Dealing with low self-esteem

[Majestic-milf]

 Self esteem is the way we regard ourselves, the values we place. Its normal to criticize ourselves once in a while, but where low self-esteem creeps in is where we constantly degrade ourselves or judge negatively.
 Low self-esteem constantly leaves one feeling inadequate; always striving for perfection. This attitude can sometimes push one into depression, hopelessness and even entertain suicidal thoughts.

 I've seen peeps who go out of their comfort zones just to lead a lifestyle which they believe is acceptable by their peers and lose themselves in the process.
 This is so sad as most people dealing with low self-esteem find it difficult to appreciate themselves, always downplaying their positive attributes and abilities, regard themselves as inferior to their peers and so on.

 Although there are ways to help peeps dealing with such a feeling such as
- building positive relationships
- appreciating and complimenting yourself and all that. But it's looking like it's not enough because whether we believe it or not, it is slowly depriving us of active and innovative minds that have been held prisoner by low self-esteem. Your input would be appreciated.

[o48o]

Self esteem is the way we regard ourselves, the values we place. Its normal to criticize ourselves once in a while, but where low self-esteem creeps in is where we constantly degrade ourselves or judge negatively.
 Low self-esteem constantly leaves one feeling inadequate; always striving for perfection. This attitude can sometimes push one into depression, hopelessness and even entertain suicidal thoughts.

 I've seen peeps who go out of their comfort zones just to lead a lifestyle which they believe is acceptable by their peers and lose themselves in the process.
 This is so sad as most people dealing with low self-esteem find it difficult to appreciate themselves, always downplaying their positive attributes and abilities, regard themselves as inferior to their peers and so on.

 Although there are ways to help peeps dealing with such a feeling such as
- building positive relationships
- appreciating and complimenting yourself and all that. But it's looking like it's not enough because whether we believe it or not, it is slowly depriving us of active and innovative minds that have been held prisoner by low self-esteem. Your input would be appreciated.

Choosing wrong people to hang out with is pretty much worst thing you can do your self-esteem. Luckily in most cases in life, you can choose your own friends.

But even in healthy relationships you still need to do most of the heavy lifting and emotional work yourself. You need to work hard on yourself and with your feelings for that healthy relationship.

People with low self-esteem often make the mistake of getting hooked on pity as fish out the complementaries from people around them. Occiasionally everyone likes some comfort but for people with low self-esteem that's like heroin. They still need it. Even more then rest of people

But as it takes away their problems and makes them happy, they get hooked, specially when they don't need to do any work for it. (except to hint and sort of beg for compliments), But not by asking, just by insisting how am ugly or loser, etc they think they are themselves.

This however is counterproductive as self esteem doesn't come from inside themselves. They need a another person giving it to them constantly. And in a worst case they don't see how heavy and taxng this behaviour is to their friends. Lifting someone up constantly isnt healthy. If they don't pull their weight, it gets too heavy and those new friends are sadly leaving too.

[boyptc]

For one to increase his self steem needs to appreciate himself/herself first. Without that appreciation, you'll be dwelling into negativities on this world and to those words that have been told to you negatively.

A person that can easily be affected by what others are telling him/her will certainly impact their self steem which will turn to be lower.

Don't be affected by what others word, if you're confident of what you are right now then improve yourself and don't let others bother you. As long as you're not stepping in other people and you're being productive with what you do and your attitude, you have to keep it up.

[Majestic-milf]

 Oftentimes, these individuals who deal with low self esteem are usually introverted and try to keep to themselves to avoid being criticised or judged wrongly. Some suffer this hurtful experience right from childhood and hardly share with peeps for fear of not being understood. Some even resort to having eating disorders or stress eat.

 Yeah, before healing takes place, one has to be ready to let go of those hurtful and debasing thoughts. Reading books on how to boost low self-esteem helps. Constantly reciting positive words could also do the trick too.

[yazher]

You just need to have self-contentment and all you need is a contented and secure life which truly no money can buy. If you are contented with any little things you have and you are secure from any dangers every day, then you are contented and you don't need to think about whatever is in people's minds. Just like how the story of the donkey goes, people always have their own opinion about you but that's not really counted because you truly know yourself and you can still make things work without listening to them as long as you know it's the right thing to do.

