Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting

[Oilacris]

Yes, I know that most of what is suggested here may not be able to completely help overcome or avoid addiction, but at least from these few points we can be more careful and a little responsible for our bets and try not to bet beyond the limits we can.
Maybe some people say this point is not enough I will respect that but at least we have nothing wrong with trying to be healthy gamblers without addiction and betting for fun without addiction and talking about sports betting might be a reference for not being too emotional when placing bets because we are quite placing bets and watching matches and the risk of becoming emotional and experiencing losses is not like when betting in casino games, mentally and subconsciously we will get emotional when every round of betting we lose and the feeling of wanting to chase losses is always there.
So betting on sports is very fun but it still doesn't mean to make money just try your luck.

The reason behind the addiction to the gambling was very simple,mostly due to targeting the loss in the gambling.The gambler doesn’t accept the loss from the gambling,this was the biggest reason for the addiction into the gambling.The good gambler will have the capacity to get away from the gambling,becasue they know gambling is also the game and not the money making machine.Once you had multiple the money from the gambling,you get addicted to it.So the number of attempt to get winning from the gambling will increased and you get addicted to it.Some people keep away from the gambling addiction by reducing the deposit to the gambling.

Whether chasing up losses or would really be that forcing yourself to become a winner on which these are the primary reasons on which i could say that it would really be that pushing someone to play further and this is something that must be avoided on the first place if you dont really like for yourself on ending up on having that kind of situation or struggle in your life. Once you do get caught
by addiction then there's no way that you could really be able to get out easily. This is the primary risks on dealing up with it and if you arent really that sensible enough then
you would really be ending up on a disaster and this is why its really that important that you should really know on how to control up yourself on the time that you are engaging with it
or else then you do know on whats next.

[South Park]

Yes, I know that most of what is suggested here may not be able to completely help overcome or avoid addiction, but at least from these few points we can be more careful and a little responsible for our bets and try not to bet beyond the limits we can.
Maybe some people say this point is not enough I will respect that but at least we have nothing wrong with trying to be healthy gamblers without addiction and betting for fun without addiction and talking about sports betting might be a reference for not being too emotional when placing bets because we are quite placing bets and watching matches and the risk of becoming emotional and experiencing losses is not like when betting in casino games, mentally and subconsciously we will get emotional when every round of betting we lose and the feeling of wanting to chase losses is always there.
So betting on sports is very fun but it still doesn't mean to make money just try your luck.

The reason behind the addiction to the gambling was very simple,mostly due to targeting the loss in the gambling.The gambler doesn’t accept the loss from the gambling,this was the biggest reason for the addiction into the gambling.The good gambler will have the capacity to get away from the gambling,becasue they know gambling is also the game and not the money making machine.Once you had multiple the money from the gambling,you get addicted to it.So the number of attempt to get winning from the gambling will increased and you get addicted to it.Some people keep away from the gambling addiction by reducing the deposit to the gambling.

People get addicted for a myriad of reasons so it is reductionist to try to assign a single reason to this behavior, however regardless of the reasons a person may have to become addicted the end result is always the same, with the quality of their life taking a nose dive from which it can be very difficult to ever recover, so people need to always be aware of the possibility of becoming addicted to anything, and they need to monitor themselves and make an assessment of their lives once in a while just to see if they are not falling into an addiction.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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Whenever there is a lot of Emphasis on self-control , many can say something , but it is Somewhat complicated, it is Easy when many believe that one should Self-control and one Should do more things to generate more money or Stop losing so much money , But When we look at it we are People who when we are in a casino the emotions and the Impulses are there, and I say that a person when they manage to control the emotions to the maximum is when they will not be able to control their blood Pressure , because they no Longer get Carried Away Because of the Emotions , this is something that can be Seen as something to learn, even so self-confidence I think comes when we have the money willing to Lose , after this there is Nothing else and it is only Necessary to Comply with our Own rules then we can say That things can be seen Differently , if you Have a Balance of like 30usd and you lose it Doesn't Matter, because that's what you were Willing to lose , in Another Order of ideas this is what Matters.

