Why do people withdraw their generosity during crisis?

[Lordhermes]

The world is changing and people are becoming scared of the the next man. No trust again and no one is ready to assist anyone..the show of love and unity is diminishing all over the world. Then how would people show genenoisty in Time of problem,when they can help or give assist when you're not in problem?

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[Sayeds56]

The world is changing and people are becoming scared of the the next man. No trust again and no one is ready to assist anyone..the show of love and unity is diminishing all over the world. Then how would people show genenoisty in Time of problem,when they can help or give assist when you're not in problem?

There is connection between religion and generosity, all religions teach us to help other human when they need it but nowadays people hardly have time to attend religious gathering  , this could be one of the reasons that people don't show generosity during the crisis  but I think people usually show generosity when they are left with something to give it to the people who are in crisis after meeting needs of their own family. The current economic crisis has made the life of common men so difficult that they hardly earn enough to meet basic needs. I am not talking about rich class of our society who are still making money and even during the covid-19 era they made huge earnings and I have witnessed , some of them do funding for charity organization who run free medical centers and supply foods to needy families.

[Alisha-k]

Every human being under the sun as long has they are breathing have problems and challenges. No one is completely ok no matter how much the have. This is why during crisis everyone tries to help themselves first. In our present society every one is battling with high cost of lively hood, even the rich are crying so i don't blame anyone who can't help out, and if we see people kind enough to help no matter how small thwy should be appreciated.

[Lordhermes]

The world is changing and people are becoming scared of the the next man. No trust again and no one is ready to assist anyone..the show of love and unity is diminishing all over the world. Then how would people show genenoisty in Time of problem,when they can help or give assist when you're not in problem?

There is connection between religion and generosity, all religions teach us to help other human when they need it but nowadays people hardly have time to attend religious gathering  , this could be one of the reasons that people don't show generosity during the crisis  but I think people usually show generosity when they are left with something to give it to the people who are in crisis after meeting needs of their own family. The current economic crisis has made the life of common men so difficult that they hardly earn enough to meet basic needs. I am not talking about rich class of our society who are still making money and even during the covid-19 era they made huge earnings and I have witnessed , some of them do funding for charity organization who run free medical centers and supply foods to needy families.

  The small one within your home will go a long way, therefore it doesn't matter how much you have—you mustn't have too much before you can lend a helpful hand. Some people wait till they are wealthy before offering assistance. That is incorrect; instead, donate to your neighbours. We're discussing how to create a more cohesive world. And the only way we can do it is if we look out for one another. Everyone should always be giving.

[mindrust]

In life, we all battling with uncertain behaviour, that one will wonder why certain characters occur when one needs a helping hand most. we are facing some difficulties in our communities and families, and the people you think will assist you to sort things out seems to be the ones to disappoint you.its seems to me that person don't value life, they shows concerns only when people  are celebrating and withdraw when things goes wrong. Such life should be discourage in the society.  We should not only show up when things are working, we should always stand in good and bad time.

It is just common sense. When everybody has money, everybody is generous. In the US not so long ago (maybe it is still happening I don't know) people were outbidding each other to get the house they want. There were many houses that got sold for higher than its listing price. That was pretty fucked up. For example the seller lists the house for $500k and out of the blue someone comes and offers him $550k. Why? Because he has too much fucking money.

When the interest rates rise, the exact opposite happens. Now money is expensive. Expensive to borrow, expensive to spend. Everybody needs money but no one is willing to spend.

[Lordhermes]

Being kind and assisting those in need is essential to the coexistence of the globe and is a characteristic of the human life style. taking the time to look out for one another and show care. Giving must not involve money or tangible goods; occasionally, paying a surprise visit to friends and family can count as generosity. But the most crucial and necessary thing to do at a time of distress is to express concern for loved ones. In our society, adversity shouldn't prevent you from lending a helpful hand.

[xSkylarx]

Being kind and assisting those in need is essential to the coexistence of the globe and is a characteristic of the human life style. taking the time to look out for one another and show care. Giving must not involve money or tangible goods; occasionally, paying a surprise visit to friends and family can count as generosity. But the most crucial and necessary thing to do at a time of distress is to express concern for loved ones. In our society, adversity shouldn't prevent you from lending a helpful hand.

People nowadays don't know how to appreciate your effort, which, as you mentioned, is unrelated to money and intangible, but some people only appreciate it when you give them gifts and surprises. There are still people who appreciate our efforts, but they are few; most of the time, when we say "giving," we mean tangible things rather than love and care. Mostly in the crisis, people are not really thinking of helping each other since all of us are affected, so they are just doing things on their own to survive and not thinking of others.

