What really makes pastors children rebel?

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Yes in this part of the world today,pastor's children some of them are not pacient,now first of all we should remember that the children of this christian leaders are same like all other children,even if they are to show some moral examples to others,they are human being too and if the parents are christian leaders does not make them 100% perfect,after all jesus came for the sinners not the righteous onces,and one thing have observed in this type of children they believed God called their parent alone and not them

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[BADecker]

Jesus spoke in parables to the unbelievers to get them to start thinking. Those of us who are believers in Jesus salvation, are barely believers. How do we know? By the way we believe the basics, but are unwilling to go further on in our faith... further on to the rest of the things Jesus taught.

Little children simply believe. They believe because they understand that they have no explanation for millions of things they are learning in their lives. But after they get older, they start to piece together reasons for things they learned - that is, after they start to think. They want to know the reasons behind the things they have learned.

One of the greatest contradictions that the general, good, Bible-believing churches have is, they believe and practice some of the things that Jesus taught, but ignore other things that Jesus taught, even though they might acknowledge that they are there.

You go to church every Sunday, and hear the same things. And this is good, because it is the words of salvation. But if you try to ask the leaders why they don't preach on other things that Jesus said and did, or the way to live like Jesus lived, they talk all around you and never answer your questions.

Adolescent children are getting fed up with this seeming contradiction by their parents, especially those parents who are knowledgeable church leaders. And since they can't find anybody to teach them thee other things - like walking on water, and doing miracles like Jesus did - they fall away from the whole ball of wax, as though it all is BS.


If you were ever frustrated by teachers of God's Word, I'm here to tell you that all the things of Jesus are available for us all. While I haven't become active in all of these things (very much), I have found the way. It may not be easy. But at least I can show and explain it somewhat. It starts with not only reading the Bible, but also listening to Bible tapes/CDs every day... especially the New Testament.

Read, listen, believe, even if you don't understand, and much of the understanding will come to you.

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Asides from the above listed , what else can push a pastor's child to rebel? Is it too much expectations or what?

I will kindly say that peer-group, the environment they find themselves and too much expectation from people around them are what could lead pastor's kids into going astray in life, because one thing I have notice is that fact that majority of most of these pastor's kids who goes astray does that after getting admission to study in an environment far away from home, which most of them uses that as an advantage to explore the life they thought they might have been missing all this while living a church life.

[yazher]

People often make mistakes and no matter who he is, he or she is not exempted because this is human nature. As long as you keep returning to the one God almighty asking for forgiveness he will forgive you in the condition that you don't do the same mistakes again. if ever you fall into that sin again just ask for forgiveness just don't let the devil fool you by making you think that you already have so many troubles and sins you will not forgive. this is not the case with God because he always forgives someone as long as they are asking it sincerely when they are alive. this is the Islamic perspective I don't know about Christianity. Asking for forgiveness is always available wherever you are don't let it be the hardest thing you can do because all you need to do is move your tongue and lips and pray for it.

[BADecker]

People often make mistakes and no matter who he is, he or she is not exempted because this is human nature. As long as you keep returning to the one God almighty asking for forgiveness he will forgive you in the condition that you don't do the same mistakes again. if ever you fall into that sin again just ask for forgiveness just don't let the devil fool you by making you think that you already have so many troubles and sins you will not forgive. this is not the case with God because he always forgives someone as long as they are asking it sincerely when they are alive. this is the Islamic perspective I don't know about Christianity. Asking for forgiveness is always available wherever you are don't let it be the hardest thing you can do because all you need to do is move your tongue and lips and pray for it.

All wrongdoing is forgiven. But, as you^ say, there must be repentance... turning away from the wrongdoing. But why? If it is all forgiven, why do we need to stop doing the wrong? Here's why.

Every time we do wrong, it eats away a little of our belief that we need forgiveness. If we intentionally do enough wrong, and trust that we are forgiven, we will start to believe that we don't need forgiveness at all. When that happens, we have rejected the forgiveness, and it is not applied to us because we have rejected it. While this reason is basic, there are other reasons, like the example we become for our families and communities.