If we start to see , we can Start playing as we want, but as long as we don't overdo it, then if we lose, then if we do it like this , Thinking that after each game Session we don't look for Wins , we can't be inventing things there. search with more Money , because it is a step Towards Addiction and less if you pursue losses in vain, this is what we should not see every time we play, because if we have the necessary Discipline then we do not Have to have Doubts that things They have to happen because in a casino we must Always be Very Careful to be Able to have the best of all Experiences , it Should be noted that now things have to be seen in many ways such as having fun, and if that is put in that context then it must be Take care of the money, and not lose so much because without money we can't do Anything , we can't Regret that a casino is going to Reward us Because we spend a lot , Because that way Nothing works.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Yes, I know that most of what is suggested here may not be able to completely help overcome or avoid addiction, but at least from these few points we can be more careful and a little responsible for our bets and try not to bet beyond the limits we can.
Maybe some people say this point is not enough I will respect that but at least we have nothing wrong with trying to be healthy gamblers without addiction and betting for fun without addiction and talking about sports betting might be a reference for not being too emotional when placing bets because we are quite placing bets and watching matches and the risk of becoming emotional and experiencing losses is not like when betting in casino games, mentally and subconsciously we will get emotional when every round of betting we lose and the feeling of wanting to chase losses is always there.
So betting on sports is very fun but it still doesn't mean to make money just try your luck.

The reason behind the addiction to the gambling was very simple,mostly due to targeting the loss in the gambling.The gambler doesn’t accept the loss from the gambling,this was the biggest reason for the addiction into the gambling.The good gambler will have the capacity to get away from the gambling,becasue they know gambling is also the game and not the money making machine.Once you had multiple the money from the gambling,you get addicted to it.So the number of attempt to get winning from the gambling will increased and you get addicted to it.Some people keep away from the gambling addiction by reducing the deposit to the gambling.

People get addicted for a myriad of reasons so it is reductionist to try to assign a single reason to this behavior, however regardless of the reasons a person may have to become addicted the end result is always the same, with the quality of their life taking a nose dive from which it can be very difficult to ever recover, so people need to always be aware of the possibility of becoming addicted to anything, and they need to monitor themselves and make an assessment of their lives once in a while just to see if they are not falling into an addiction.

You are very right, in other words, we can say that it is very important for us all to always keep or maintain a conscious mind towards all of our endeavors, not just gambling alone, for it is not only in gambling does one get addicted, there are several other things we do every day that anybody can easily get addicted in if he or she is not conscious of him or herself.

But then, here, we are discussing gambling, so let all references be on gambling alone, your idea of periodic assessment on oneself to see if he or she is still right on track or have deviated is a very good one, giving ourself some time to really check ourselves, think about all the money spent on gambling, think about the losses and winnings and compare the two to know if what we are doing is wasting money or just indeed having fun, all this and many more, if well practiced can indeed promote healthy gambling in us for us.

But unfortunately, i would say for sure that most gamblers pay attention to none of this things, even the very many of us preaching this still pay no attention to it.

[maydna]

People get addicted for a myriad of reasons so it is reductionist to try to assign a single reason to this behavior, however regardless of the reasons a person may have to become addicted the end result is always the same, with the quality of their life taking a nose dive from which it can be very difficult to ever recover, so people need to always be aware of the possibility of becoming addicted to anything, and they need to monitor themselves and make an assessment of their lives once in a while just to see if they are not falling into an addiction.

People who are addicted to gambling will experience a decline in their quality of life, which cannot be improved in a short time because their minds are already disturbed by thoughts about gambling. Hence, they only want to gamble without doing other things. But a person already knows and is starting to be aware of the changes that occur in him, as shown by the initial symptoms, namely the desire to return to gambling even though they have just finished gambling. Those who recognize these signs and can prevent these signs from escalating will take precautions in the form of tightening restrictions on their gambling activities and perhaps reducing their gambling time. But this is not easy to do because it requires discipline and self-control as well as responsibility so that they can truly obey the rules they make. If they can, they will not become addicted to gambling because an alarm will sound that will tell them to stop gambling immediately.

[Slow death]

People get addicted for a myriad of reasons so it is reductionist to try to assign a single reason to this behavior, however regardless of the reasons a person may have to become addicted the end result is always the same, with the quality of their life taking a nose dive from which it can be very difficult to ever recover, so people need to always be aware of the possibility of becoming addicted to anything, and they need to monitor themselves and make an assessment of their lives once in a while just to see if they are not falling into an addiction.

People who are addicted to gambling will experience a decline in their quality of life, which cannot be improved in a short time because their minds are already disturbed by thoughts about gambling. Hence, they only want to gamble without doing other things. But a person already knows and is starting to be aware of the changes that occur in him, as shown by the initial symptoms, namely the desire to return to gambling even though they have just finished gambling. Those who recognize these signs and can prevent these signs from escalating will take precautions in the form of tightening restrictions on their gambling activities and perhaps reducing their gambling time. But this is not easy to do because it requires discipline and self-control as well as responsibility so that they can truly obey the rules they make. If they can, they will not become addicted to gambling because an alarm will sound that will tell them to stop gambling immediately.

