Poll: Are you going to get Married?

[BitcoinBarrel]

It's no secret that relationships, dating, marriages and families are experiencing shifts unseen since the beginnings of civilization.

In today's modern society, there are Pros and Cons to being married depending on one's life choices, location and ambitions.

What are your thoughts on Marriage in the 21st century, and ultimately Are you Going to Get Married?

[semobo]

Yes, as many times as I can.

No hard feelings but if anyone can marry someone then just go for it and if things are not going in the way you wanted then just get separated, being a married man will make you feel secured if you got the right partner even in the tough situations.

[acener]

For me yes I want to get Married but it also depends on my partner what if she doesn't want to even if we already have a kid?
I don't want to force her so even if I want to get Married I would wait till she's ready.

[Andreas_bakunin]

Some so many people want to get married for various reasons, but I choose not to get married. First of all, I'm not old enough to get married. I am still 18 years old, and I just finished school. the main reason is that wherever and whenever I always prefer to enjoy life alone

The thought of living and sharing all with one person is a strange image to me. Not because it is antisocial. But when I have friends and family who have been a place to share, if I get married I have to change my priority to share with someone outside. Not to mention every decision that must be discussed and decided together, it cannot be one-sided. This of course will be more complicated for me.

[peter0425]

Married life is not just a word that we can deliver, because this needs deep understanding and reason to pursue ..

We have been Girlfriend and Boyfriend for long years before finally decided to get married and it  brings us lot of advantage because we already knew each other that deep.

[bitterguy28]

I want to get married of course but we are living together for years and already has children yet we are not ready to get married.
it is our both decision not to decide that fast instead enjoy our love being together and let our faith and future decide for that.

[Ucy]

Better to get married at the right time to the right person that's destined for you. If you are destined not to marry, probably to focus on serving your Nation/community in holiness then you can't force it. And it's said that those who can't control their sexual desires could get married.

I actually wouldn't want to reveal my marital status for good reason.

[newwest]

Well, with whom I love and know the person is right for me what's harm in getting marriage should be the question and this just solve everything and then there will no other thought. When you are ready for a lifelong partnership then some ups and down does not shake the relationship and marriage just becomes the bliss.

[pjp007]

This is probably a stupid question but how can I submit my vote for this poll? 

[Renampun]

It's no secret that relationships, dating, marriages and families are experiencing shifts unseen since the beginnings of civilization.

In today's modern society, there are Pros and Cons to being married depending on one's life choices, location and ambitions.

What are your thoughts on Marriage in the 21st century, and ultimately Are you Going to Get Married?

getting married in this modern era has started to become an option, not a necessity...

I respect the choice of people who do not want to get married but around the area where I live there are some people who decide not to marry for various reasons and I see their lives as if there is no direction. getting married makes you find your purpose in life.

This is my experience because now I am married and have children, and the happiness of my children is the goal of my life at this time, till they can be independent.

[DeathAngel]

I’ve been with my gf for 6 years, we’re not even engaged. We live together & everything but we’re not in a rush to get married. We will at some point but we're not in a rush at the moment.

[Xinarae*]

The question you asked may be related to human life but most people are not ready to answer about marriage, I think people need to get married to improve their lives and through this marriage people get a new life. Relationships, dating may temporarily make people happy but marriage gives people long lasting happiness, if we notice a little we will see that relationships, dating is the best thing to do.

[BADecker]

It's no secret that relationships, dating, marriages and families are experiencing shifts unseen since the beginnings of civilization.

In today's modern society, there are Pros and Cons to being married depending on one's life choices, location and ambitions.

What are your thoughts on Marriage in the 21st century, and ultimately Are you Going to Get Married?

Marriage is a good thing. But it's time to get into it for children, and not simply for sex.

[ARTURVHt]

My favorite thing is when people try to use "whom" to sound more intelligent, but then end up using it incorrectly.

[TOM Bb]

The question itself is kind of a dig as a 'begging the question' fallacy. It implies the lovely gentleman in the fedora wants to get married in the first place. I don't think I'd respond as politely as in your example.

[ROSE B]

When I got married, my father told me the following(paraphrased):
"You're going to encounter things that your significant other doesn't know how to do, and you'll find it cute or endearing, but, if these things pile up, you'll begin to resent them. If you see that there's something they don't know, use it as an opportunity to teach them, and be willing to have the same mindset in return, and you'll grow together."

[bitcion--]

When I got married, my father told me the following(paraphrased):
"You're going to encounter things that your significant other doesn't know how to do, and you'll find it cute or endearing, but, if these things pile up, you'll begin to resent them. If you see that there's something they don't know, use it as an opportunity to teach them, and be willing to have the same mindset in return, and you'll grow together."

[ROBERT B]

What about when they won't listen to you trying to show them the right way and even after you show them they still mess it up? What about when time goes on and she gets more hard headed and you can't break through the wall anymore because unless she hears it from her friend Becky or another person other than you she won't listen?

[Prettyjing34]

I too don't want my woman to be a HOE, or a RAKE, or a SHOVEL, or PRUNING SHEARS, or any other gardening tool.

[ROSEDF]

I get what he's saying, but the way he says it makes it sound like there's no such thing as a reasonable, responsible, honest woman. (Or maybe, just maybe, such women tend to avoid him.)

Also the misuse of the word "whom" bothered me more than it should have.