The psychology of betting.....

[SirLancelot]

We can play as much as we want, as long as our own limits are respected, that is, we have a capital set up to lose, because it is what we have destined to play, that capital cannot be regretted if it is lost in the game , because it is known that it was destined for that, if we are clear about those things or those premises we can play with complete confidence and as we wish, but if the money is lost in its entirety, it must be respected in not Playing anymore,because if it is appealed to that Money is going to be taken that is destined for our daily expenses, be it for food, the market, for the family, it is what should never be done, basically it is to play responsibly.

Only a person who is responsible regarding everything in their life can have such discipline in gambling, it is because they are already in practice of keeping things disciplined especially when it comes to spending money. If you are a family person, you can easily manage such things since you know you have other responsibilities as well.

For someone who is not generally responsible in their life, has no responsibilities or things to handle, and has access to money, it becomes very difficult for them to have a dedicated budget for gambling and keep it disciplined.

[o48o]

Asking someone to hold your money is a sign if you're have a bad money management and they should teach you instead of agree to hold your money.

I think the average gambler or man has bad financial management, I experienced that being a wasteful person and could never manage my finances. I once a few years ago my savings ran out due to gambling, but now my wife is assisting me to manage my finances because I entrusted her with it, so I can be more organized now to gamble even with small bets.

I think there's nothing wrong with entrusting someone or one of our families, be it our wife or mother, to manage finances so that they don't run out easily because of gambling or waste in financial management. I admit honestly that indeed I have bad financial management 

Well that's true as most people with good financial management skills don't tend to gamble. They see it as unnecessary risk, and reward ratio is too low. But i personally know some people with good financial management skills that just love gambling so much that they want to take the risk. They are just good at keeping seperate balances for it so that they won't be blowing their budget. Not every gambler gets so addicted that they want to compromise their budget. Those are just the addicts you hear about. Lots of people with addiction that are battling against it every day can manage their addiction. And i am not at all downplaying others problem with gambling. I am just saying that it's definitely not for everyone.

[molsewid]

Well that's true as most people with good financial management skills don't tend to gamble. They see it as unnecessary risk, and reward ratio is too low. But i personally know some people with good financial management skills that just love gambling so much that they want to take the risk. They are just good at keeping seperate balances for it so that they won't be blowing their budget. Not every gambler gets so addicted that they want to compromise their budget. Those are just the addicts you hear about. Lots of people with addiction that are battling against it every day can manage their addiction. And i am not at all downplaying others problem with gambling. I am just saying that it's definitely not for everyone.

I think not all, not all people who wants to gamble has the reason for it to gain more. Some of those people who knows how to manage their money also gamble because they just want to have fun, most of the people I know prefer traditional ones because they want to see their amigos and amigas in gambling. We can't deny the fact that those people who fall into addiction are the ones who doesn't have a lot of money or those who believe that gamble will be their only want to get rich.

[Fatunad]

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Desperation would really be ending up on a disaster on which it would really be a common thing to happen not only just limited on gambling but also in other perspective in life when making out decisions and on the time
that you do reach up on a state where desperation kicks in because you do want to make or get some profits then this is where certain extent actions would really be done. This isnt something new or a very common
human behavior to be done and how much more if we do speak about gambling? Only a few would really be that mindful about their actions or really that seeking for the sake of entertainment and not for money.
Usually people who would really be dealing off with gambling are the ones who do really come after on making income or profits with it, without even trying to look on the reality that its way too risky on handling out on things. When gambling then you should really be that somewhat realistic on what you should gonna do, dont aim for money or profits because this is the main reason on why people do become that impulsive
and making out lots of errors and mistakes.

Okay, folks, let's jump into the firestorm about gambling – entertainment or dangerous game? Picture this – gambling is like dancing the mambo with Lady Fortune. Sometimes you're lifted high, and other times, she steps on you like a loser. It's like a high-roller dance-off, but no guarantees you'll win!

The big question: Can we separate hope from reality? Can we walk away from the casino, shrugging it off like it's a casual night? Resisting a gold-encrusted apple – can we say no to the massive jackpot?

