Do you think Father's don't Love their children?

[MainIbem]

FATHERHOOD AND LOVE.
"Some people feel that you can't compare the love a mother has for her child to the love a father could feel for him." They say that a woman's life changes, her body changes, and she sacrifices every little nutrient she has, to offer to the baby.

What they don't understand is that a mother and father's type of love can be different, never inferior. Those people don't understand that the man's body also transforms, and his mind will never be the same again. They do not understand that, while the mother is devoted 24/7 to taking care of her son and helping him survive, the father is devoted in body and soul in turn, to help them both so that, in this struggle, they do not lack anything. The mother starts her battle: to be the best mom in the world. Father starts his battle - to take care of them.

And so begin the broad working days, nights at night looking for better alternatives to build a better future, mental and even physical absences, betting everything to work, because deep down you know that, at that time, it is the best way she finds to combat her fears. Because being a parent entails the same goal: the mother cares eternally for her children, and the father cares eternally for his family. Some people don't understand that, within parenthood, there is no competition. There is only love and teamwork."

I was touched to share this to let the ladies (mother's) know about how we the men feels about our family.
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[Lordhermes]

FATHERHOOD AND LOVE.
"Some people feel that you can't compare the love a mother has for her child to the love a father could feel for him." They say that a woman's life changes, her body changes, and she sacrifices every little nutrient she has, to offer to the baby.

What they don't understand is that a mother and father's type of love can be different, never inferior. Those people don't understand that the man's body also transforms, and his mind will never be the same again. They do not understand that, while the mother is devoted 24/7 to taking care of her son and helping him survive, the father is devoted in body and soul in turn, to help them both so that, in this struggle, they do not lack anything. The mother starts her battle: to be the best mom in the world. Father starts his battle - to take care of them.

And so begin the broad working days, nights at night looking for better alternatives to build a better future, mental and even physical absences, betting everything to work, because deep down you know that, at that time, it is the best way she finds to combat her fears. Because being a parent entails the same goal: the mother cares eternally for her children, and the father cares eternally for his family. Some people don't understand that, within parenthood, there is no competition. There is only love and teamwork."

I was touched to share this to let the ladies (mother's) know about how we the men feels about our family.
Source link please keep in mind this link might be restricted to some users.

What sort of inquiry is this? Take a look at the female children that are more like their father than their mother; they always have a distinct attitude and behavior. Given that he is the leader of the family, fatherly affection is uncommon but crucial in every household. He should therefore love everyone.

[Majestic-milf]

FATHERHOOD AND LOVE.
"Some people feel that you can't compare the love a mother has for her child to the love a father could feel for him." They say that a woman's life changes, her body changes, and she sacrifices every little nutrient she has, to offer to the baby.

What they don't understand is that a mother and father's type of love can be different, never inferior. Those people don't understand that the man's body also transforms, and his mind will never be the same again. They do not understand that, while the mother is devoted 24/7 to taking care of her son and helping him survive, the father is devoted in body and soul in turn, to help them both so that, in this struggle, they do not lack anything. The mother starts her battle: to be the best mom in the world. Father starts his battle - to take care of them.

And so begin the broad working days, nights at night looking for better alternatives to build a better future, mental and even physical absences, betting everything to work, because deep down you know that, at that time, it is the best way she finds to combat her fears. Because being a parent entails the same goal: the mother cares eternally for her children, and the father cares eternally for his family. Some people don't understand that, within parenthood, there is no competition. There is only love and teamwork."

I was touched to share this to let the ladies (mother's) know about how we the men feels about our family.
Source link please keep in mind this link might be restricted to some users.

Good post, but the title needs to be improved upon. You've said it all, op.  But in our society these days we find that it's not all men who actually show 'love' because it's not in their set up. Some believe that providing the necessary needs and being there when the going gets tough is the definition of love. Meanwhile, there are men who always are vocal about their feelings and this is what is most people think is love.

[MainIbem]

Meanwhile, there are men who always are vocal about their feelings and this is what is most people think is love.