[Fiatless]

Low esteem means to hate yourself or feeling that people are better than you. It is related to inferiority complex. It is the drive or wish to be like someone else. I believe that people that go for cosmetic surgery or those that try to change the color of their skin have low esteem. High esteem is loving yourself the way you are even in the face of criticism and mockery. Why would somebody want to change his sex or reshape some parts of the body.

The first step to break free from low esteem is to appreciate yourself they way you are.
Second, you must know that you are unique.
Third, you must have the consciousness that you posses gifts and abilities that most people don't have.
Fourth, understand that no-matter how you act or look people would still criticize you.
Fifth you must be strong to withstand criticism, just understand that what people say are their own view and not the general opinion about you.
Sixth, Stay around people that appreciate and encourage you and not those that talk down on you.

     

[KupaCrypto]

Low esteem means to hate yourself or feeling that people are better than you. It is related to inferiority complex. It is the drive or wish to be like someone else. I believe that people that go for cosmetic surgery or those that try to change the color of their skin have low esteem. High esteem is loving yourself the way you are even in the face of criticism and mockery. Why would somebody want to change his sex or reshape some parts of the body.

The first step to break free from low esteem is to appreciate yourself they way you are.
Second, you must know that you are unique.
Third, you must have the consciousness that you posses gifts and abilities that most people don't have.
Fourth, understand that no-matter how you act or look people would still criticize you.
Fifth you must be strong to withstand criticism, just understand that what people say are their own view and not the general opinion about you.
Sixth, Stay around people that appreciate and encourage you and not those that talk down on you.

     

Yea you need start by seeing yourself as the best, don't think about what people say about you negatively,  See yourself as the best version of its kind and don't feel intimidated by anyone, interact and communicate with people, you know sometimes staying indoors kills someone's self esteem, so coming out and meeting people will also help deal with it,
And I don't think going for cosmetic surgery has anything to do with self esteem, as self esteem has to do with who you are from the inside, while cosmetic surgery has to do with you wanting to be more Beautiful, the truth is before anyone else believes in you you have to start by believing in yourself.

[Sexylizzy2813]

Sometimes low mood is one of the factors and it makes one to compares his or herself negatively with someone else. It can make some to even think of suicide because is like you think you are from a different world and things are not going your way.
People with low esteem may feel that guilt that people will stop liking them for doing anything or to maintain a boundary. Unhappy childhood where parents are having one problem or the other can critically affect the child to even relate children around. Sometimes people may even think such children are witches because they act odd.

[BADecker]

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Yea you need start by seeing yourself as the best, don't think about what people say about you negatively,  See yourself as the best version of its kind and don't feel intimidated by anyone, interact and communicate with people, you know sometimes staying indoors kills someone's self esteem, so coming out and meeting people will also help deal with it,
And I don't think going for cosmetic surgery has anything to do with self esteem, as self esteem has to do with who you are from the inside, while cosmetic surgery has to do with you wanting to be more Beautiful, the truth is before anyone else believes in you you have to start by believing in yourself.

When you are 90 years old, with no hair, no teeth, wrinkled skin, dilapidated muscles, withering bones, weak thinking ability and memory, etc., etc.... then recognize that you are the best, lol.

If you don't recognize that Jesus GAVE to you as a GIFT all the goodness and ability that you have, and that He is the answer to getting it back after you have thrown it away, then you are living a lie in your self-esteem.


SOUL Value


https://globalwarming-arclein.blogspot.com/2023/01/soul-value.html
You are already given many gifts when you come to earth and are designed to see things in a certain way. These sights are gifted in their own way and Blind too. Blindness is where the real gifts lie. When you can feel instead of see, you can find anything/everything you desire and fill up on. It gives you fulfillment and peace within. The blindness is eternal and yet can lead and uncover bigger purpose and light to awaken within you. Knowing blindness exists can ensure unlimited success for you and those around you. Be in the blindness.

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[Lordhermes]

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Yea you need start by seeing yourself as the best, don't think about what people say about you negatively,  See yourself as the best version of its kind and don't feel intimidated by anyone, interact and communicate with people, you know sometimes staying indoors kills someone's self esteem, so coming out and meeting people will also help deal with it,
And I don't think going for cosmetic surgery has anything to do with self esteem, as self esteem has to do with who you are from the inside, while cosmetic surgery has to do with you wanting to be more Beautiful, the truth is before anyone else believes in you you have to start by believing in yourself.

When you are 90 years old, with no hair, no teeth, wrinkled skin, dilapidated muscles, withering bones, weak thinking ability and memory, etc., etc.... then recognize that you are the best, lol.