The shaman or witch doctor of any tribe or nation has this understanding of forgiveness, just like the Muslim. And this forgiveness is often taught by the religious leaders of those tribes and nations, just like Muslim religious leaders teach forgiveness. However, religious people of all nations that are Muslim, or have shamans or witch doctors, have one major failure. They don't know WHY God forgives. Here's why.

Jesus was/is a prophet. But He is much more than that. He is the holy Son of God. And since He is a man, as well, He was able to live a perfect life, and take the punishment for the wrongdoings of all people. He died, and arose to life on the third day after, to show that He is God as well as man.

This is why there is forgiveness. The punishment that a perfect God requires, was taken by the God-man, Jesus, the Messiah, the Son of God.

Islam, the religion that accepts Judaism and Christianity, should now accept that the Jesus written about in their own Quran is the Son of God... Who has taken the punishment for all people, and is the reason why God can offer forgiveness to all.

[BADecker]

This is because pastors are hypocrites. Most Christians are hypocrites.

But there is a distinction in these people and regular hypocrites. These people don't know that they are hypocrytes,

and,

they are saved hypocrites.

Bravo for the kids who recognize the hypocricy, and continue in faith, completely trying to get out of being hypocrites.

[Majestic-milf]

Bravo for the kids who recognize the hypocricy, and continue in faith, completely trying to get out of being hypocrites.

Indeed! Because if I'm being honest, it's not easy to look past the lies and pretentious behaviors of the parents who are pastors and still determine to be different.
 I think some of these children rebel because some of them do not have personal relationships with God; thwy easily get swayed because all their lives, all they've known about Him is what the parents have either told others or read from the Bible.

[Rockstarguy]

In the society we find ourselves today, the issue of rebellion amongst pastor's children is something that has caused a lot of concerns. As Christianity is one of the major religions in Nigeria, a man of God is highly regarded, not just in the society, but in his congregation, and the members look up to their leaders and the expectation that the children follow in the footsteps of the parents is not abnormal. But it's also not a new thing for some of these expectations to not be met as the issue of rebellion can be traced back to biblical times.
 For some children, the responsibilities and expectations can be too much that they feel like the only way they can achieve something or be heard is to rebel. While others go astray as a result of negligence.
 I've heard some say of a pastor's child who has gone wayward that they have been led astray by evil friends.
Asides from the above listed , what else can push a pastor's child to rebel? Is it too much expectations or what?

The only thing I expect from religious leaders children is discipline,  because every religion is more of discipline, I don't expect one to be so religious because his/her parents are religious.  Religion is choice,  anyone can choose or choose  not to be religious fanatic or follows his father's   footsteps. What is expected from pastors children is discipline,  it is lift for them to be grinded in religion or not. If pastor children must practise what their parents are, that means a doctor,  police,  engineers,  their children must be what they are but this is not possible. Religious is a free thing,  it is a thing of choice.  But being discipline is a pattern of life everyone must choose for a better life.

[Asiska02]

I've heard some say of a pastor's child who has gone wayward that they have been led astray by evil friends.
Asides from the above listed , what else can push a pastor's child to rebel? Is it too much expectations or what?

As others will go with the fact that they rebel because of too much expectations or evil friends, I agree with that but I still feel there’s more to it than just that. I feel God taste those that he loves the most to see if they can handle to the test. I believe Christians from Nigeria are devoted ones and they all believe in God and his words and what he has destined for everyone to happen in their lifetime. Wealth and children are the greatest test that can happen to anyone from God, just pray your test don’t temper with your faith and believe for your Almighty but should make you stronger and believe in him more to guide those that have already rebelled.

[Gormicsta]

When it comes to finding their place in the world, pastors' children are frequently caught between something and a hard spot. On the one hand, they have a responsibility to be examples for those around them, which might make them feel lonely and unlike other children their age. However, because they have become used to being in the attention, they may not feel comfortable believing in other adults in the church community.