But careful! Don't think of gambling as a career. It's a mesmerizing tune that'll lead you astray if you forget the limits. Let's enjoy the show, but keep our wallets safe, people!

the reason why a lot are getting trouble with gambling is that they lose their grip because of that hope. hence, many gamblers are going astray. they may have set their limits at early stages of their gambling activities but once they suffer losses, that's when the drive of recovering such loss is getting bolder. well, that's the normal reaction of any gambler esp if he is not firm with his decisions. this is why we are hearing stories of desperate moves from the gamblers. so if you know you are on the brink of such situation, better pull off while you are still thinking straight.

There are people who cant really stood still with their decisions in life, doesnt matter if this one pertains with gambling or not which its never been that a good behavior or quality just like this on which you cant really be able to follow on what you are really that tending to do so with your current dealings or engagement.How much more with gambling? It would really be that significant that you should really be that sensible when it comes to this manner considering we are talking some potential losses on here on which if you arent that good on making out some good or wise decisions then you would definitely be having some huge problems afterwards. Just like on what most people been saying on here is that gambling is for fun, bet only on the amount which you can afford to lose and on the amount which you can afford to take and dont make
yourself find that you are in a situation on which you are really that chasing up your losses.

Its not an investment, its not a source of income, its not a guaranteed profits or money making. This is where usually people do fall into this kind of stuff just because they do really have that kind of wrong belief
and once they would really be pushing it, then reality kicks in.Then this is where people do mess out their entire lives just because they had go into the wrong decision.

[salad daging]

Well that's true as most people with good financial management skills don't tend to gamble. They see it as unnecessary risk, and reward ratio is too low. But i personally know some people with good financial management skills that just love gambling so much that they want to take the risk. They are just good at keeping seperate balances for it so that they won't be blowing their budget. Not every gambler gets so addicted that they want to compromise their budget. Those are just the addicts you hear about. Lots of people with addiction that are battling against it every day can manage their addiction. And i am not at all downplaying others problem with gambling. I am just saying that it's definitely not for everyone.

I think not all, not all people who wants to gamble has the reason for it to gain more. Some of those people who knows how to manage their money also gamble because they just want to have fun, most of the people I know prefer traditional ones because they want to see their amigos and amigas in gambling. We can't deny the fact that those people who fall into addiction are the ones who doesn't have a lot of money or those who believe that gamble will be their only want to get rich.

People who can manage finances well, so they won't be addicted, of course, will know the risks to take, but they are ready, they will only try the game for the pleasure they want, not to get more that they don't want, I believe not everyone will play Gambling is the same, of course there is a better reason than that, so they can take stricter measures not to spend more money on gambling on the other hand, we have to be like that so that it doesn't become a problem that can be caused.

Someone who is addicted, of course, will think higher that they dream of getting rich quickly from gambling, but the fact is indeed different, we know that gambling will not be as smooth as what they think, but someone who is passionate about gambling for the sake of pleasure, he will not think about getting rich quickly from gambling. .

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Well that's true as most people with good financial management skills don't tend to gamble. They see it as unnecessary risk, and reward ratio is too low. But i personally know some people with good financial management skills that just love gambling so much that they want to take the risk. They are just good at keeping seperate balances for it so that they won't be blowing their budget. Not every gambler gets so addicted that they want to compromise their budget. Those are just the addicts you hear about. Lots of people with addiction that are battling against it every day can manage their addiction. And i am not at all downplaying others problem with gambling. I am just saying that it's definitely not for everyone.

I think not all, not all people who wants to gamble has the reason for it to gain more. Some of those people who knows how to manage their money also gamble because they just want to have fun, most of the people I know prefer traditional ones because they want to see their amigos and amigas in gambling. We can't deny the fact that those people who fall into addiction are the ones who doesn't have a lot of money or those who believe that gamble will be their only want to get rich.