If you don't recognize that Jesus GAVE to you as a GIFT all the goodness and ability that you have, and that He is the answer to getting it back after you have thrown it away, then you are living a lie in your self-esteem.


SOUL Value


https://globalwarming-arclein.blogspot.com/2023/01/soul-value.html
You are already given many gifts when you come to earth and are designed to see things in a certain way. These sights are gifted in their own way and Blind too. Blindness is where the real gifts lie. When you can feel instead of see, you can find anything/everything you desire and fill up on. It gives you fulfillment and peace within. The blindness is eternal and yet can lead and uncover bigger purpose and light to awaken within you. Knowing blindness exists can ensure unlimited success for you and those around you. Be in the blindness.

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I agree with you, one must build himself up, you don't need anyone to do it for you. 
Low self esteem is man made,  it's wasn't given to us by our creator. God gives us the spirit of boldness. But because of oppression and wants. Some humans feels they're not worth something. 

Low self esteem people, compare them with others. They forget that human beings are born with a special gift. If your gift haven't been tapped you have nothing to worry about than try to discover ur gift and deploy it to the world.

[tvbcof]

Self esteem is the way we regard ourselves, the values we place. Its normal to criticize ourselves once in a while, but where low self-esteem creeps in is where we constantly degrade ourselves or judge negatively.
 Low self-esteem constantly leaves one feeling inadequate; always striving for perfection. This attitude can sometimes push one into depression, hopelessness and even entertain suicidal thoughts.

 I've seen peeps who go out of their comfort zones just to lead a lifestyle which they believe is acceptable by their peers and lose themselves in the process.
 This is so sad as most people dealing with low self-esteem find it difficult to appreciate themselves, always downplaying their positive attributes and abilities, regard themselves as inferior to their peers and so on.

 Although there are ways to help peeps dealing with such a feeling such as
- building positive relationships
- appreciating and complimenting yourself and all that. But it's looking like it's not enough because whether we believe it or not, it is slowly depriving us of active and innovative minds that have been held prisoner by low self-esteem. Your input would be appreciated.

The reason you are having this problem is that you are trying desperately to fit in to a general ideology which is growing more and more absurd with each passing day.  For such people it may be effective to kind of wipe the slate clean-ish and get a new intellectual start while analyzing how you got nudged over into your present state.  I'm not saying it will work for you, but it's possibly worth a shot.

[aoluain]

Self esteem is the way we regard ourselves, the values we place. Its normal to criticize ourselves once in a while, but where low self-esteem creeps in is where we constantly degrade ourselves or judge negatively.
 Low self-esteem constantly leaves one feeling inadequate; always striving for perfection. This attitude can sometimes push one into depression, hopelessness and even entertain suicidal thoughts.

 I've seen peeps who go out of their comfort zones just to lead a lifestyle which they believe is acceptable by their peers and lose themselves in the process.
 This is so sad as most people dealing with low self-esteem find it difficult to appreciate themselves, always downplaying their positive attributes and abilities, regard themselves as inferior to their peers and so on.

 Although there are ways to help peeps dealing with such a feeling such as
- building positive relationships
- appreciating and complimenting yourself and all that. But it's looking like it's not enough because whether we believe it or not, it is slowly depriving us of active and innovative minds that have been held prisoner by low self-esteem. Your input would be appreciated.

The reason you are having this problem is that you are trying desperately to fit in to a general ideology which is growing more and more absurd with each passing day.  For such people it may be effective to kind of wipe the slate clean-ish and get a new intellectual start while analyzing how you got nudged over into your present state.  I'm not saying it will work for you, but it's possibly worth a shot.

This could be partly true, generally we have to try to confirm to what society creates
as the norm and this can be difficult for people with low self esteem but it's not necessarily
the cause.

The early years of a child's development are crucial. Teaching children to be able to deal
with problems such as bullying for example are extremely important, if those lessons are not
learned they can manifest into mental issues and the most serious is suicidal thoughts.

Overcoming the issue of low self esteem will certainly help with positive friends and family
and may need professional help.

[Cecilia Joytwin]

Low self esteem can affect every part of one's life.However, by taking care of yourself, you may raise your self-esteem and lessen the impact it has on your day-to-day activities.