This sense of being "different" can inspire pastor's children to rebel as a means of expressing their own uniqueness and discovering their unique perspective. After all, when you're continuously being judged and anticipated, it might make them feel like they're constantly being watched.

[Majestic-milf]

The only thing I expect from religious leaders children is discipline,  because every religion is more of discipline, I don't expect one to be so religious because his/her parents are religious.  Religion is choice,  anyone can choose or choose  not to be religious fanatic or follows his father's   footsteps.

You know it's not every preacher's kid that had the luxury of choice. Some of them are forced to follow in the steps of their parents and this makes them feel like they are in some form of chokehold or duress. I've seen kids who after leaving the same environment as their parents and those who know them, they easily change.
Some of them do not have in bred discipline and feel they don't know what to believe and as such are easily disinterested in listening to anything or anyone who talks about religion because to them they've seen it all. This is after they must have rebelled though.

[btc78]

It’s actually somewhat in the nature of teenagers to rebel no matter what kind of environment they are placed in. This is understandable because teenagers are still trying to find for their identity and they might feel as though they are being too caged in or restricted to explore when they are heavily exposed to the religious community without even allowing him to formulate thoughts and beliefs of his own.

[Y3shot]

Even the pastors you see today were not born righteous and holy, they were unbelievers before they began rented, I don't see why people will expect the pastors children to be holy from birth just like that their father, this is what people don't know.  You can't be holy and righteous from birth, everyone has it time of it transformation to become holy and righteous next. Another thing thst makes pastor children to be totally different is because of the energy pastor put in making others to change, they do not put the same energy on their children to change too.

[GiftedMAN]

Even the pastors you see today were not born righteous and holy, they were unbelievers before they began rented, I don't see why people will expect the pastors children to be holy from birth just like that their father, this is what people don't know.  You can't be holy and righteous from birth, everyone has it time of it transformation to become holy and righteous next. Another thing thst makes pastor children to be totally different is because of the energy pastor put in making others to change, they do not put the same energy on their children to change too.

Am not disputing the fact that no one is born holy as am aware of that but for someone who's into the ministry as a pastor we expect your children to be holy because from birth they are already learning and hearing the word of God because their parents are always engaged in the Christian conversation all the time and after birth as they start growing up their up bringing is in the way of the Lord so i expect them 5o be a living examples to others instead of being equally yoked with unbelievers. You can not preach what you don't practice so I expect pastors to have more energy in building their children in a godly way more than what they teach other people out their because charity begins at home, the reason why most children of pastors are wayward is because they are not properly raised as some of the pastors will prefer to preach outside instead of teach his own family what he wants others to know, too bad.

[DeathAngel]

In this situation maybe a young child thinks having a Pastor as a Father isn’t cool. Maybe they don’t want to be labelled as a person of God, a goodie goodie so to say, so it makes them want to rebel. Potentially they want to show their peers that they are not like their Father, not a man of religion so they make extra effort to rebel & not conform to what society expects from a Pastor’s son.

[Zoomic]

Even the pastors you see today were not born righteous and holy, they were unbelievers before they began rented, I don't see why people will expect the pastors children to be holy from birth just like that their father, this is what people don't know.  You can't be holy and righteous from birth, everyone has it time of it transformation to become holy and righteous next. Another thing thst makes pastor children to be totally different is because of the energy pastor put in making others to change, they do not put the same energy on their children to change too.

Am not disputing the fact that no one is born holy as am aware of that but for someone who's into the ministry as a pastor we expect your children to be holy because from birth they are already learning and hearing the word of God because their parents are always engaged in the Christian conversation all the time and after birth as they start growing up their up bringing is in the way of the Lord so i expect them 5o be a living examples to others instead of being equally yoked with unbelievers. You can not preach what you don't practice so I expect pastors to have more energy in building their children in a godly way more than what they teach other people out their because charity begins at home, the reason why most children of pastors are wayward is because they are not properly raised as some of the pastors will prefer to preach outside instead of teach his own family what he wants others to know, too bad.

