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[adeyemirichard71]

Someone very close to me usually complain of feeling depressed for no good reasons, Note: She has a good job and makes enough, shes not having anything negative happening around her to trigger such feeling, her reason for been depressed is not known to her, could it be that she's mixing anxiety up with depression? and what can the person do to stop feeling that way.

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[Chato1977]

Someone very close to me usually complain of feeling depressed for no good reasons, Note: She has a good job and makes enough, shes not having anything negative happening around her to trigger such feeling, her reason for been depressed is not known to her, could it be that she's mixing anxiety up with depression? and what can the person do to stop feeling that way.

or maybe she is not happy at all in what is happening to her life now?


advice her to take at least a week leave from wok, go to place where there is no internet and she can live freely alone? to meditate and soul search ,

sometimes what we have is not what can make us happy but what is behind those thoughts .

[chr1stian12]

Maybe she's not opening up what her real problem is. I mean, sometimes our selfishness triggers up anxiety. We sometimes think that we can solve it ourselves, but the mere fact is not. She's hurt inside and maybe not happy with her life.

[Gosgosking]

Someone very close to me usually complain of feeling depressed for no good reasons, Note: She has a good job and makes enough, shes not having anything negative happening around her to trigger such feeling, her reason for been depressed is not known to her, could it be that she's mixing anxiety up with depression? and what can the person do to stop feeling that way.

Staying around people always, going out . And doing things she loves most can also help her not to feel depressed

[boyptc]

Someone very close to me usually complain of feeling depressed for no good reasons, Note: She has a good job and makes enough, shes not having anything negative happening around her to trigger such feeling, her reason for been depressed is not known to her, could it be that she's mixing anxiety up with depression? and what can the person do to stop feeling that way.

Yes, that could be the reason.

Anxiety, depression and stress, when these things mixed up, someone who is experiencing it, they'll feel bad and they don't know the reason behind it.

Just take time to relax and have some rest.

[Ucy]

If she is really depressed and not something else, she would simply need to become a born-again and be covered/shielded by Our Invisible LORD known as JESUS CHRIST. Sheep must detached themselves from evil things of this world and avoid being influenced by them. This is becoming my only option left to recommend to people in this time. Earth covering is weakening and this world is approaching the pit which is full evil like diseases, depression, (I don't even want to mention what people who aren't covered already will feel as this world drift close to very dangerous place.) Anyone who believes in our LORD will certainly be saved from the evil. I keep praying for everyone to repent and be blessed with the covering.

[DeathAngel]

Maybe she should speak to her doctor, might be a good idea to get a referral to a psychologist which could help. Maybe anti depressant medication could he a good idea. She should take a holiday or something, lots of options available to help.

[ymckartal]

Sometimes it can be a problem if everything goes well. How Does? very simple! Let's say the anticipation or fear of anxiety that may cause something to change in your life that is going very well. The solution is people don't win or lose forever in life. Acceptance and intimidation are the path to happiness.

[adeyemirichard71]

I really appreciate you all for every bit of advice you give me.
That's why am really happy to be in this forum and have alot of knowledge, because i believe knowledge is power.

[mich]

When somebody is depressed it may be a result of so many factors that you may not be able to see.
Yes your friend may be making a lot of money but they may not be taking care of their physical or mental health.
My advice is to ask them if they need any help.

[plr]

Someone very close to me usually complain of feeling depressed for no good reasons, Note: She has a good job and makes enough, shes not having anything negative happening around her to trigger such feeling, her reason for been depressed is not known to her, could it be that she's mixing anxiety up with depression? and what can the person do to stop feeling that way.

Your friend has done the right thing of recognizing his depression, we all have it from time to time in our lives, for some reason when there is nothing to be depressed about we feel depression for something we don't know, it will come to pass the most important thing is you aware of it and you can freely talk about it with your friends. 

[OblivionFlorido]

What is normal for a man is not normal for a woman. 40 years for a man is a pleasant age - the dawn of strength, financial independence. And for a woman of 30, this is already the beginning of the end, and if there are no children under 30, then this can drive into depression.

[figliar0]

First thing to do is to name the cause of the problem. If she cannot say, maybe some psychologist can help. Or some drugs. Or meditation. When the cause is named, it can be removed.

[NastyGambler]

Someone very close to me usually complain of feeling depressed for no good reasons, Note: She has a good job and makes enough, shes not having anything negative happening around her to trigger such feeling, her reason for been depressed is not known to her, could it be that she's mixing anxiety up with depression? and what can the person do to stop feeling that way.
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Maybe she will need to start training something or go to the gym.

[gantez]

Op there is no way your friend feeling depressed without a reason because it is not said to you. She/he may have some deformity that is covered with clothes either in the genitile and that giving the person concern. Depression is traced to a reason, the outlook of people don't say how the inside is or there are some anxiety going on inside like this @OblivionFlorido mentioned below quote.

What is normal for a man is not normal for a woman. 40 years for a man is a pleasant age - the dawn of strength, financial independence. And for a woman of 30, this is already the beginning of the end, and if there are no children under 30, then this can drive into depression.

This is true that a man's biological system and age is different from that in women. A woman getting close to the reality of menopause without being married, no child or companion is a challenge and that can cause depression.

[kirya]

Speaking about menopause, is it possible to prevent early menopause?

[FuloosIO]

It doesn't matter how someone looks from the outside. People can put on a mask, and yet still feel all alone when they have no one around them.
I mean the best advice is to see a doctor so she can talk about it. And mostly don't force her to talk these things need to come from the person who feels this way.

They have to embrace what is bothering them, and that's the only way they can get out of it. They have to give everything a place in their mind.

[SpoidyMon]

The one and only way to reduce someone depression is by listing his or her problem. There is a myth that is "By sharing emotions with others will make you calm and happy".
If you are happy then share the feelings with your beloved persons. On the other hand if you sad or depressed then share the feelings with others that will help you to feel relax and calm.

[BADecker]

Someone very close to me usually complain of feeling depressed for no good reasons, Note: She has a good job and makes enough, shes not having anything negative happening around her to trigger such feeling, her reason for been depressed is not known to her, could it be that she's mixing anxiety up with depression? and what can the person do to stop feeling that way.

Turn the person into a God-fearing/God-loving Christian. This way they will have God's help in not fearing things in life.