Before I was thinking this was the definition of love, sometimes is to make children and wife uncomfortable because most women don't like being disturb or distracted. Many many men's thinking is to provide for their family make sure they both feeds complete quare meals and rendering all solutions to family is another best way if showing up love. There are many men out there who don't show care or take it upon their selves to provide for their family but their wife does it yet same time care for the family.

[Frankolala]

A man is the security of his household if any problem comes up in the family the man stands to defend his family this shows that he can die for his family. Motherly love is always seen because she is always there to put the children through on what to do and take good care of them. Providing for someone is an act of love

A man loves his family and shows concern for them by taking risk for them to make sure that everything is provided for them,some men does dirty jobs for money in other to put a smile on his child's face. A man love is not shown but can be felt that is why some kids loves their dad more than their mom.

[Majestic-milf]

Meanwhile, there are men who always are vocal about their feelings and this is what is most people think is love.

Before I was thinking this was the definition of love, sometimes is to make children and wife uncomfortable because most women don't like being disturb or distracted. Many many men's thinking is to provide for their family make sure they both feeds complete quare meals and rendering all solutions to family is another best way if showing up love. There are many men out there who don't show care or take it upon their selves to provide for their family but their wife does it yet same time care for the family.

You know, women will only believe a man has met the necessary requirements when he's done these three things: protection, attention and affection. Like I said, most men are not built to openly show affection sort of, (but that doesn't mean they dont) but they do it in their own way.
 There's no scale to weigh the love of the both parents towards the child because they do it the way they know how and although it's believed by society that the mother cares most by virtue of harboring the babe for nine months, it doesn't mean the father didn't do something too.

[Queentoshi]

What they don't understand is that a mother and father's type of love can be different, never inferior.

This is the answer. Women and men show their love differently. We can express our love better than most men can and it easily seen, but it doesn't mean that men are cold and without any emotions especially for their offspring. The sacrifices men make for their families, going out of their way for us their wife and their children can only be out of love. If you don't love someone you can't make sacrifices for them.  

[Maestro75]

What they don't understand is that a mother and father's type of love can be different, never inferior.

This is the answer. Women and men show their love differently. We can express our love better than most men can and it easily seen,

Correct. Women love mostly from their emotions. That is what makes the difference. And this is why men who show emotions in love are looked at as women. The society believes that men are not supposed to show love emotions or cry in public.

It is not true that husbands sacrifice because of love. Most husbands do not do all that you described because of love or that they are still in love with their wives. They do it out of responsibility and commitment to the institution called family.

[Die_empty]

Some people don't understand that, within parenthood, there is no competition. There is only love and teamwork."

The father and the mother are important personalities to produce a total child. They must ensure the play their roles in order to raise a balanced and well grounded children. Recently I have seen families crumble because the woman feels that it is the sole responsibility of the man to provide for the home and if he cannot for some genuine reason, then he doesn't deserve respect and love. I have also seen men that insists that it is the responsibility of the woman to take care of the children and do the domestic work.This might not be the total truth because marriage should be based on mutual love, shared responsibilities and sacrifice. Like you rightly  said marriage should be a team work. The woman and the man should be willing to assist each other and not to be rigid in assigning roles or responsibilities. The mothers deserve all the praise because they are more emotionally connected to the children more than the men. But some men are also doing very well in the process of connecting to their children emotionally.  

[Ebede]

There is no parents that does not have a lot of to eat children so therefore this present our I notice that it is a fatherly love that is science that motherly love more than do they love them during the time there are 9 to 7 years old, I believe that fathers love to their children is highly expensive and the children of our days do like their parents especially their father more than their mother

[Llhxsdr]

Some men may not like to express it in words, but they are actually concerned about the family in their hearts, and it is their responsibility to take responsibility for the whole family and make the family better and better.

[BariMade]

Generally, women spend more time with their children in the family, while men work outside, the feeling in the children's heart is that whoever spends a long time with them will feel that whoever loves them more, and fathers are generally strict in life, and children may will be afraid.

[Spi_lay]

It is a superstitious belive that fathers don't love their children, fathers and mothers loves their children. However, mothers do love their children more than fathers comparatively in most cases.

