worth for you to exchange your life just because you are on deep debt.

Yeah, it isnt really a good situation or a really hard one but i believe that you can solve it out, just dont end your life because of that.There are still lots of things that you can

enjoy up into this world.Think about your family, your wife, your children and loved ones who needs you.Think positive even its hard to do so.

[$crypto$]

It is a wrong step to end your life because it is important for your family.

I say you are too greedy to take advantage that you should be able to control yourself after being able to return the lost funds from the start with $700 and the most fatal, you ask only to impose yourself on the game you are addicted to and I think there is no other way other than you start over from scratch.

Eliminate the ugliness you love your family because this is very important support for you, therefore in the game of gambling even though you have a large capital, you will still lose a lot if this is $9k in large amounts in my opinion.

Don't end your life seeing the future.

[BTCLiz]

Have you guys thought of ending the life after big losses. Right now my mind is thinking of ending the life. It all started with just $700. I lost it, and in the event of recovering those fund I went for a loan and deposited around $2500. Here my fate, I lost everything once again. Then the recovery value increased from $700 to $3200. Here once again I deposited $9000 borrowing. Now that too is lost. My mind keeps saying end the life, with your earning you can't repay the amount lost.

Sorry guys.

Don't end your life. Sure, suicide is always an alternative, but there is never ever such a situation that you have to end your life. Pleease man, hold tight. It is just money. Start meditating and you will realize that money is not everything in life. DON'T end your life mate.

[Oshosondy]

Have you guys thought of ending the life after big losses. Right now my mind is thinking of ending the life. It all started with just $700. I lost it, and in the event of recovering those fund I went for a loan and deposited around $2500. Here my fate, I lost everything once again. Then the recovery value increased from $700 to $3200. Here once again I deposited $9000 borrowing. Now that too is lost. My mind keeps saying end the life, with your earning you can't repay the amount lost.

This can happen to a bet addict, but you will need to stop gambling, I wish you were here before borrowing up to that extent, gambling should not be seen as a way to make money, it should be seen as otherwise. That is why people experienced gamblers like to use the money they can afford to lose to gamble. I have once being a victim, and wish to die when gambling took over $5000 from me, but I couldn't just kill myself. Today I have gotten the money back, I then realise if their is life, there is hope. Just forget about gamble for now, and focus on ways to make money, ones you have back the quality mindset, things can turn around for good.

[carlfebz2]

Have you guys thought of ending the life after big losses. Right now my mind is thinking of ending the life. It all started with just $700. I lost it, and in the event of recovering those fund I went for a loan and deposited around $2500. Here my fate, I lost everything once again. Then the recovery value increased from $700 to $3200. Here once again I deposited $9000 borrowing. Now that too is lost. My mind keeps saying end the life, with your earning you can't repay the amount lost.

This can happen to a bet addict, but you will need to stop gambling, I wish you were here before borrowing up to that extent, gambling should not be seen as a way to make money, it should be seen as otherwise. That is why people experienced gamblers like to use the money they can afford to lose to gamble. I have once being a victim, and wish to die when gambling took over $5000 from me, but I couldn't just kill myself. Today I have gotten the money back, I then realise if their is life, there is hope. Just forget about gamble for now, and focus on ways to make money, ones you have back the quality mindset, things can turn around for good.

One of the common outcome if you do really let yourself getting addicted too much where you do really make out some dumb decisions just to justify your leisure or simply chasing up losses.One example of chasing losses is the thing on what op had done here.This proves out that once emotion or the feeling of recovery arises then these  actions would really be done.

Dont end up your life just because of that because you can still find up solutions towards your problem.Money can be still found but not your life.Dont make things that you would entirely regret even on past life.
There are still lots of things that you can still enjoy on but first you should treat this as a biggest and toughest challenge of your life.

[Twinkledoe]

human life itself is more precious of any crypto currency or stupid FIAT money.
you can't buy! You can't lend! you have just one and that's all.

Considering your gambling loss as a lesson in your life an experience (even if negative).
Stop thinking about gambling and recovering your loss.
Just focus your self in what you like. A loss can be forget and even it's a bigger amount, just matter of time you can just forgive it.

Just think that you have one life and if you will end it, think of the individuals that are relying on you. Admit you made a mistake, but people always make a mistake in life. Though that was an expensive one. Remember that is only money, in your lifetime, you can recover it. I understand that you loaned the money, but you can find a way how to pay them back. But think of other ways how to earn money aside from gambling. It seems that this is not the right path for recovering your losses, and I think it will never be. Talk to your immediate family and be open to them what you are going thru. This challenge in your life will surely pass.