[Lordhermes]

Being kind and assisting those in need is essential to the coexistence of the globe and is a characteristic of the human life style. taking the time to look out for one another and show care. Giving must not involve money or tangible goods; occasionally, paying a surprise visit to friends and family can count as generosity. But the most crucial and necessary thing to do at a time of distress is to express concern for loved ones. In our society, adversity shouldn't prevent you from lending a helpful hand.

People nowadays don't know how to appreciate your effort, which, as you mentioned, is unrelated to money and intangible, but some people only appreciate it when you give them gifts and surprises. There are still people who appreciate our efforts, but they are few; most of the time, when we say "giving," we mean tangible things rather than love and care. Mostly in the crisis, people are not really thinking of helping each other since all of us are affected, so they are just doing things on their own to survive and not thinking of others.

giving, could be good advise or better ways to solve a problem during crisis. Some people are more inform than others, with their information one can be save from bad situation. But instead of share such information to people that want it most, they keep it to themselves. And cause pain for people that would've benefit from the information.  I'm try to prove that giving out material things is not most important thing when it comes to helping people in crises.  You can give them material things and they Will still die or suffer more. But when their well informed about the main causes of the crisis they can know when it will be over or how to cope with it.

However, material things are important too, because survive before any other thing.

[passwordnow]

What timing to me. There's this one family that I used to help at most times when I'm able but yesterday when I wasn't able to give them what they were asking, they treated me as if I'm the worst guy in the world. I don't understand why there are people who like them, they're grateful when we're helping them and that's common. But, whenever we're not able to give them some help because we're also dealing with our personal matters and lives, they're thinking badly of us. I'm good with helping grateful people but I guess there's a limitation on this, when they've asked you and you're not able to aid them and they're telling some bad words against you, that's off.

[Lordhermes]

What timing to me. There's this one family that I used to help at most times when I'm able but yesterday when I wasn't able to give them what they were asking, they treated me as if I'm the worst guy in the world. I don't understand why there are people who like them, they're grateful when we're helping them and that's common. But, whenever we're not able to give them some help because we're also dealing with our personal matters and lives, they're thinking badly of us. I'm good with helping grateful people but I guess there's a limitation on this, when they've asked you and you're not able to aid them and they're telling some bad words against you, that's off.

Wow, what an awful thing to do. They are the types of people who have discouraged others from acting morally. I'll tell you not to stop being kind just because some people aren't appreciative. No matter what you receive in return, keep doing good. Second, never expect anything in return when doing good deeds so that you won't be disappointed if you don't receive it.
No amount of evil can stop me from doing good to people because good always triumphs over evil.
I am aware that in this evil world, people tend to repay good deeds with evil. I'm curious about what's going on worldwide.

[xSkylarx]

What timing to me. There's this one family that I used to help at most times when I'm able but yesterday when I wasn't able to give them what they were asking, they treated me as if I'm the worst guy in the world. I don't understand why there are people who like them, they're grateful when we're helping them and that's common. But, whenever we're not able to give them some help because we're also dealing with our personal matters and lives, they're thinking badly of us. I'm good with helping grateful people but I guess there's a limitation on this, when they've asked you and you're not able to aid them and they're telling some bad words against you, that's off.

This is the sign that you need to drop the help that you brought to them and also tell them that you've done this before when they needed help, and now when you decline their request, they will be saying harsh words. Make sure they know that you will not help them anymore as your effort is useless. Many people I've known have already gone through this, which is why most people don't help their friends who are in need if they know they will complain if their request for help is denied. 

[Lordhermes]

What timing to me. There's this one family that I used to help at most times when I'm able but yesterday when I wasn't able to give them what they were asking, they treated me as if I'm the worst guy in the world. I don't understand why there are people who like them, they're grateful when we're helping them and that's common. But, whenever we're not able to give them some help because we're also dealing with our personal matters and lives, they're thinking badly of us. I'm good with helping grateful people but I guess there's a limitation on this, when they've asked you and you're not able to aid them and they're telling some bad words against you, that's off.

This is the sign that you need to drop the help that you brought to them and also tell them that you've done this before when they needed help, and now when you decline their request, they will be saying harsh words. Make sure they know that you will not help them anymore as your effort is useless. Many people I've known have already gone through this, which is why most people don't help their friends who are in need if they know they will complain if their request for help is denied.

Funny how some people tend to reject their close friends because of one obnoxious person. There are benefits to assisting people regardless of how they respond to you, so you shouldn't let the misbehavior of one of your friends deter you from doing so. We should be helping individuals on a daily basis because we are strangers in this planet. No ungrateful person should prevent you from reaping the benefits of generosity.

