The three most common derivation paths are as RickDeckard has quoted above, for legacy (1), nested segwit (3), and native segwit (bc1) addresses respectively. Most wallets will use the encoding of m/44'/0'/0' however, rather than m/44h/0h/0h, although these mean the same thing (with the h or ' symbol meaning "hardened"). Note that the ' comes after each number, not before it, as you have typed in your reply above. The fact that two of these wallets don't even tell you what derivation paths they use and therefore make external recovery difficult if not impossible is enough of a red flag to mean you should never use them.
It could be that you have created more than one segwit account on some of the wallets, and so they are now deriving at m/84'/0'/1' or onwards, resulting in different addresses. Or it could be that they use a completely non-standard derivation path for segwit, although this would be unusual if they are all using BIP44 for legacy.
You could also use a tool such as
https://github.com/iancoleman/bip39 to enter your seed phrase and play around with derivation path to see if you can find the correct one(s). Importantly, you should only ever do this on a downloaded and verified copy on an airgapped computer and never enter your seed phrase in to a live website or you risk losing all your coins.
