How do you play online/offline without your wife or family knowing it?

[Webetcoins]

i personally think that having a personal phone for the gambling purpose lol. it must be using pennies to bet. i meant if you are using big amounts of money to do that and your wife knew about that and that will be a disaster. that's why saying it with your wife might become the best thing for now. if you can be a honest person and im sure she will give a positive feedback about that as long as you have not surpassed your limit

I support the idea of carrying your wife along in gambling, it will give you peace of mind to bet and not hiding around and bet nonsense. There might be disadvantages of carrying your wife along, example your wife will make you not to stake a high amount of money. When you go for high stake, she will remind you of an uncompleted project in the house  The presence of your wife will be your regulator which I believe is fine.

If you are sure that your wife will not be angry seeing you gambling then why not? But if you already knew the attitude of you wife that she isn't into that activity then you better do it discreetly. In my case I am lucky to have an understanding wife. She is not angry whenever she sees me gambling and she even encourages me to deposit more lol but that is because I am always on a budget when it comes to gambling.

Of course, before I do this I will make sure that I already paid the house bills and already gave most of my salary to her. If all husbands are like that then I don't think there will be a terror wife but sometimes husbands are avoiding their responsibility on their family.

[RockBell]

If you don’t want your wife or family member to know that you betting online is just to do it when ever every one is not around or rather arrange your games and go to any betting shop to stake your game , I bet you once your wife or family members find out your funds are been used for gambling is going to be a long discussion and argument and almost every of your actions will be monitored so the best thing is just to go to betting shops or play while they are not around or go to the rest room to play your game or rather go out of the house to safe your self the stress.

[mindrust]

Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

I don't think you should do that at all. What do you think will happen when your family/wife finds out that you are a gambling addict? I can tell you it won't be something pretty. If you are not overdoing it, then there shouldn't be any problem. If you are not an addict and your wife/family still would get mad, then you should tell your family that it is not their business. If it is your wife we are talking about here, then you should explain her what you are doing. If she is not agreeing with your actions, then you have two choices. Do what she says or leave her.

You would really be needing to tell everything into your wife or else then you would really be ending up with that kind of option whether you would be leaving gambling or your wife would leave you.
Its not something healthy if you are hiding something on your wife or family members specially this kind of activity does really spend out money but its actually on your own choice.
If you are still not get caught by your wife until now then just do on things which you do know that it could neither be good or bad.It totally depends on you.
In overall then i wouldnt really be tending to have something to be hidden specially from my wife.

Spending your own money is something, getting addicted to spending is something else. Especially if you are not getting anything in return for the money that you are spending. Your wife don't necessarily need to know about the ice-cream you ate while you are at work but if you spent half of your monthly income in a casino now that's something she needs to know about because no matter how you look at it, you can't explain it in a good way. If the wife finds about it on her own, that will be a very good reason to end that marriage.

[Davidvictorson]

When two people live together for a long time, they begin to sense changes in their partner. For most gamblers, losing causes negative emotions that eventually spill over to their partner. If they don't know about their partner's gambling addiction they become suspicious and follow them and eventually find out the truth. Not everyone knows how to forgive cheating so I wouldn't do that.

I agree with your statement. Women are really smart. They take their time in finding evidences that will confirm their hypothesis or suspicion. In the OPs case, I am pretty sure the wife already knows but she is waiting for the perfect time to catch him red-handed. When you hide your addiction or a bad habit, the resultant consequences usually spills over to the other members of the family. What I would suggest the OP does for him to have rest of mind is to find the best time when the condition is just right to speak with his wife in an honest manner. She holds the cash and should give you a certain amount to gamble with. You shouldn't come back for more if you lose it.

[Fredomago]

I meant if you wanna be a dishonest people and then your close people will not respect with your decision especially your wife. Being honest was a very important thing. I meant if you can't even say the truth with your wife and she will be marking your as a liar. People can be respect as long as yo are also become respect with them too. I think that i will say everything to my wife rather than being a dishonest person like that.
Remember that if you have been marry here. it doesn't matter what it is and you need to be honest with her

It's a partnership that you have sworn when you take a bow, if your wife tag you as a liar the respect will no longer be there, the most important spice of married life is trust, without trusting each other will push love away, I don't want to be emotional but it will be affected so better to think about it if you are still in doubt whether to tell your wife your gambling activities.

It's much better to hear all the hate and in worse case your wife might ask you to top right away, but you need to choose the right thing than losing a good life.

[Slow death]

Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

The problem with your strategy is the following:

- imagine that one day you earn 10 million dollars, but that same day you get very sick to the point that you end up in the hospital, in the hospital you get so weak that you can't speak but you can see and hear what people say and your wife and you start to regret that you don't have the money to pay the hospital costs so they can cure you, your wife doesn't know that you won 10 million dollars because you didn't tell her and never told her anything about gambling. at that time you will start feeling sorry for having lied and hidden about gambling. the problem with lying is that one day they always catch you and at that time the consequences are devastating

my advice: always tell the truth

For sure, if you can explain the situation, your wife might understand your case and if you are not that addicted yet, she can help in limiting the amount of money that you can use.