[Doan9269]

This is not all about withdrawal from giving to others in need when there's social and global challenge that hold people into ransom like crisis and unrest, but there must be an appropriate approach to engaging the administration of the people involved during this situations, the trust in most cases is not there because the intended allocations will not arrived the targeted audians and the releives will be properly collected from the government or private bodies presenting but when there are no ways to how they can be monitored to the last recipients things will always go wrong as never wanted.

[mvdheuvel1983]

It is in times of chaos and crisis that you know who your real friends and family are. Anyone can support and love you when the going is good  becasue they know they stand to benefit from it. Nobody wants to associate with someone in times of hardship and tough times. Sadly, such is life and since i experienced it first hand I made up my mind to have no expectations of anybody. I also made up my mind to not trust people becasue i can really tell people's true intention when they offer to help you.

[Majestic-milf]

 @mvdheuvel1983 has actually summarized the reason why some people act the way the way they do during the time of one's need and I've got to agree.

 Funny enough, I've come to understand that it's the time you expect peeps to come through for you, it is the time they desert you and hence I don't expect much from anyone.
 Some would blame such an action on either lack of financial strength, others would refrain because there would be no one to see them when they do their 'acts of generosity'. In all, no one can pinpoint why people act the way they do.

[Lordhermes]

It is in times of chaos and crisis that you know who your real friends and family are. Anyone can support and love you when the going is good  becasue they know they stand to benefit from it. Nobody wants to associate with someone in times of hardship and tough times. Sadly, such is life and since i experienced it first hand I made up my mind to have no expectations of anybody. I also made up my mind to not trust people becasue i can really tell people's true intention when they offer to help you.

it's quite unfortunate to have friends that only turn out for us only when we have event to celebrate and not when we're faced with hardship and problems. Religious, we ought to be helping people both in good and bad time. No one should desert a friend because he's in need, because he will surely come out of that challenge and you might need his help someday.

[Marykeller]

Just because someone looks good on the surface doesn't mean that their life is set up so that they are always there for others when they need financial assistance. Even people who seem to have it all financially occasionally struggle. I've witnessed a case where a multi-millionaire is pleading with friends for money to pay off his debts and feed his family.

Everyone is being impacted by the poor state of the global economy. People are currently having difficulty providing for their families food needs. Since the global economy is hurting both the rich and the poor equally, I don't genuinely blame people when I ask for their assistance and don't receive it.

[Lordhermes]

Just because someone looks good on the surface doesn't mean that their life is set up so that they are always there for others when they need financial assistance. Even people who seem to have it all financially occasionally struggle. I've witnessed a case where a multi-millionaire is pleading with friends for money to pay off his debts and feed his family.

Everyone is being impacted by the poor state of the global economy. People are currently having difficulty providing for their families food needs. Since the global economy is hurting both the rich and the poor equally, I don't genuinely blame people when I ask for their assistance and don't receive it.

Everyone can cite a justification for why they refuse to extend compassion. But no matter how little,  still show love, even if  it's not enough. Yours won't finish because of it. the economy and problems in the world shouldn't be an excuse for refusing to provide a helping hand. Together, let's share the tiny ones we have.

Only those who helped them out when they were in need or a worse circumstance are remembered. A word of caution:

[xSkylarx]

It is in times of chaos and crisis that you know who your real friends and family are. Anyone can support and love you when the going is good  becasue they know they stand to benefit from it. Nobody wants to associate with someone in times of hardship and tough times. Sadly, such is life and since i experienced it first hand I made up my mind to have no expectations of anybody. I also made up my mind to not trust people becasue i can really tell people's true intention when they offer to help you.

it's quite unfortunate to have friends that only turn out for us only when we have event to celebrate and not when we're faced with hardship and problems. Religious, we ought to be helping people both in good and bad time. No one should desert a friend because he's in need, because he will surely come out of that challenge and you might need his help someday.

I am glad that all of my friends are I can rely on since the start, though I don't have a lot of friends (just friends of friends). I can only count those I can rely on though it is only a few; at least they can help me when I need help. This kind of friend, when I celebrate things, I always ask them to go into our house and celebrate, and if they know I have big problems, they are on my side to support me. I know not all of us have this but if ever we can find this kind of people, let's treasure them and support them when they need help.

[Doan9269]

As long as you're willing to help others in nned same are some set of people willing to take that help you want to reneer to themselves instead of giving it tothe specific target audience, if we must dig deep in many riches today, we will found out that alot of bad had been done to have amass wealth by most of the rich fellows, this is when you get the impression that some people are really giving and contributing to help others in need but those in charge are the ones making the crooked diversion to their own interest and pockets.