How Problem Gambler Feels After Losing

[coolcoinz]

Probably feels bad. I'm not a problem gambler. I rarely play and never lose a lot of money but it always feels bad to lose. The more you lose, the more time you waste, the worse it feels. Probably the most challenging for the gambler's mind is losing someone else's money and gambling against the advice of your loved ones. After losing you know that you'll not only have to face the loss of money but also come back home and face the people who told you not to do it.

[BITCOIN4X]

Let me tell you the truth that losing is not a fun thing in gambling. Anyone really wants to win a bet, no matter how small or big the value and winning will make us happy.

I feel that I have lost many times which may have influenced my attitude and mindset about gambling. The feeling of wanting to get back the money I lost must be there, I was curious about what I could win after losing, this made me more or less unaware that there were a lot of expenses that I had spent. But what's more now, we have to be responsible for whatever we enjoy including gambling.

[aioc]

Problem Gambler often feels depression after losing
Problem Gambler often ends up in depression every time they suffer loss.  They wanted to get out of these feelings which is why they tend to continue gambling to beat the house which is highly unlikely. With this loss chasing and Post-Loss speeding, they end up losing much more money than they can afford to lose.  They end up spending money allocated to households budgets, embezzling others' funds to the extent of stealing money from others.  This triggers family misunderstanding, friend disputes, and even crime.  Due to the problem piling up, a problem gambler often falls into severe depression and possible suicidal thoughts.

Before this, problem gamblers experienced a series of winning he experienced big winnings and he thought that he has a magic touch or he has found a way to beat the house, he thinks that he can always repeat his winning run, so whenever he suffered a loss at one session he always comes back and promises to himself that the next session or game he can recovers all his loses.

This goes on trying to make himself and all around him that he can recover his losses as he did in the past and that's where depression comes in because reality comes in that you really cannot beat the house and you only gamble with money that you can afford to lose, and you should never try or even think of recovering your loses.

[dunfida]

Let me tell you the truth that losing is not a fun thing in gambling. Anyone really wants to win a bet, no matter how small or big the value and winning will make us happy.

I feel that I have lost many times which may have influenced my attitude and mindset about gambling. The feeling of wanting to get back the money I lost must be there, I was curious about what I could win after losing, this made me more or less unaware that there were a lot of expenses that I had spent. But what's more now, we have to be responsible for whatever we enjoy including gambling.

Losing is never a fun thing even to those people who do say that they are playing gambling for fun but it is really hard to ignore and resist on being that reactive on the time that you are losing.

It would really changed up your mood and would changed up your motive in the first place and if you arent that experienced enough when it comes to emotion handling then you would really be finding yourself

to be that impulsive and this is where actions do changes and it will surely affect on your initial plans and set out limitations or borderline earlier because if you arent really that
good on controlling your emotion then likely you will commit another mistake or bad decisions.

[goaldigger]

Probably feels bad. I'm not a problem gambler. I rarely play and never lose a lot of money but it always feels bad to lose. The more you lose, the more time you waste, the worse it feels. Probably the most challenging for the gambler's mind is losing someone else's money and gambling against the advice of your loved ones. After losing you know that you'll not only have to face the loss of money but also come back home and face the people who told you not to do it.

This kind of stress usually happen to those who don’t have any budget in gambling instead they took risk using their borrowed money or a money came from their savings account. Many are still chasing their losses, this is a bad habit and if you continue to gamble like this, most probably you will suffer more later on. Addiction can be prevented, if you gamble responsibly then you can be a better gambler and still have fun even if you lose the money because you know, that money is just an extra for you.

[chaser15]

Seems a bit of too much technicality if we need to really be concerned about this.

Above all of those pointers why gamblers tend to continue amid losing, the experience will teach us how to become a better gambler later on. Every gambler should know that the moment they enter the world of gambling, it's just between winning and losing as the only result they should expect.

It will now depend on the gambler on how will they react regardless of the outcome of that particular session.

[ralle14]

Chasing after losses becomes problematic however, when you gamble regularly say almost everyday, and you keep making losses and chasing after them. This is the quickest way to make huge financial losses and subscribe yourself for depression.