Much better to allow your wife to handle your savings good for money managements.

Most people know that at the end of the day the casinos are the only ones that make a profit, that's why a married woman will hardly accept that her husband stays playing in the casinos because they will be afraid of the husband losing everything. Every day there are always bad news talking bad about people who are playing, especially talking about addictions.

[erep]

The problem with your strategy is the following:

- imagine that one day you earn 10 million dollars, but that same day you get very sick to the point that you end up in the hospital, in the hospital you get so weak that you can't speak but you can see and hear what people say and your wife and you start to regret that you don't have the money to pay the hospital costs so they can cure you, your wife doesn't know that you won 10 million dollars because you didn't tell her and never told her anything about gambling. at that time you will start feeling sorry for having lied and hidden about gambling. the problem with lying is that one day they always catch you and at that time the consequences are devastating

my advice: always tell the truth

Interesting story but the benefits are real that we must be honest with our partners even though the wife is difficult to accept the gambling activities that you do behind her back. But the situation from the above narrative is very different, because your wife will be very happy if you win the 10 million dollar jackpot and your wife will not confirm the details of the source of the funds. Whatever it is, honesty is the main thing for a long relationship, so stay honest even if it's hard to accept but he will get used to responding to the same problems.

[uneng]

Sorry, but if you are by the side of someone who you have to hide things, it's better that you don't have that person by your side. People who keep insignificant secrets from their partners can also keep secrets of every proportions, which might prejudice the another person in real time without he/she knowing about it.

if you like gambling, just confess it. If your wife or family will like it or not, it's their problem. We don't have to hide our personalities, who we really are and what we like to do just to please others. Of course we have responsabilities and we always pay the consequences for every of our acts sooner or later, but transparency is necessary in every relationships, so they can bear fruits and evolve healthy. Otherwise, relationships are just a waste of time and energy for both sides.

[abel1337]

I don't suggest hiding it from your wife but there are several things that you can do to hide it. If you don't want to spend another money on buying another smartphone, Try logging in into the casino using incognito mode when you are alone. This way your wife won't find any history of gambling logs in your phone unless she is spying on you or techy enough to know.

Though, It's way more better to let your wife know about your gambling habits and explain to her about it. You can just buy her a gift whenever you win atleast your wife will be happy letting you bet and won't mind you doing gambling. Hiding things might end up on misunderstanding and could end up on more severe problems. Remember! Happy wife, Happy life!

[Cookdata]

Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

As a husband, you have every reason to decline some demands women bring but if you are a gambler and have free money to throw away to casinos, you should do everything at home to make them provide the little they always demand otherwise they will think you're running from your responsibility and wasting money on things that will make you lose what you are supposed to use at home.

Why would you do something if you’re so ashamed of it that you can’t even be open and honest with your family or significant other? If you’ve gotten to the point where you’re hiding your behavior because you know it’s wrong, then you have an addiction, not a hobby. You should speak with someone and live a life you’re proud to take credit for.

Some women aren't understanding and don't want to take yes when it comes to gambling. If a man is engaged and becomes a family person, you have to settle down with some arguments for peace to reign sometimes.
Am I the only that thinks UFC aren't too addictive like the other sports, they are more of entertainment and fun than other sports gambling that can easily addict a gambler and lose focus.

[kamvreto]

this is one of the funny threads and enough to make me laugh . How should you hide from your wife to play gambling. do you always lose so you keep hiding? I don't recommend that you play gambling if your wife will be angry if she finds out. If you want to be completely anonymous, use all kinds of disguises from using incognito mode on the device you use for online gambling and using money that your wife never knows about, but that will be quite difficult. there must be another undetected flow of funds.

[Oilacris]

The best thing to for you not allow your family member to know if you play gamble is to be always conscious to take take everything about gambling that will implicate you away from you. Like if you do play offline gamble you can always try not to allow slip to be with you, same thing goes to your phone too.

You wont really be that scared on hiding something if you arent compromising something yet gambling could really be just a past time of yours or stress reliever and as long you arent spending up that

much then it should be fine but there are people who do really see gambling as a negative thing and if your wife do tell that you should stop or quit then better follow it or else you do know on where
it would be heading but if you do tell everything on your wife and she doesnt care on what you do as long you dont forget your responsibility then lucky you but if not then you should stop
to avoid some argumentation.

[Fatunad]

The best thing to for you not allow your family member to know if you play gamble is to be always conscious to take take everything about gambling that will implicate you away from you. Like if you do play offline gamble you can always try not to allow slip to be with you, same thing goes to your phone too.

You wont really be that scared on hiding something if you arent compromising something yet gambling could really be just a past time of yours or stress reliever and as long you arent spending up that

much then it should be fine but there are people who do really see gambling as a negative thing and if your wife do tell that you should stop or quit then better follow it or else you do know on where
it would be heading but if you do tell everything on your wife and she doesnt care on what you do as long you dont forget your responsibility then lucky you but if not then you should stop
to avoid some argumentation.

