gambling winner identity

[livingfree]

I may be slight to give the idea to my family that we've got so much money but I won't be vulgar to them at first.

Maybe it will take time for me to make that as a secret but eventually, I will reveal it to them that I've won. Well, that's one big event to my life if that really happens.

I wish that I can get so much money so that I can give it to them.

[Scripture]

We can’t simply judge him by doing this, there’s a saying that even your family can betray you so this is a good action to avoid any family problem. He can simply make a good living slowly, like purchasing a house or even a car in the time frame of 5 years though I hope he can trust his wife and make a good business together, beside that money is for your family after all.

[Issa56]

And we can only conclude that he doesn't want his family know because maybe they will live a lavish lifestyle because of this huge windfall. And perhaps he wanted, specially for this children to experience what life is, again, maybe he was brought to be like this before by his parents as well. He wants to infuse to them that they need to work hard if they want to achieved their dream and not being granted because they are rich because of his father winning the lottery.

What do you mean by you don't want them to lavish the money? The money is in your account and how will they be able to lavish the money, you should just make sure you satisfy them.
So even after making money, you want your children to still suffer, I don't think that's proper, as a father you should provide for your children and take care of them and you don't expect them to be suffering because you want them to achieve their dreams. You can still train them well with money and they will still active their dreams. I see no reason why you will win a huge amount and your family members will still be suffering.

The first reason, his relatives coming and knocking on the door to ask for money.

It sounds somehow, how will I be having money then I won't be able to assist my relatives it's kind of bad, how will I feel to have money and my relatives are suffering and I can't assist them, I know you can't really satisfy everyone but you should try your best for them, they are your relatives.

[Fatunad]

We can’t simply judge him by doing this, there’s a saying that even your family can betray you so this is a good action to avoid any family problem. He can simply make a good living slowly, like purchasing a house or even a car in the time frame of 5 years though I hope he can trust his wife and make a good business together, beside that money is for your family after all.

We are all thriving to have a better life.It would be a good idea that you would pretend that you would be building up some business or had some good work online that pays big
and on 5 years time you had pretend that you do make huge earnings which you could gradually make some property spending or purchase which it would really be giving
out a convenience for your family.Yes, we are doing our best on whats for the good for the family which it would be just normal that there might be hesitation
on some people on trusting them up that much but well its their choice and its their money after all.

[Baofeng]

It's understandable that he doesn't want to show his face in public. But totally hiding it to his wife? Not sure if that would be the right move here. And so I'm 50/50 for his reasons behind, maybe it was good, or something is not right that he doesn't want to share it with his family.

Although we don't want to be judgemental here, but the case involves a lot of money and who knows, human greed knows no boundaries. Again, I can't understand why he will do such an act to conceal and be secretive about it from his family.

[carlfebz2]

It's understandable that he doesn't want to show his face in public. But totally hiding it to his wife? Not sure if that would be the right move here. And so I'm 50/50 for his reasons behind, maybe it was good, or something is not right that he doesn't want to share it with his family.

Although we don't want to be judgemental here, but the case involves a lot of money and who knows, human greed knows no boundaries. Again, I can't understand why he will do such an act to conceal and be secretive about it from his family.

Being secretive on having lots of money you had as a husband then it would be hard to resist on not to buy things for your family like having a brand new car or brand new house which would raise up lots of questions

from your wife on where you do get all of those money which you would eventually be revealing out that you had won the lottery but the question is, would you be willing to tell all the amount?

For husbands out there, then it would really be a difficult test of being faithful into our wives. 

[DoublerHunter]

We can’t simply judge him by doing this, there’s a saying that even your family can betray you so this is a good action to avoid any family problem. He can simply make a good living slowly, like purchasing a house or even a car in the time frame of 5 years though I hope he can trust his wife and make a good business together, beside that money is for your family after all.

^Definitely right, this man who won a big amount probably knows better about his family and this is not a betrayal to his family as long as his intention is good and for the sake of his family. If I were put in his shoe, I will do the same, because this security reason is not about me, it is also about my family, those people who are around will probably have negative intentions toward my family and relatives for kidnap ransom once they heard that there is a lot of money. That is why those who won lottery jackpot prizes hide their identity for safety precautions.

[Wakate]

this is a good topic [Gambling house responisbilty to protect people data] and it should be mandatory for gambling houses to keep user privacy safe but there is something interesting that I saw in a tweet;


source tweet

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

We should not look at the man's actin had bad or trying to keep the money aways from his family but here he is the better person that understand his family and knows what could happen after if they finally know that he won such a huge amount of money.
Since he is able to predict his family and knows what could become of them then he is right and that act of covering his face keeping it anonymous is better because if he revealed his family, his friends, family even enemy might cover after him.

[Oilacris]

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We should not look at the man's actin had bad or trying to keep the money aways from his family but here he is the better person that understand his family and knows what could happen after if they finally know that he won such a huge amount of money.
Since he is able to predict his family and knows what could become of them then he is right and that act of covering his face keeping it anonymous is better because if he revealed his family, his friends, family even enemy might cover after him.

