<...> some people in the forum are already feeling frustrated of not having much merit,while some person's posses merits,and giving it out seems hard.what can be done to get this merit.
Which people? Can you show us some examples?
Anyway, there are several merit-sharing topics started by some merit sources. If you think that a post of yours or someone else's deserved merit but was overlooked, posting it to one of those threads is likely your best bet at getting warranted attention from the merit sources and getting some merit.
Those are the people who doesn't make an effort even in doing a research on how or what way we can get merits. I am sure you know that they are only waiting to be spoon-fed with information or details that they themselves didn't put much effort in learning. So, I guess those are the people he meant clearly, you know what I mean. well, there's nothing we can do about it unless someone near from that person to guide them and teach them about advantages and disadvantages of it.