To me - if you are not allowed to gamble make sure you don't gamble.
Because - when you play in stress and hiding you don't see the result they way you expect to get. Doing anything with free mind brings in different result than the occupied mind.

Agree on what you had said is that whenever you do hide something then you would definitely lose the essence of entertainment or enjoyment since you do know that you are hiding something and trying
your best on not on being caught by your wife or loved ones because if they do then you do know on what would gonna happen or something that you dont like to happen.So it would be better to stop
for good and would neither quit up gambling or would be telling to your wife that you are doing gambling and just like on what Oilacris said that usually your wife wont make out any
reaction as long you are doing your responsibility as a family man.

[darkangel11]

I have a friend who bets on his phone at work, mainly on football matches and he does everything there. He bets using a separate account that he charges via ATM and doesn't do anything related to gambling at home. When he wants to check the matches he does it when he's outside shopping or taking out the trash.
The best way to keep it a secret is to not be addicted. A casual gambler won't have a problem with betting from time to time and never talking about it at home.

[Oceat]

I have a friend who bets on his phone at work, mainly on football matches and he does everything there. He bets using a separate account that he charges via ATM and doesn't do anything related to gambling at home. When he wants to check the matches he does it when he's outside shopping or taking out the trash.
The best way to keep it a secret is to not be addicted. A casual gambler won't have a problem with betting from time to time and never talking about it at home.

That would be the case but for a careless gambler such as playing gambling at home yet their wife noticed almost everything when there's a difference of the money you have left or let their wife see what they were doing. Although, it's not advisable to hide something from your spouse since most of the time they are going to ask when they already knew just to get what answer you would answer to them if ask. I guess there's no secret of what you are doing if you are a bit addicted to it, so I suggest to keep it moderately to avoid enough suspicion.

[lalabotax]

I have a friend who bets on his phone at work, mainly on football matches and he does everything there. He bets using a separate account that he charges via ATM and doesn't do anything related to gambling at home. When he wants to check the matches he does it when he's outside shopping or taking out the trash.

Bets at work? I think it is not a proper activity to do at work, only addicted gamblers who don't know where/when a suitable place to bet. TBH, I never bet once I am at work, I only bet when I have done my work/job. Betting or gambling should not bother our job, do it only in our spare time. Sure, to avoid our family knowing it, don't do it when we are gathering with them. Only bet when we are not with them, it can be at home or outside of our home.

The best way to keep it a secret is to not be addicted. A casual gambler won't have a problem with betting from time to time and never talking about it at home.

Indeed. Once we are addicted, it has difficult to control ourselves. It may lead to betting excessively. It is no longer healthy betting without any consideration of whether it is at the proper place and at the right time, even worse if we never limit the number to bet daily.

[Viscore]

Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

Well the argument won’t definitely stop because you keep hiding from her the truth. Just be honest and tell her about mate, after all your money is also her money since everything is conjugal when married. Who knows, she’ll be supporting you in some of your bets as long as you never gamble the funds reserved for the bills and emergency funds. That way, betting will be more exciting.

[livingfree]

There is no way to hide it forever since your family member will know what you do on gambling websites sooner or later. My suggestion is to talk and explain the difference between addicted gambler and the gamblers put bets sometimes. Probably, they will understand and let you gamble with caution.

The reason why someone is hiding that he gambles is because of the acceptance and probably a family reputation that will make the guy hate that they're not a gambling family.

At first, they won't understand it but eventually, they'll come to tell you that you should do it moderately and the same goes for your wife. The really best way is to talk to them.

Because a time will come that you might get caught by any of them and you have no choice but to admit it since you're caught on act.

[Sirait]

I'm not married yet and I don't live with my family anymore and that's why I don't have to hide when I gamble. but the trick I used when I was living with my parents was to not allow anyone (including my parents and even my girlfriend) to touch my smartphone and laptop. I'm lucky enough to never tell my girlfriend about my gambling activities because she will definitely tell my parents when we fight lol.

[nurilham]

Well the argument won’t definitely stop because you keep hiding from her the truth. Just be honest and tell her about mate, after all your money is also her money since everything is conjugal when married. Who knows, she’ll be supporting you in some of your bets as long as you never gamble the funds reserved for the bills and emergency funds. That way, betting will be more exciting.

I agree with you. It is better telling the truth to wife. As long as, he limits the money for betting, I also believe his wife will accept it. But make sure to bet normally, make a certain time to bet, don't bet every time (timeless).

Anyway, I am not sure a wife wants to support her husband to betting or gambling, it is something impossible. But she may allow it with an agreement at least. I'm also a married man, my wife never supports me to bet or gamble. However, she allows me to bet as long as it doesn't bother my time for family, limit the funds, and know when the right time to bet is.