[Evilish]

Could have been worse. People have lost their entire fortunes gambling away their life savings and assets. At least in your case it's only $12,000. Not saying it's a small amount, but if you're living in a first world country you should be able to pay it off in a few years on an average salary if you budget wisely.

Take it as a $12,000 lesson, pay off your debt, and move on. I would also stay away from gambling in future. You don't wanna get into a $24,000 hole trying to re-pay $12,000.

[john_nautica]

You're not alone in having such feelings. That's why the gambling world is so big, many people can't resist it. In the end it is and will always be money. But quitting is difficult when you've just lost some money.

[notblox1]

You would go crazy if you listen to all the crap your mind is presenting all the time, and ending a life for any reason is not a solution but escape.
Better think before writing posts like this in future, stop gambling and seek medical help asap.

[acroman08]

sorry for your loss man, that is why it is very important to keep in mind that only gambled what you can afford to lose so situations like this can be avoided. losing money is only temporary but losing life is permanent, as long as you have an income you can earn it back even if it's hard you'll just have to endure it. I suggest you should stay away from gambling for the time being until you get yourself back up again and maybe reduce the amount you gamble or remove your gambling habit completely. in times like this asked for help, do not keep it all to your self, do not be ashamed of what happened and let the people who're willing to help you help. I say this because a lot of people are ashamed when they lose a huge amount of money.

[harizen]

Here once again I deposited $9000 borrowing. Now that too is lost. My mind keeps saying end the life, with your earning you can't repay the amount lost.

It seems that you can easily take a loan after a loan. $9,000 loan isn't easy to be approved so I don't know how it became possible unless you have collateral. You may consider liquidating your collateral on that case.

Are these loans are all provided by the same lender e.g individual, institution, company, etc. If yes, then talk to that institution about your problem and arrange how that can be settled. In that way, they know you are struggling financially.

Find something precious in your home, maybe things, and put it on SALE. With your way of spending that kind of amount, I see that you are capable of earning it later on even it will take time.

Ending your life is not a solution. Don't give people around you a problem especially with your family. Be a man to face that problem.

[TimeTeller]

You would go crazy if you listen to all the crap your mind is presenting all the time, and ending a life for any reason is not a solution but escape.
Better think before writing posts like this in future, stop gambling and seek medical help asap.

I think it is fine that the OP wrote what he is going thru.
At least vent his feelings and may help pacify what in his mind.
Now, he needs to think of possible options how he can pay his debts.
But he needs to start to get himself back on his feet. First step, is to stop gambling.
Control yourself about the desire of getting back your losses, because you will incur more debts.
Then look for possible jobs or tasks that will give you income. And start saving money.
Little by little, you can pay those loans. One step a day is better than blaming yourself all day.

[STT]

These are small amounts in the bigger picture and as a human you have infinite potential beyond estimation by anyone including yourself.    You should step back from trying to correct or punish yourself for a mistake, go in a new direction without regret because humans are never negative in sum total and you can be sure your evaluation of events is incorrect in this conclusion.
    In short move on and I guarantee it will seem far smaller the further you move away.

[adzino]

Have you guys thought of ending the life after big losses. Right now my mind is thinking of ending the life. It all started with just $700. I lost it, and in the event of recovering those fund I went for a loan and deposited around $2500. Here my fate, I lost everything once again. Then the recovery value increased from $700 to $3200. Here once again I deposited $9000 borrowing. Now that too is lost. My mind keeps saying end the life, with your earning you can't repay the amount lost.

Sorry guys.

Are you talking about ending your life or ending your gambling life? If it's the former, that's the most stupidest thing you are about to do. Ending your life won't solve any problem and you will just make others suffer and feel guilty. Talk to someone. Call those suicide preventions centers. They are helpful. Talk to your friends and family. Talking helps!
And you really think your life is worth only $10,000?

[2double0]

Recoveries cannot be made through gambling but smarter investments. Though I cannot ask you to run your mind in that area because you are already in a loss. I had these thoughts when I lost even bigger than this, but I never took a loan for gambling and so it didn't bother me to end up my life for others. I have learnt that ending our life will only add up more problems in our family's life because money isn't everything, not worth it to give up our life. Just fart out this thought from your mind, chill out and do not think too much about the situation. The dust will settle, though it will take some more time but it will settle.