On top of that our mindset is also a factor since there are gamblers that aren't willing to accept or move on from their previous losses and try to recover them in their next gambling session.

After losing a gambling game, our minds disappear and we will never gamble again.Gambling is a very bad thing and we will never do it.But after some time our mind gets attracted to gambling again.And the temptation to gamble more and to gamble again.It is an addiction that once you are addicted it is very difficult to get out.But I will say only one thing that when people lose in gambling, for a short time, bad concentration works in them that they will never gamble again.

It's always easy to say those types of stuff but doing it consistently is a different story since it's not easy for some people to quickly get rid of their addiction. I'm not sure about having bad concentration but for me, it's better to keep a level head when losing so you don't lose control and switch up your strategy while playing.

[Zlantann]

Your tips will be very helpful if applied. But like you stated, be honest to yourself. A gambling addict must first of all acknowledge that he/she has a problem. Some gambling addict never accepts that they have a problem, hence they would never heed to professional advice on how to break free from this harmful behavior. Lack of employment can also make a gambler see the game as a means of livelihood instead of for entertainment.You would see such person investing most of his time in gambling houses and when he loose they feel depressed and sometimes violent.   

[OgNasty]

Let me tell you the truth that losing is not a fun thing in gambling. Anyone really wants to win a bet, no matter how small or big the value and winning will make us happy.

I don't think this is always true.  Sometimes it's the rush of having money on the line that is what you're paying for.  Sure, it's better to win money than lose money, but if you're gambling only to make money there are far better and less risky ways.  I think people are best served gambling for the added excitement and sometimes that added excitement is worth the cost of admission.  For me, it doesn't even take a lot of money and I think having $10 on the line during a game is more entertaining than getting that extra drink.

[Jody.Drummer]

Let me tell you the truth that losing is not a fun thing in gambling. Anyone really wants to win a bet, no matter how small or big the value and winning will make us happy.

I don't think this is always true.  Sometimes it's the rush of having money on the line that is what you're paying for.  Sure, it's better to win money than lose money, but if you're gambling only to make money there are far better and less risky ways.  I think people are best served gambling for the added excitement and sometimes that added excitement is worth the cost of admission.  For me, it doesn't even take a lot of money and I think having $10 on the line during a game is more entertaining than getting that extra drink.

Agree with what you said, but when it comes to saying things like this it might be easier if it involves small-scale money there but when it comes to big-money maybe I agree with @BITCOIN4X.
Indeed, in this case gambling is not the right place to get money, but on the other hand we will also feel bad when we lose, even though we are aware that the game, especially in gambling, the ratio of losses is clearly greater than winning.

[Peanutswar]

It is a community full of gamblers and by that, for sure we can get knowledge from the learnings and mistakes from the other people by that we can avoid and lessen the possible risk, but again it is on the player's responsibility to play even though we want them to stop if they have the urge to play we can't do anything with that. It is easy to play gambling and wage but it is hard to lose and experience a lot of mixed feelings that might give anxiety to the person. That's why gambling consciously.

[Ararbermas]

Tbh mate I've been there chasing losses as well and yes it didn't turn out good to me and i end up massive losses afterwards. So i decided to quit that time for the sake of my health and etc because its like you're always greedy for the opportunity but you always lose.Lol and you always getting mad when someone trying to bother you even it's important.. That's why i took a long break after i realise what I'm doing even in general. Hopefully i don't have such mindset that even they are keep losing money they continue.  

[dimonstration]

It is a community full of gamblers and by that, for sure we can get knowledge from the learnings and mistakes from the other people by that we can avoid and lessen the possible risk, but again it is on the player's responsibility to play even though we want them to stop if they have the urge to play we can't do anything with that. It is easy to play gambling and wage but it is hard to lose and experience a lot of mixed feelings that might give anxiety to the person. That's why gambling consciously.

Learning lesson on things like this is a bit hard to attain. This kind topic has been recycled many times and probably there’s thousands or more post about feeling of problem gambler because this is common when you are dealing with gambling. Gambling is design to be addictive and most of us know what’s do’s and don’t yet we are still playing because we can’t stop our self to play and chase for profit even though our excuse is we just want to have fun on gambling.

The main problem was implementing what we learned and not just simply knowing them. Applying those knowledge is the hardest part.