You are absolutely correct, it is pretty difficult to find really wealthy men who are so glued or addicted to gambling, if there be any, then there is also the possibility that such person has been addicted to gambling before getting rich through it or other means.

I have a guy in my neighborhood who was and still is really into sports betting, wouldn't call him addicted yet but a day does not pass without him putting up some bets, he got really rich from his investment in crypto currency back in 2020, and till now, many still think and believe he made his money from gambling, and see no reason to advice him to stop or reduce the rate at which he throws money at sports betting.

[LUCKMCFLY]

We can play as much as we want, as long as our own limits are respected, that is, we have a capital set up to lose, because it is what we have destined to play, that capital cannot be regretted if it is lost in the game , because it is known that it was destined for that, if we are clear about those things or those premises we can play with complete confidence and as we wish, but if the money is lost in its entirety, it must be respected in not Playing anymore,because if it is appealed to that Money is going to be taken that is destined for our daily expenses, be it for food, the market, for the family, it is what should never be done, basically it is to play responsibly.

If you play as much as you want, you are not limiting your self already. Maybe there are people who are not really in to gambling and they think betting minimal amounts for 20 to 30 rolls in a casino game is already too much for them but most people are not like that. They always can't get enough when it comes to gambling.

These people needs to limit their selves before it interferes with their life. Other than that, it will be better if your wife hold your money for you. If you don't have a wife yet, then you must still have your parents, or other people that you trust the most because once we see our balances, the temptation can always kicks in.

Yes , I completely agree with what you say, it may be that many do not control their way of gambling and that may leave them without money at a certain time , that is why I say if I have , let's say, 30usd willing to lose playing, I do it and I play with all the freedom possible, but without exceeding those 30usd, for me that is having responsibility, and it is as you say, when you have a wife, children, and you want to play in a casino , you should have even more responsibility, because you don't there is an excuse if someone spends the money that is earmarked for the expense of basic things or basic needs for them.

[Oasisman]

Asking someone to hold your money is a sign if you're have a bad money management and they should teach you instead of agree to hold your money.

I think the average gambler or man has bad financial management, I experienced that being a wasteful person and could never manage my finances. I once a few years ago my savings ran out due to gambling, but now my wife is assisting me to manage my finances because I entrusted her with it, so I can be more organized now to gamble even with small bets.

I think there's nothing wrong with entrusting someone or one of our families, be it our wife or mother, to manage finances so that they don't run out easily because of gambling or waste in financial management. I admit honestly that indeed I have bad financial management 

Man, I'll tell you, entrusting your money with your wife is not wrong and never was. What's wrong is, when you're not sharing your money with your wife. I mean you two have conjugal property, what you earned is also her property. Women who don't have day jobs and a full time mom usually has a very good financial management. So these wives are most probably going to help you control your unwanted spendings in gambling. Therefore, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Also, if you're married I don't think entrusting your money to your parents is necessary. Not sure about your culture, but in my country that's definitely a big insult to your wife, except for a wife who has bad financial management, usually these are the kind of wives who would also like to gamble.

[tusandii]

Yes , I completely agree with what you say, it may be that many do not control their way of gambling and that may leave them without money at a certain time , that is why I say if I have , let's say, 30usd willing to lose playing, I do it and I play with all the freedom possible, but without exceeding those 30usd, for me that is having responsibility, and it is as you say, when you have a wife, children, and you want to play in a casino , you should have even more responsibility, because you don't there is an excuse if someone spends the money that is earmarked for the expense of basic things or basic needs for them.

If you have set 30 usdt to gamble and then lose and deposit some more money then it is a mistake not your responsibility because you cannot be sure that the money you have deposited can generate a certain amount of money because in gambling what will definitely come is defeat.
A family member can still gamble if he can control his finances so that what should be for the family is not lost in gambling.
A gambler must always have a sense of responsibility in making every decision so that what he does still has limits and is not too careless because gambling can spend any amount of money in just a short time.