There are so many expectations on pastors' children. Their families expect them to act in a certain way, the society still expects them to act in certain ways. These children never bargained for these strict lifestyles imposed on them. This lifestyle can be tiring, stressful and boring. This is why when most of these children taste small freedom, they go wild and explore the world of freedom till they become out of control.

The only mistake these parents made was being too strict on their kids and failing to really see through the stress societal expectations is causing to these children. Pastors' children deserve to live like other children born by non-pastors. They should be at liberty to choose what religion and the kind of life they want to live without the society giving negative opinions about them. If Pastor's children are given some freedom, there will be very few rebellious pastors' children

[passwordnow]

It’s actually somewhat in the nature of teenagers to rebel no matter what kind of environment they are placed in. This is understandable because teenagers are still trying to find for their identity and they might feel as though they are being too caged in or restricted to explore when they are heavily exposed to the religious community without even allowing him to formulate thoughts and beliefs of his own.

I agree, teenagers are on the stage of being more curious to things and they can easily influenced by their peers. It's just hard for them to stay whatever is expected to them because they're children of men of God. They've got actually a harder childhood to teenage days and for sure that they've got some wildness that are hidden from within that they can't contain. They might become whatever they want as they grow older but the curiosity stage of teenagers will be hard to defeat. Despite with all of the teachings that are coming from their parents, they'd still have their own time in doing nasty things.

And this is happening to all of the parents and children out there regardless of their calling and profession because as you've said that it is the nature of the teenagers. I wouldn't say that most of them rebel but it's about being curios to things and what they want to try out. But there are ways of preventing them in doing so and it all depends to the parents on how they do parenting to their children. I may somewhat hard to explain that because I am not yet on that level but soon I will be but that's how it is. Not just about parenting and disciplining the teenagers but also the environment that they're living with.

[Promocodeudo]

Even the pastors you see today were not born righteous and holy, they were unbelievers before they began rented, I don't see why people will expect the pastors children to be holy from birth just like that their father, this is what people don't know.  You can't be holy and righteous from birth, everyone has it time of it transformation to become holy and righteous next. Another thing thst makes pastor children to be totally different is because of the energy pastor put in making others to change, they do not put the same energy on their children to change too.

Am not disputing the fact that no one is born holy as am aware of that but for someone who's into the ministry as a pastor we expect your children to be holy because from birth they are already learning and hearing the word of God because their parents are always engaged in the Christian conversation all the time and after birth as they start growing up their up bringing is in the way of the Lord so i expect them 5o be a living examples to others instead of being equally yoked with unbelievers. You can not preach what you don't practice so I expect pastors to have more energy in building their children in a godly way more than what they teach other people out their because charity begins at home, the reason why most children of pastors are wayward is because they are not properly raised as some of the pastors will prefer to preach outside instead of teach his own family what he wants others to know, too bad.

Bro I have come to understand that most times it is not about how you raised a child though it also plays a major role but what matters most is how the child wants to be, people retrain themselves when they turn adult, yes I know that pastors children are expected to be well behaved of but we should also know that they are always a major temptation their parents believe.

There are things we should when we talking about this people, they are like every other person so they can also misbehave, talking about not practicing what you preach, even though you preach about a particular stuff, you don't expect your entire household to practice it, to me it is impossible, the only thing that can happen is for you as person practice it and pray for your household to follow up but not by force or persuasion.

[teamsherry]

Just the same way you made this post with some kind of over expectations from those pastors or their children, and we often forget that they are humans too and beign close to God doesn't make them any different from the rest of the world and the flesh can also have its way with them.

Even biblically the children of Jacob also had issues and a different character from their father, Ruben the first born slept with Jacobs wife and can you see just how far this shit went, even moses GOD'S own servant had anger issues that made him not to enter the promise land he so fought for.

The truth here Is there is nothing wrong with pastors children they are humans too and they don't rebel they just act as the as they please, and most of us if not all are Christians so why do you rebel are you not also children of God.