Self-affirming and self-care practices are not universal. Some things to try are:

using positive affirmations while in a state of mindfulness and meditation to let go of the past and cease worrying about the future daily journaling, self-care, use of stress-reduction methods like deep breathing, and physical exercise.

[KupaCrypto]

Sometimes low mood is one of the factors and it makes one to compares his or herself negatively with someone else. It can make some to even think of suicide because is like you think you are from a different world and things are not going your way.
People with low esteem may feel that guilt that people will stop liking them for doing anything or to maintain a boundary. Unhappy childhood where parents are having one problem or the other can critically affect the child to even relate children around. Sometimes people may even think such children are witches because they act odd.

Most times, low self esteem can be attributed to lack of funds and resources, maybe you are not doing well financially and you see a friend of yours doing well you now become intimidated there by reducing your own self confidence and self esteem.
Low self esteem can also be caused by constantly staying away from people, most reserved persons normally have low self esteem, even in marriages constant abuses towards your partner can take away his self confidence.
Parents have a part to play in restoring that self confidence in their children,  couples have the same part to play in restoring the self confidence in their partners, friends have a part to play in restoring the self confidence of our friends. You and I have a part to play in restoring the self esteem of others by not looking down on anyone. Respect should be served amongst us

[famososMuertos]

Low self-esteem is associated before or after more forceful mental situations, so although it is true they are pathologies that are treated and can be controlled, it is a complex mental state.

And in this sense, it is difficult to diagnose or know that you have low self-esteem, it does not come alone and it is easy to confuse it with other situations that usually end up in the diagnosis of your friend, your partner or mistakenly the same person.

In the long run, the classic recommendation of going to a specialist ends up being the best, but depending on where you are from or even your culture, people end up rejecting consulting an expert.

[Tallupooh]

Excessive negative thoughts can make a person worse off. he felt that he was worthless and completely useless. because of that, he often hurt himself by telling himself that he was useless. from those words came the thought of committing suicide because he felt he was so unfit to live.

when in fact what he said was wrong. everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. Never compare our life with others. because different people have different storylines in their life.

if we observe our surroundings, all have their own abilities. be yourself.

if you are too negative in life then you will not be able to find happiness. positive and grateful everything will be beautiful.

we can't please everyone. because not everyone likes the same things, and not everyone hates the same things.

"Follow what our own hearts say, not follow the hearts of others"

"The way to live a delicious life is not to see the pleasures of others"

[Dewchim]

Environmental factors are primarily responsible for low self-esteem; I was a victim of this years ago, and I must tell you, it was a terrible experience. I think parents should do more to engage their children in public speaking from an early age. I know this will help boost every child's self-esteem.

[Bananington]

Another way to handle your self Esteem is to get committed to self development and growth. You have a low self esteem because you do not feel good about yourself and your status. You can feel better by committing to improve yourself in those areas that you have identified needs improvement, be it your finance, exposure, social life etc. Having sufficient money to afford whatever you want is a morale booster that improves your self esteem, if you have a poor financial status, you will need to work on it.

[Sakanwa]

Dealing with low self-esteem you have to let go of those your regret full life of the past and focus on the present.
Low self-esteem can cause someone to involve in evil act,it can make someone to look not responsible and it will lead you to limit yourself from your peers too.
Dealing with low self-esteem it should start from your heart first and also watch the kine of peers you are with.
You can deal with low self-esteem when you are always keeping yourself busy, try not to be alone and also try not to get close to fake friends too because they can make you move from up to down.

Making yourself a good room to study books on how to fight it from our life today,regardless to what ever you think that bothers yourself try not to be alone always.you need to go how and have fun with others and now the social media has made it best to us to see everything easier.you can just go in to your phone and try to watch tiktok and some other valuable web the make people laugh and so on.

[Doan9269]

Self esteem is the way we regard ourselves, the values we place. Its normal to criticize ourselves once in a while, but where low self-esteem creeps in is where we constantly degrade ourselves or judge negatively.

It depends on the way we accept it and how it's been applicable to us, low esteem could come in different forms and in most cases we feels inferior about ourselves in certain situations or conditions in life and deprived ourselves from that right to push forward to defend ourselves out of the situation or to make a change, we must not let low esteem get us out of luck and our right to living freely and getting fulfilled, in the same vein we must not as well get too much overconfidence in ourselves because it may lead to pride, but the worst we could do on ourselves is to remain silent when our voice is needed to be heard or talk to much when we needed to be silent.