[Reatim]

Well that's true as most people with good financial management skills don't tend to gamble. They see it as unnecessary risk, and reward ratio is too low. But i personally know some people with good financial management skills that just love gambling so much that they want to take the risk. They are just good at keeping seperate balances for it so that they won't be blowing their budget. Not every gambler gets so addicted that they want to compromise their budget. Those are just the addicts you hear about. Lots of people with addiction that are battling against it every day can manage their addiction. And i am not at all downplaying others problem with gambling. I am just saying that it's definitely not for everyone.

I think not all, not all people who wants to gamble has the reason for it to gain more. Some of those people who knows how to manage their money also gamble because they just want to have fun, most of the people I know prefer traditional ones because they want to see their amigos and amigas in gambling. We can't deny the fact that those people who fall into addiction are the ones who doesn't have a lot of money or those who believe that gamble will be their only want to get rich.

when you are talking about gambling , it is stupid to believe that someone is completely playing just to have fun and not to at least win , because the reality here is that of course some of us wanted to have fun when playing but one part of their mind and heart are aiming to win though they will accept the losses
in which means there are not 100% of fun and enjoying but of course some part are to win.
but what you said is also correct that some of them wanted to play with their buddies but remember that all the money the come to gamble are the amount to risk , while one will win then meaning others must lose.
yes they all have fun but not all are successful in their plans .
so yes they play to have fun but they also play to win.

[swogerino]

Well that's true as most people with good financial management skills don't tend to gamble. They see it as unnecessary risk, and reward ratio is too low. But i personally know some people with good financial management skills that just love gambling so much that they want to take the risk. They are just good at keeping seperate balances for it so that they won't be blowing their budget. Not every gambler gets so addicted that they want to compromise their budget. Those are just the addicts you hear about. Lots of people with addiction that are battling against it every day can manage their addiction. And i am not at all downplaying others problem with gambling. I am just saying that it's definitely not for everyone.

I think not all, not all people who wants to gamble has the reason for it to gain more. Some of those people who knows how to manage their money also gamble because they just want to have fun, most of the people I know prefer traditional ones because they want to see their amigos and amigas in gambling. We can't deny the fact that those people who fall into addiction are the ones who doesn't have a lot of money or those who believe that gamble will be their only want to get rich.

when you are talking about gambling , it is stupid to believe that someone is completely playing just to have fun and not to at least win , because the reality here is that of course some of us wanted to have fun when playing but one part of their mind and heart are aiming to win though they will accept the losses
in which means there are not 100% of fun and enjoying but of course some part are to win.
but what you said is also correct that some of them wanted to play with their buddies but remember that all the money the come to gamble are the amount to risk , while one will win then meaning others must lose.
yes they all have fun but not all are successful in their plans .
so yes they play to have fun but they also play to win.

I will share somewhat of what I call my personal experience when we are playing for fun and we are playing to win something.I will take an example of signature earnings which an average of 80-100 dollars weekly and when I want to win something I start playing with full balance and hoping to win it big by playing longer,this has more risks than benefits though as it can suck you in until you lose it all.

When I play for fun I immediately withdraw like 80% of the amount and I keep playing with only 20% of funds and whatever happens happens I will not be sad,this is what I call to play for fun which usually involves playing little money compared to when you play to win it big you need a much bigger balance for that and that is the difference between the two.

[ethereumhunter]

Asking someone to hold your money is a sign if you're have a bad money management and they should teach you instead of agree to hold your money.

I think the average gambler or man has bad financial management, I experienced that being a wasteful person and could never manage my finances. I once a few years ago my savings ran out due to gambling, but now my wife is assisting me to manage my finances because I entrusted her with it, so I can be more organized now to gamble even with small bets.

I think there's nothing wrong with entrusting someone or one of our families, be it our wife or mother, to manage finances so that they don't run out easily because of gambling or waste in financial management. I admit honestly that indeed I have bad financial management 

Man, I'll tell you, entrusting your money with your wife is not wrong and never was. What's wrong is, when you're not sharing your money with your wife. I mean you two have conjugal property, what you earned is also her property. Women who don't have day jobs and a full time mom usually has a very good financial management. So these wives are most probably going to help you control your unwanted spendings in gambling. Therefore, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Also, if you're married I don't think entrusting your money to your parents is necessary. Not sure about your culture, but in my country that's definitely a big insult to your wife, except for a wife who has bad financial management, usually these are the kind of wives who would also like to gamble.

