Uniswap and Pancakeswap. People are still trying to find others and imagine that it will be something that would be normal for them, but the reality is that these two are still by far the best ones and they will keep being the best ones for a long time. This doesn't mean that the ones that you guys listed are bad, they are very good places as well, but we are talking about "best" one and if we are talking about best one then Uniswap is clearly the best one, all the others are a lot lesser in the level.
This means that they are still good, all the other ones that you like could be great, they could be very loved and good and we should use them and there is nothing wrong with loving them, but "best" is uniswap for sure, and second is pancakeswap.
I do not love defi I still think it is a lot of nonsense but I have to agree that you cannot get any better DEX than Uniswap for Ethereum and Pancakeswap for BSC.
I have to recommend using aggregator like Plasma.Finance and/or 1inch though,,, these guys are connected to Polygon and BSC also so you actually can use Pancakeswap and Uniswap on them, for cheaper without needing to connect to both separately.