People been mainly thinking that he would be keeping the money or try to hide it to his family and soloing the money which it isnt right.Its true that we are the ones who
do know the behavior and values of our own family.If you do see that there's a probability for this thing to happen which it would make them lazy then as a family guy
or being a father which you would not be that dumb for not to notice it or being advanced.We might be right or might be wrong but he knows on whats best.
He isnt only that avoiding on his own family possible laziness but also for the sake of safety and security in overall not only on him but also into other family members
which i could say that it isn't a bad idea or decision that had been made.

[Woodie]

Am certain he was not being truth to say the wife would be lazy if she knew of the $$$, am sure his hiding his prize money from family and friends that are more likely to pester him for a share from those millions... But i like his costume it gives him some privacy and continuity of his old life style if he chooses to lay low!

[abel1337]

In my country we have a charity sweepstake which when someone won, The winner information is hidden from the public given that the winner might be targeted by bad person also I believe that it is being recorded since the government is running the sweepstake lotto and I'm sure that the data privacy and secrecy is one of their responsibilities.

We have different cultures and I believe that this man is a Chinese or somehow live on South east Asia which has the culture of raising their child right even after they are 18. To the winner who won 30million in this post, I like his reasoning though I think he should allocate something for his child and wife that the support funds will be claimable in a certain time or year and reveal that he won the lottery. I'm sure it will be hard for the family to chew that they struggle for years when they can take the easy road but I'm sure they will understand the reasoning of the winner given that they learn very valuable knowledge when they aren't that rich. 

[Sandra_hakeem]

Hahahaha....
I'm seeing something as hilarious as this for the first time in my life..it's good that they casino management accepted his outfit with him, with the reasons he gave 'em. Some might not, who knows? Some might say that they'll need their customers to see that it's a real person,-- more like a loyal client not just some telly toddles.
I totally accept to this means if they'll be an adoption in the future as that's a huge amount of funds that anyone might pick an interest in robbing? Maybe not.

Sandra 💇

[noormcs5]

this is a good topic [Gambling house responisbilty to protect people data] and it should be mandatory for gambling houses to keep user privacy safe but there is something interesting that I saw in a tweet;


source tweet

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

Everyone has their preferences and if he wanted to hide his identity with his wife and children it is his right and no one should have any objection to it. I like the fact that gambling houses give preferences to his identity and agree to hide him by making his wear a cartooncostume while collecting the prize. 

By the way, that topic Gambling house responsibility to protect people data was started by me, i wonder why you need to create another topic for this as it could have been discussed in the same thread.

[serjent05]

Am certain he was not being truth to say the wife would be lazy if she knew of the $$$, am sure his hiding his prize money from family and friends that are more likely to pester him for a share from those millions... But i like his costume it gives him some privacy and continuity of his old life style if he chooses to lay low!

True!  His idea of wearing a costume is brilliant!  But sadly his reason for keeping the secret from his family may sound good and for the benefit of his wife and kids, it sounds idiotic.  Why would you deprive your wife of the knowledge of winning the jackpot.  Who knows wife, as in charge of the family's daily budgeting, is pressured of the high prices of foods and other basic needs that give her a lot of stress.  sharing the good news with your wife can at least free her of all the stress and worries regarding financial budgeting.  

He can always hide the fact of him winning the jackpot from his friends and relatives but not his family.  No matter how I think about it, it just won't sink in and find it wrong for the guy to keep his winnings secret from his family.

[Tumanggor]

when I read the man's reason I thought hard whether it was his real reason, he wouldn't be able to keep a big secret from his wife if he really loved his wife

I actually think the man only uses his wife and child as an excuse, he deliberately hides his identity to the public so that his family doesn't get bad luck

You know for yourself that when you win big, a lot will stick to you, like a family that suddenly gets close, borrows money from you, or shows you off to other family members

there is a term; that family / closest people become "toxic" when dealing with money

[goinmerry]

He can decide not to go public but he still posed there. I don't believe that he was forced to do it.

Besides, I don't a topic like this should need further discussion. Why you guys are making it a big deal?

It doesn't happen at most cases that's why you don't need to worry much.

[fortunecrypto]

How can you instill honesty in your home if you as a father is not honest about your winning to your family, your family especially the wife has the right to know because it's now a conjugal property what he owns his family also owns, he may have a different agenda like having another family, once the family knows about it, they might hate their father and the wife might charge the husband for being dishonest about his $30 million winnings.

[ChiBitCTy]

Definitely a smart move by this man.  I'm not so sure lying to your wife about it is the right way to go, but not letting family members and close friends know is certainly a smart move.  Far too many people come out of the wood works when someone wins the lottery.  I wouldn't want the burden of people know I had all that money , then having to turn them down when requesting it.  No thank you.   

[n0ne]

What the man have thought about his wife and child is his concern. So, it is good that he hide his identity. This too will help him stay away from people who look for financial support just because he have won big. There are more real-time examples in which people have lost their peaceful living just because they won big. During those time if they've hidden their identity big problems could've been solved.

[alegotardo]

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

I think we shouldn't judge him without knowing his story.
It could be that he is already suffering from a complicated relationship, it could be that his wife is cheating on him, it could be that he is even having a separation process underway.
I think it's wrong for him, however, he hides it even from his son, but we don't know how old this child is and if he could keep it a secret from his mother. I believe, however, that at the right time this father would share the inheritance with his son.
Anyway... we can't jump to conclusions.