And even more wrong if he did not entrust his money to his wife but instead used it for gambling. It was a fatal mistake and he should immediately change his habit or stop gambling. If he can entrust his money to his wife, he will find that she will try to use the money from him to support the needs of the family and she may also prefer to save the remaining money so they have money for urgent needs. Usually, women are more adept at managing family finances so that the money we give will be enough to meet our family's needs. So if you are married, it is better to entrust money to your wife and spend less time gambling because family is everything to you.

[AicecreaME]

Asking someone to hold your money is a sign if you're have a bad money management and they should teach you instead of agree to hold your money.

I think the average gambler or man has bad financial management, I experienced that being a wasteful person and could never manage my finances. I once a few years ago my savings ran out due to gambling, but now my wife is assisting me to manage my finances because I entrusted her with it, so I can be more organized now to gamble even with small bets.

I think there's nothing wrong with entrusting someone or one of our families, be it our wife or mother, to manage finances so that they don't run out easily because of gambling or waste in financial management. I admit honestly that indeed I have bad financial management 

Man, I'll tell you, entrusting your money with your wife is not wrong and never was. What's wrong is, when you're not sharing your money with your wife. I mean you two have conjugal property, what you earned is also her property. Women who don't have day jobs and a full time mom usually has a very good financial management. So these wives are most probably going to help you control your unwanted spendings in gambling. Therefore, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Also, if you're married I don't think entrusting your money to your parents is necessary. Not sure about your culture, but in my country that's definitely a big insult to your wife, except for a wife who has bad financial management, usually these are the kind of wives who would also like to gamble.

And even more wrong if he did not entrust his money to his wife but instead used it for gambling. It was a fatal mistake and he should immediately change his habit or stop gambling. If he can entrust his money to his wife, he will find that she will try to use the money from him to support the needs of the family and she may also prefer to save the remaining money so they have money for urgent needs. Usually, women are more adept at managing family finances so that the money we give will be enough to meet our family's needs. So if you are married, it is better to entrust money to your wife and spend less time gambling because family is everything to you.

I guess this is a case to case basis. It's not really about gender roles. This is all about discipline.

If you are responsible and disciplined enough, then there's no need for someone else to manage and budget your money for you because you can do it yourself. If you know how to prioritize your needs and wants in a proper manner, you will have lesser troubles. Comparing to those who lack self-control and lack of financial literacy, you'll be in the advantage side because you know how to limit yourself - when to stop and continue gambling. With this, the outcome will be so much better too. You won't need to be bothered by excessive gambling habits because you have a healthy habit to begin with. In line with this, you won't get addicted and you won't spend too much money and too much time gambling that could compromise your well-being and the time you spend with your family.

Whether you are a husband or a wife, always remember to be disciplined and responsible especially when it comes to money matters.

[TheGreatPython]

If you play as much as you want, you are not limiting your self already. Maybe there are people who are not really in to gambling and they think betting minimal amounts for 20 to 30 rolls in a casino game is already too much for them but most people are not like that. They always can't get enough when it comes to gambling.

These people needs to limit their selves before it interferes with their life. Other than that, it will be better if your wife hold your money for you. If you don't have a wife yet, then you must still have your parents, or other people that you trust the most because once we see our balances, the temptation can always kicks in.

Yes , I completely agree with what you say, it may be that many do not control their way of gambling and that may leave them without money at a certain time , that is why I say if I have , let's say, 30usd willing to lose playing, I do it and I play with all the freedom possible, but without exceeding those 30usd, for me that is having responsibility, and it is as you say, when you have a wife, children, and you want to play in a casino , you should have even more responsibility, because you don't there is an excuse if someone spends the money that is earmarked for the expense of basic things or basic needs for them.

