Beat friend sent me death threats what do?

[Riocasino]

I have friend he is,poor and im quite rich. He knows i like  playing in a casinos, spend time with hookers , spend time in 5 star hoteks,and so on.


We,have great connection and ubderstand each other.


Anyway i promise him to invite him yesterday to my city.


But i tell him pay 150 usd that he owes me and them come cus i hate when people in debt to me.

And he start insulting that i treat him like a puppet be rude/toxic.


I respond on same,way until it become  and we trade,insults and i told him to fick off and eat shit.


Then he said that ill regret it and send him location and stuff like this,like a thug.

I sent him location and said come chicken.

And he talk like mexican cartel thugs that ill eat my words.


After a,day he calm down and apologize and say he,is sorry and he dont want to lose friendship. And he was upset that i didnt buy him ticket to see me.


That leave,me still stressful and in bad experience.

But yet i liked the dude.

Anyway now my option block him or forgive hom wgat you think is right?

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[DeathAngel]

Just take some time to think about it but no harm was really done. If you value him as a friend then you should probably consider making up with him. Go for dinner or something & have a good chat. He needs to pay you that money back though. Just because you have money doesn't mean he can take money & not pay it back. You are not a charity so he really needs to respect that & pay you back.

[mu_enrico]

This shit happened because of a measly $150, especially when you said that you are rich etc., seriously? You know some debt isn't worth the conflict, that's why I usually won't lend money to my friends. I'm not a bank. But when I do lend them money and they can't pay, I won't bring up the debt into the conversation, except if they want to borrow more money.

If no serious harm was made, I think you can always apologize and let it be "water under the bridge."

[DeathAngel]

You know some debt isn't worth the conflict, that's why I usually won't lend money to my friends. I'm not a bank.

I never lend money to friends or family, it’s just not worth the stress. To be honest I can probably count on one hand how many times people have even asked me to borrow money. In the past with one of my wife’s relatives I just told him I had all my money invested so couldn’t lend him any.
It’s just not worth the stress, as the OP’s situation shows.

[mu_enrico]

I just told him I had all my money invested so couldn’t lend him any.

This is actually gold. I should've used this reason instead of just partially lying "I don't have money" when actually I have some.
True, for those people who are just kinda new in this lending money situation, don't taint your family/friend relationship with debt. It's not worth it, you give it free (don't expect repayment) or don't give at all.

[Uruhara]

if your friendship is destroyed just because of that then it means that's the price of friendship for you.

I've experienced it and now I realize that a friendship cannot be valued by money. Money is easy to find but true friendship is very difficult for us to get.

making up and forgiving each other is the right step. I hope you and your friends realize the importance of friendship.
about money can be discussed in a relaxed and warm manner so that your friends' hearts will melt and they will definitely pay your money back. asking or collecting money also has good procedures without having to offend other people.
good luck

[len01]

You say if you're rich but for only $150 you can't forgive your friends?
if indeed you are a rich person try not to worry about money, because money can be found but good friends are hard to find.
if you can let your money go $ 150 it will become a fortress so that he does not borrow from you again.
like I do if a friend borrows from me and can't pay him back, I'll let him go and I can build a fort so he won't borrow money again.

So my advice fix your friendship and forget about that $150

[mich]

Lend me money and I’ll pay you later. You did not do anything wrong with asking your friend to hang out and if he had the $150.00, he owes you. Money first should not be put in between friends. However, it’s all said and done, he doesn’t understand that is just like stealing from you, when he knows he owes you money.

Add death threats, which today shouldn’t be taken carelessly. That is scary, regardless of how you handled the situation, you are not at fault. No one deserves to have their life to be threatened. It is too bad that you are put in danger with such behavior. That $150.00, is worth less than losing your life.