[xSkylarx]

I was shocked by the title, lol. It should be: "Mothers' love towards their children is more than fathers' love." When it comes to love towards children, they are both the same, or equal, since both are sacrificing for the good of their children. Though I think this is because we are not the ones doing labor and caring for the baby, like breastfeeding and changing diapers. We are usually seen doing our work to earn money to spend on our children's needs, but overall we are doing our best for our children.

[Maestro75]

Generally, women spend more time with their children in the family, while men work outside, the feeling in the children's heart is that whoever spends a long time with them will feel that whoever loves them more, and fathers are generally strict in life, and children may will be afraid.

This is not true for all women. There are women who stay more at work than they stay at home while there are men who work from home. This men spend more time with their children at home. Times have changed, and it is no longer women always staying at home while men go to work. Both sexes go to work now. Whichever parent that stays at home should be a decision both of them should come together and make.

[Tallupooh]

none of the parents in this world do not love their children. all parents love their children. although for example, his son is very naughty.

mother and father, are people who love us sincerely. although sometimes the mother is more talkative than the father 😅.

a mother who teaches us about deep love that has no limits, also a father who teaches us about hard work and patience who always works hard to meet the needs of his family. we should appreciate all the services and affection until now.

we have to love our parents, like our parents always look after and love us sincerely, and not disobey them.

[GiftedMAN]

Generally, women spend more time with their children in the family, while men work outside, the feeling in the children's heart is that whoever spends a long time with them will feel that whoever loves them more, and fathers are generally strict in life, and children may be afraid.

This is not true for all women. Some women stay more at work than they stay at home while there are men who work from home. These men spend more time with their children at home. Times have changed, and it is no longer women always staying at home while men go to work. Both sexes go to work now. Whichever parent stays at home should be a decision both of them should come together and make.

You are right but you will agree with me that 60% of women in the world today spend more time at home with their children than men because men are seen as the breadwinners in the family so they are always not seen at home with their children unlike the women who have more preferential treatment even at work than the men who may experience more late time in closing from their workplaces.

It was during the pandemic period that most men spent time with their children at home because they were working from home but regardless of this I agree with the fact that a man and his wife can decide what happens in their home and their decision stands.

[gantez]

The two parents with understanding are to play their different roles to keep the children and family going. The father does the providing majorly because this time the women do have to provide in certain cases. The mother give birth to the child and because of the pain of giving birth she is having some affection not to be hard in discipline to the child and this is another of the role that the father play to go along way to compliment and make the child a better person to the home and society. The politics in the family is not to scatter the family but to balance it that is why the child is in the head of the father and the mother carry her in the stomach from the link.

[Maestro75]

Generally, women spend more time with their children in the family, while men work outside, the feeling in the children's heart is that whoever spends a long time with them will feel that whoever loves them more, and fathers are generally strict in life, and children may be afraid.

This is not true for all women. Some women stay more at work than they stay at home while there are men who work from home. These men spend more time with their children at home. Times have changed, and it is no longer women always staying at home while men go to work. Both sexes go to work now. Whichever parent stays at home should be a decision both of them should come together and make.

You are right but you will agree with me that 60% of women in the world today spend more time at home with their children than men because men are seen as the breadwinners in the family so they are always not seen at home with their children unlike the women who have more preferential treatment even at work than the men who may experience more late time in closing from their workplaces.

Do you have any statistics to back up your claim of the 60 percentage you have there or it is just another assumption of what you think is happening? Did you conduct any interview or survey to determine that? Even with the figure, I guess you are only referring to the underdeveloped nations because in first world countries there are no gender barriers. Everyone who can work earns and are breadwinners. This believe of women not  working was the case in Africa ten years ago when our mothers were called housewives. Today, it is not that way. Most women now have paid jobs they leave their homes to do. And most of these women are now breadwinners too.

[MainIbem]

I think that's the way I understand father's do take care of his family, father's do expressed their love by making sure his family gets all it takes to live a lovely life and facing the fact that mothers are always very closer to their children doesn't mean men don't love. Love should connotes a man taking full responsibility of his family not the other way round.