Having a limited bankroll in your casino account can surely help you stay in your limits when gambling especially if you are losing, but the actual thing is to be able to control yourself from the inside and don't follow the urge when it knocks on the door of your mind, because if you can't do that, as soon as you exhaust the money in your gambling account, your hands will reach out to your crypto wallet to deposit more to continue gambling.

The real success in being a responsible gambler is to control the urge and don't let it make you gamble more when you have already lost the bankroll that you had set for your gambling activities, it's difficult, of course, but it is doable, especially if you have a family that you care about.

[Lanatsa]

Asking someone to hold your money is a sign if you're have a bad money management and they should teach you instead of agree to hold your money.

I think the average gambler or man has bad financial management, I experienced that being a wasteful person and could never manage my finances. I once a few years ago my savings ran out due to gambling, but now my wife is assisting me to manage my finances because I entrusted her with it, so I can be more organized now to gamble even with small bets.

I think there's nothing wrong with entrusting someone or one of our families, be it our wife or mother, to manage finances so that they don't run out easily because of gambling or waste in financial management. I admit honestly that indeed I have bad financial management 

Man, I'll tell you, entrusting your money with your wife is not wrong and never was. What's wrong is, when you're not sharing your money with your wife. I mean you two have conjugal property, what you earned is also her property. Women who don't have day jobs and a full time mom usually has a very good financial management. So these wives are most probably going to help you control your unwanted spendings in gambling. Therefore, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Also, if you're married I don't think entrusting your money to your parents is necessary. Not sure about your culture, but in my country that's definitely a big insult to your wife, except for a wife who has bad financial management, usually these are the kind of wives who would also like to gamble.

And even more wrong if he did not entrust his money to his wife but instead used it for gambling. It was a fatal mistake and he should immediately change his habit or stop gambling. If he can entrust his money to his wife, he will find that she will try to use the money from him to support the needs of the family and she may also prefer to save the remaining money so they have money for urgent needs. Usually, women are more adept at managing family finances so that the money we give will be enough to meet our family's needs. So if you are married, it is better to entrust money to your wife and spend less time gambling because family is everything to you.

I guess this is a case to case basis. It's not really about gender roles. This is all about discipline.

If you are responsible and disciplined enough, then there's no need for someone else to manage and budget your money for you because you can do it yourself. If you know how to prioritize your needs and wants in a proper manner, you will have lesser troubles. Comparing to those who lack self-control and lack of financial literacy, you'll be in the advantage side because you know how to limit yourself - when to stop and continue gambling. With this, the outcome will be so much better too. You won't need to be bothered by excessive gambling habits because you have a healthy habit to begin with. In line with this, you won't get addicted and you won't spend too much money and too much time gambling that could compromise your well-being and the time you spend with your family.

Whether you are a husband or a wife, always remember to be disciplined and responsible especially when it comes to money matters.

Plus we do really have that own will which we are already that matured or old enough on how to differentiate in between the good and the bad and its really impossible that we cant really be able to see on

what are the imposed risked that we could really be able to experience on the time that we do make out bad decisions.Its really impossible that we cant really asses on potential effects and outcome
if ever we would really be tolerating too much about its risks and dont really minding it and would really still proceed despite of the fact.On the time that you would really be putting yourself on
such condition then this is where self realizations do happen and this is where regret would kicked in. This is why if you dont really like to experience
such  thing then it would be better that you should really be careful on choosing up situations specially if its really that money spending thing because problems caused by this is something not that simple
to solve out.

[blockman]

When I play for fun I immediately withdraw like 80% of the amount and I keep playing with only 20% of funds and whatever happens happens I will not be sad,

That's a good strategy for gambling for fun, you don't let the entire amount of what you've started with to lose all. When someone forgets to gamble for fun, that's the common thing that happens and that is to lose entirely the money that we've started as a bankroll.

this is what I call to play for fun which usually involves playing little money compared to when you play to win it big you need a much bigger balance for that and that is the difference between the two.

