thanks, but will the 0,096 BTC be lost in that transaction if the exchange and the other Coins are not in the same wallet? or will it be in either the Electrum or Wasabi wallet?
No. The coins from the coinjoin will have been setup to be directed back to a specific address within in Wasabi. So, all you have done is spent unconfirmed funds. At worst, your funds will stay unconfirmed in both Wasabi and Electrum until the coinjoin (and then the Wasabi -> Electrum) transaction is confirmed.
I would advise that at this point, you stop trying to do anything with the Wasabi or Electrum coins until they're all confirmed to avoid any other issues... unless you're going to attempt a CPFP for the Electrum funds (which is likely to get very costly very quickly, as trying to cover the fees for 3 transactions is going to get very expensive, very quickly.)