Risks to take in marriage

[Hewlet]

Speaking from the point of view of someone that's from a broken home, I totally understand why it's important to put in all the effort to first of all get married to the right partner and along the marriage put in additional effort in ensuring that the marriage last till death separates both parties. Only those that are of a broken home from early age of there existence knows the kind of trauma that comes with it and most others that are From a polygamous setting understand the kind of battles that there parents have to leave behind for them to fight in terms of handling of properties and it gets worse when you're dealing with a bunch of delusional diabolical step siblings.

Marriage is not an easy institution and it's totally understandable that issues will spring out when two adults who are both coming from different backgrounds with different mentality and belief system decides to come together under the same rough to work together as a union. Problems are bound to occur along the way but it's better fought together than allowing it tear you guys apart. As much as I don't support leaving togeth in an abusive relationship, I don't also support divorce most especially when the parties have children who will have to face the repalcution of there attitudes.

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[SmartCharpa]

We all want a good relationship with our spouses or soulmates too .

So what are the risks we should take
1 _when a marriage is about falling ,think about the kids and how divorce will make things wrong and difficult for them
I have grown up as a young girl and has never leaved with both parents till last year when I started living with my dad ,don't you think I might have gone through alot ?? Without both parents by my side ,

If you wanna give your kids the best in life you have to endure certain attitude Ms from both ur wife/husband ,when a home is seperated only one parent can't be able to take care of all the kids even if there is supplus money and second wife or husband ,when a single mother is set to take care of all the kids because she cought her husband cheating or what have you , she leaves ,she can't be fanacially stable to take care of all ,what if na 25 kids what's gonna happen?? The kids will start sleeping outside to care for them own selves ,how can a mother of 25 take such abilities all to her self

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Many individuals have experienced a life without their both parents living together and a life without both parents is not easy at all, except the single parent you stay with is wealthy enough to take care of all the responsibilities, he/she buys whatever you need. Even though we live with single parents and provide whatever we need, the love of single parents will not grow the same as that person who lives with both parents. I want you to understand something leaving with one parent doesn't mean that they marry the wrong person, a lot of people leave with one parent because one of their parents has departed from this world, no matter who it is the responsibilities will be taken by the remaining parents.

I'm sorry for the pain you go through your life, leaving a life without both parents. No one is perfect in this world, let's pray we don't marry you the wrong person and end up separating our children from their parents.

[Ethan151]

We all want a good relationship with our spouses or soulmates too .

So what are the risks we should take
1 _when a marriage is about falling ,think about the kids and how divorce will make things wrong and difficult for them
I have grown up as a young girl and has never leaved with both parents till last year when I started living with my dad ,don't you think I might have gone through alot ?? Without both parents by my side ,

If you wanna give your kids the best in life you have to endure certain attitude Ms from both ur wife/husband ,when a home is seperated only one parent can't be able to take care of all the kids even if there is supplus money and second wife or husband ,when a single mother is set to take care of all the kids because she cought her husband cheating or what have you , she leaves ,she can't be fanacially stable to take care of all ,what if na 25 kids what's gonna happen?? The kids will start sleeping outside to care for them own selves ,how can a mother of 25 take such abilities all to her self

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Since there must have been a lot of canning done in the area you are from, I'm sure you were spared from those who grew up with their dad. When I was a child, my parents insisted that we study indoors after school and that anything outside would always end badly. Thus, my dad used to truly terrify me.

[Mr.sprin]

Many individuals have experienced a life without their both parents living together and a life without both parents is not easy at all, except the single parent you stay with is wealthy enough to take care of all the responsibilities, he/she buys whatever you need. Even though we live with single parents and provide whatever we need, the love of single parents will not grow the same as that person who lives with both parents. I want you to understand something leaving with one parent doesn't mean that they marry the wrong person, a lot of people leave with one parent because one of their parents has departed from this world, no matter who it is the responsibilities will be taken by the remaining parents.

I'm sorry for the pain you go through your life, leaving a life without both parents. No one is perfect in this world, let's pray we don't marry you the wrong person and end up separating our children from their parents.

In our lives we all have our own risks, for every risk there is also a way out of it all, there are difficulties and joys, it depends on what we want to do, in married life there are bound to be ups and downs, we take these risks and we find a way. come out by thinking clearly and being open to each other so that unwanted problems don't occur in our household, every household will have arguments, both financially and in other ways, we are very clever in finding solutions to solve the problems that occur.

Talking about single parents is very sad, who wants our parents to separate, but we also cannot force the will of those who choose the path to live alone, maybe that is the best path for them, the victims are their children, because of their lack of attention and love from both their parents, many of them are victims of incomplete households which have an effect on their own mental health, it is very sad when they find out that their parents are no longer together and on the same page, to the point that some are frustrated thinking about their parents, I hope We don't feel like that, I hope our family is all fine.

[jrrsparkles]

I won't recommend tolerate living with someone when you feel it isn't working so divorce is the right option for the goodness of future. And definitely kids are going to be the one affected most but the couple should think about getting married only if the feel they can live together for their life, don't rush into making decisions that can't be restored.

[oktana]

A mother of 25 is quite unrealistic. However, it is indeed the children that suffers the divorce but you may not fully understand divorce until you walk down that lane. Do you know how scary it is when the one person who you trust with your life has been playing you the whole time? I don’t think I can coexist in the same room with such person. There are other causes of divorce but don’t think it’s an easy decision because it isn’t. Co-parenting is a thing though.

[johnsaributua]

Yes, because it is not only love that always stays and continues to enjoy togetherness, but sometimes disagreements and differences in response to communication become crumbs in everyday life. Although it leads to cooling down and returning to the usual attitude, I think there is no problem too difficult if there is a take and give in advice including complementing each other when one person sulks from the impact of an information .
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Indeed, the relationship between parents and children has no trace of course until the end of life, unlike married couples who are not compatible and cause more new problems, of course the solution attitude is hugged, although divorce is not the best way out but it is an option.

But my friend 25 children is too many, that the fact is maybe 2-8 children is average in my country even less than that number.

Indeed, the true nature is seen after marriage and everyone may be the same because it focuses on finances, educating and living together in a family, different opinions are natural and I think when bored or other reasons for accepting problems, it is better to remember when you love each other for the first time, maybe it can be fixed or with self moments by taking time.

[Zanab247]

If you want to experience a good marriage through out your journey, you need to have many sources of income that can finance your wife and children because women don't like to associate with poverty, which is the reason you see some women misbehaving in marriage because they will not tell you is lack of resources.

Know who you want to spend the rest of your life with, this a big risk which many people use to ignore in the process of searching for who to marry, and it will help you to discover so many things from your boyfriend or girlfriend that will make you not to go ahead in the relationship.

Some of the things she or he  know you for before she or he married you, don't change from them if you want the marriage to last long for your children to experience love and trust  from your home, keep loving your wife genuinely and peace and love will reign long in that family.