version 4.09 on windows 7
You are using an outdated version of Electrum on an old and even more outdated version of Windows. Windows 7 is no longer recommended and Windows doesn't care about it either.
FYI...I was an original beta tester of bitcoin , simple machines forum, and was initially into it at .14 cents, went through the mt.gox debacle etc until now. if that counts for anything....
That doesn't change the situation you are in now one bit.
heres the info, wheres the BTC? seems stuck in limbo with no transaction notice on my side
It's not stuck in limbo. Your transaction history shows an incoming transaction followed by an outgoing one. These two transactions are 1 second apart. You should consider your wallet and the device it's installed on as compromised.
Do you still have the exact address you downloaded your Electrum wallet from?
A lot of time passed since you last used your wallet in 2021 and who knows what you did to get infected.
Did you download any Electrum updates and how? Did you ever verify the signatures for any of those updates?
How much do you know about basic computer security, and is the computer used for torrents, porn, dubious websites, cracked software and games, etc?
Malware and viruses can easily spread over email as well if you don't know what you are doing.