[xSkylarx]

Some gambling addict never accepts that they have a problem, hence they would never heed to professional advice on how to break free from this harmful behavior.  

Addicted gamblers are afraid to seek help because the society reject them if they found out that they are addicted to gambling. Even their relatives will not be willing to help them and even bring them down more. People usually mistreat addicted gamblers because they think they will just acquire their bad habit or ask them some money.

A community built in helping these gamblers will slowly break the stereotype and make them not feel bad for themselves.

[virasog]

Knowledge, discipline, and responsible gambling are what keep gamblers from being gambling addict.  Information about gambling addiction is everywhere on the internet.  And a person has the ability to learn just by reading and researching example cases. 

The problem is that addictive gamblers do not want to have any knowledge, they are not disciplined and they show no responsibility in gambling, that's why we called them addictive gamblers. If they had all these qualities they would not be addictive in the first place. These additive gamblers are like patients who need careful treatment by the doctor but it is ignored because no one thinks that addiction is a disease. Everything is of the view that gambling addiction is a bad habit that should be cured by the gambler himself without any help.

[kamvreto]

Knowledge, discipline, and responsible gambling are what keep gamblers from being gambling addict.  Information about gambling addiction is everywhere on the internet.  And a person has the ability to learn just by reading and researching example cases. 

The problem is that addictive gamblers do not want to have any knowledge, they are not disciplined and they show no responsibility in gambling, that's why we called them addictive gamblers. If they had all these qualities they would not be addictive in the first place. These additive gamblers are like patients who need careful treatment by the doctor but it is ignored because no one thinks that addiction is a disease. Everything is of the view that gambling addiction is a bad habit that should be cured by the gambler himself without any help.

if gambling has become an addictive necessity it will interfere with his own life. They will have no limits in gambling even if they lose most of their money. Those who are addicted will believe that they will surely win even after many losses.
The more he loses, the greater his interest in gambling. This is a psychological disease that needs to be rehabilitated and requires the help of the environment and other people. they couldn't cure it themselves because there was no limit anymore.
I find some addicted gamblers have a messy life and are too quick to be emotional or temperamental, it will be more dangerous and can lead to criminal acts if it can't be controlled.

[Fundamentals Of]

It is really a big problem not just in gambling but also in other aspects in life such as sports and other activities if we can't accept being lost. If we lose, then we lose. Nobody is born to become a winner all the time. If we lose in a racing match or a game or debate or in whatever activity, then we just have to accept it.

But not accepting a loss in gambling could pose a bigger problem. That's a terrible tendency in gambling because that could mean never-ending spending just to get back and recover one's loss.

[electronicash]

Knowledge, discipline, and responsible gambling are what keep gamblers from being gambling addict.  Information about gambling addiction is everywhere on the internet.  And a person has the ability to learn just by reading and researching example cases. 

The problem is that addictive gamblers do not want to have any knowledge, they are not disciplined and they show no responsibility in gambling, that's why we called them addictive gamblers. If they had all these qualities they would not be addictive in the first place. These additive gamblers are like patients who need careful treatment by the doctor but it is ignored because no one thinks that addiction is a disease. Everything is of the view that gambling addiction is a bad habit that should be cured by the gambler himself without any help.

they appear to not looking for help but its because they hide the addiction from their family which in the end, it becomes too late when its finally blurt out. too late, they've been into gambling too deep and money dried up.

[topman21]

I was always a Liverpool supporter in the Champions League final between Liverpool and Real Madrid but sadly I had to finish the game in tears.  I lost betting like 500 dollars for the first time in my life.  To say that this was the largest amount of unexpected losses in my life.  Sadio Mane and Mohamed Salah did well that day but Vinicius Junior's finish brought Liverpool fans to tears.

[traderethereum]

People who play gambling, of course, will feel disappointed and sad if they experience defeat at the gambling table.
But the disappointment will probably vary, especially for gamblers who use a lot of money.
And for gamblers who don't use a lot of money, it may not feel like it.
Also, addicted gamblers will not feel any negative feelings but may want to recover from that loss another day.
But it's natural for us to get that negative feeling if we lose because we can feel sad about losing money at the gambling table.