I even stated in my post "i might go first if you are trusted". Whats the issue?
I am not interested in trading with people who are not trusted and i will definitely go first if some reputable person is interested in trading with me.
The issue is that you are looking for trusted members but you are a newbie. Meaning that you are not trusted like the members that you are looking for. So how do you expect trusted members to trust someone who is a newbie/ untrusted? Sounds (and it is) contradictory.
-I can provide a picture of my passport to the potential trader
I know reputation on other platforms propably dont matter here, but:
-I can provide more than 90 vouches on my exchange discord
-I can provide 134 positive feedbacks (0 negative) on other forums, im even a middleman on one of them
As you said, none of the above matters here. Accounts in other platforms, reputation in any other site/ group/ channel/ forum, etc, doxs are useless.
Or we could just make small steps, there are so many solutions to make the trade safe.
Many solutions to secure the seller through PayPal? Like?
Edit: According to everything i found online a real time SEPA Transfer is not refundable.
True. And who (besides yourself) will know from which bank account that money will come? Can be from almost anyone. Do you know that transferring "dirty" money is illegal, right? I'm not saying that it is but "no one" can know it.