The difference in playing with big money is that you'll be able to stay longer if you wishes so. But when you're too emotional and even if you just stayed in the casino for a few minutes and you've been triggered, you might still lose them all if you're careless.

[Sandra_hakeem]

When I play for fun I immediately withdraw like 80% of the amount and I keep playing with only 20% of funds and whatever happens happens I will not be sad,

It's actually fun when you play with ease and you're having some odd, ill-fated inconveniencs to feel bad about...
Most things really works out when your mind is free and stable -then I think at that point, you'll be able to think we'll and take up the right options to wager with. It's also good to control your habits as that is really a red flag when it goes above the bands... Thirdly, when much funds is seen in personal gaming accounts, it motivates and gives the feeling that staking more time would make it cut.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

[ethereumhunter]

I guess this is a case to case basis. It's not really about gender roles. This is all about discipline.

If you are responsible and disciplined enough, then there's no need for someone else to manage and budget your money for you because you can do it yourself. If you know how to prioritize your needs and wants in a proper manner, you will have lesser troubles. Comparing to those who lack self-control and lack of financial literacy, you'll be in the advantage side because you know how to limit yourself - when to stop and continue gambling. With this, the outcome will be so much better too. You won't need to be bothered by excessive gambling habits because you have a healthy habit to begin with. In line with this, you won't get addicted and you won't spend too much money and too much time gambling that could compromise your well-being and the time you spend with your family.

Whether you are a husband or a wife, always remember to be disciplined and responsible especially when it comes to money matters.

I don't think it's a gender issue. But when you are married, you share everything with your wife or partner. There are no secrets (although there are some things that the wife/husband doesn't need to know) but it's best for financial matters we can leave it to the wife. But maybe it could be different because there will be further communication to manage our household when we get married.

It takes responsibility and discipline, but usually, the wife will be better able to manage financial matters than the husband because I have seen it in many married people. And if you feel it is each person's responsibility and discipline, that's also okay

And with regards to gambling, I think a husband may have a certain budget to play gambling but it must be remembered that the gambling budget may not use money used for daily needs. You can freely gamble with the budget you have so they don't interfere with each other.

[piebeyb]

Asking someone to hold your money is a sign if you're have a bad money management and they should teach you instead of agree to hold your money.

I think the average gambler or man has bad financial management, I experienced that being a wasteful person and could never manage my finances. I once a few years ago my savings ran out due to gambling, but now my wife is assisting me to manage my finances because I entrusted her with it, so I can be more organized now to gamble even with small bets.

I think there's nothing wrong with entrusting someone or one of our families, be it our wife or mother, to manage finances so that they don't run out easily because of gambling or waste in financial management. I admit honestly that indeed I have bad financial management 

Well that's true as most people with good financial management skills don't tend to gamble. They see it as unnecessary risk, and reward ratio is too low. But i personally know some people with good financial management skills that just love gambling so much that they want to take the risk. They are just good at keeping seperate balances for it so that they won't be blowing their budget. Not every gambler gets so addicted that they want to compromise their budget. Those are just the addicts you hear about. Lots of people with addiction that are battling against it every day can manage their addiction. And i am not at all downplaying others problem with gambling. I am just saying that it's definitely not for everyone.

Yes, even for gambling it looks like we need management so that it can be controlled, besides if you don't manage it is rather difficult to avoid losing a lot of money at gambling, I don't care about managing finances because I also often play gambling, but thanks to giving trust to those closest to me to manage it all be fine.

I am not a gambler who is too serious so it is impossible for me to become an addict, sometimes gambling just fills my free time, I don't make gambling a source of income either, give trust to the people closest to us if we can't manage finances so I don't lose a lot of money.

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It's a great approach to gambling.

I had times when I tried to beat the casino and sometimes it worked, but eventually I came to the understanding that gambling is only for fun, the only thing you need to control is the financial expenditure. Neither chasing after winnings, nor trying to win back past losses do not lead to a good thing, and the game for $50-100 a week is a great opportunity to unload yourself from constant stress and hard work.