I sent a $20.31 transaction to another waller with a fee of .284 cents.
Are you talking about Bitcoin? If so, it's better to show amounts in Bitcoin. 0.284 cents is 7 sat, which isn't possible unless you're a miner (the minimum fee for 111 vbytes is 111 sat, which is just over 4 cents)
I did look on block explorer and it says no transactions found. I dont know why its sitting there. 5 days now. I didnt do anything out of the ordinanry
Ledger Live is quite limited. You can use
Ledger with Electrum instead.
Don't enter your seed words into Electrum, but follow Ledger's instructions.