An abusive husband! This statement throws or puts a man in a bad light world over. The statement alone canvas or portraits a man that occasionally or constantly batters or boorish his wife; a manner morally reprehensible.
Although males are also victims of this act, only that seldom is the case for males.
The rhetoric here is, what could be the reason for a man to batter his wife without recourse to the affinity and supposed oneness they both share as husband and wife?
Could it be that character-wise, such a person is just a woman abuser that takes pleasure in battering and ill_treating his wife or it's just maybe for him, another way of showing superiority
Going further, most times the causes to these issues just don't happen overnight, it takes certain gradual processes. In otherwise, it's time-bond but in it's offspring stage the causes/factors were ignored by both the abused and abuser.
These factors may be:
i>Unconscious Loss of Interest: this is a situation where one lose interest in his/her spouse but it's not noticeable yet to the person.
ii> Lack of series of mutual agreements: when a couple indulges in impromtu purchase or decisions outside mutual agreement, it can cause issues among couples, then fight follows.
iii> Lack of submission and entitled respect: partially some might want to disagree with this (no offense anyway), but for a woman that always looks under the nose of her husband without caution, a particular event could break the carmel back, and from one beating it could develop to another and end up becoming a recurring decimal.
iv> A Behavioral issue most ladies seem to give a blind sight to certain unacceptable behaviors from their man when they might have been dating, believing that he was gonna change after marriage, but it rather got worst after marriage. Cause such behavior was/is an innate thing in him.
v> Frustration: this probably might sound unacceptable but, the real deal is that some men take solace in beating their wife out of a lingering frustration that seem overwhelming for them.
For me, I see no rationality about that!. Etc.
The factors are endless but I carefully selected a few, not to bored you guys with much write up.
N/B: Being a woman/man beater is a thing of choice which one can choose to stand out irrespective of the factor/factors involved in your own case.
Don't you think so??
