Denial of service must be getting a new meaning these days, for a poor old 90s child like me to understand...
That's right. The poor people will ve forced to set the fee much higher and the amount that they had will decrease just because of the fee. I also have this problem where I received less BTC because I had to make the transaction much faster getting confirmed. I experienced delayed of my BTC almost 1 week before when the fee had increased.
And then there are also people like you claiming all of this but probably doing nothing of the sort. If you're guilty of spamming the forum then you should be all right with network spammers.
How do you "receive" btc when you're the one making the transaction and paying a higher fee? Explain yourself, show your transaction, and sign the address and I will take back everything I say about you and posters like you. Promise.