when people have many problems in the real world, problems such as: lack of employment, many debts, many bills to pay while earning a very low salary, when people lose a relative who was very dear to them, when the person has been bullied at school, at work and as a consequence this person doesn't leave the house much and after months this person doesn't leave the house anymore, so these people who are in these conditions when they encounter gambling, they easily become addicted, because the game becomes the only thing that allows them to forget the problems, the pain they have in the real world.

but the problem with this starts when the time and money that these people spend starts to get out of control and as they don't talk to anyone, and as they don't tell anyone that they play, then it becomes very difficult for people to find out that they play and how As a result, it takes a long time for relatives and friends to discover that person Z or relative Y has become addicted. In most cases, people around the addict find out about the addiction very late. I already had relatives who were addicted and the end and the suffering that it caused us was very great. It is not easy to deal with an addicted person, if the relatives are not very strong, then they will lose the long battle to save the addict

[GigaBit]

It is very difficult for an addicted fellow to trade with caution in gambling, but some techniques can be useful to an addicted gambler, they should not put all their hope in a bet that they staked, I know that it is not easy but it is possible if they try it.  gambling has ruined people's lives, so it is even better not to be involved, if you know that you are easily carried away by some things, I know that people involve themselves in gambling. They perceive that, it is the easiest method of making money, my advice is that gambling is very addictive, and we should avoid getting ourselves into it, because quitting is difficult especially when you have not win, you will want try your possible way to win and this might be unsuccessful for some time, in some case the person might not even win but he or she continue wasting money.

Many of us treat gambling badly because we lose there. My question is how can I call gambling bad if I do everything according to my own and no one forces me. How do those who benefit from gambling view gambling? What I want to say is that I don't want to put any blame on gambling as I am responsible for good and bad. As a general advice that is always said this is not a money making place. One should not be greedy in the gambling space. If a gambler does not accept all these advice, what is the point of blaming gambling? We gamblers need to get our intentions right first. I think if the intention or aim is right then gambling cannot have any bad impact.

[junder]

People get addicted for a myriad of reasons so it is reductionist to try to assign a single reason to this behavior, however regardless of the reasons a person may have to become addicted the end result is always the same, with the quality of their life taking a nose dive from which it can be very difficult to ever recover, so people need to always be aware of the possibility of becoming addicted to anything, and they need to monitor themselves and make an assessment of their lives once in a while just to see if they are not falling into an addiction.

People who are addicted to gambling will experience a decline in their quality of life, which cannot be improved in a short time because their minds are already disturbed by thoughts about gambling. Hence, they only want to gamble without doing other things. But a person already knows and is starting to be aware of the changes that occur in him, as shown by the initial symptoms, namely the desire to return to gambling even though they have just finished gambling. Those who recognize these signs and can prevent these signs from escalating will take precautions in the form of tightening restrictions on their gambling activities and perhaps reducing their gambling time. But this is not easy to do because it requires discipline and self-control as well as responsibility so that they can truly obey the rules they make. If they can, they will not become addicted to gambling because an alarm will sound that will tell them to stop gambling immediately.

Yes, that may be true, I slightly agree with something that seems to match the reality experienced by the gamblers there. True, their quality of life can suffer as a result of gambling that they have absolutely no control over in their minds, so it is only natural that gamblers always have strange assumptions and expectati ons.

Yes, for people who have managed to go through a difficult period such as the process of refraining from all temptations from gambling and managed to get out of the addiction  zone, they will be able to find out about what things they should avoid, because of course they certainly don't want the mistakes of the past to be repeated again, but it also depends on the person because obviously everyone has a different personality and nature, especially for those who have a character easily provoked and provoked, it is quite difficult to be able to do something like that, And I think they will only be able to realize by recognizing the signs that they will be worse off if they continue gambling. I think that only applies to those who are not too addicted, because as you said before for those who are already addicted, their  mindset is very disturbed and all they  want is gambling, nothing else and that is the  reason why they are difficult even just to look for signs that can have a worse impact..

[Sanugarid]

You are right in what you said, but it is also important that you have control over yourself and your emotions. Always think that gambling is just entertainment, don't expect to win big in gambling because that's impossible and if you always lose, that's normal in gambling, don't overthink and chase your loser. Just think that that loss is compensation for the entertainment that gambling gave you.

[Wakate]

You are right in what you said, but it is also important that you have control over yourself and your emotions. Always think that gambling is just entertainment, don't expect to win big in gambling because that's impossible and if you always lose, that's normal in gambling, don't overthink and chase your loser. Just think that that loss is compensation for the entertainment that gambling gave you.

Control of how we gamble is what is going to help us to be a better gambler. Self discipline is what is going to work for us nit just trying to gamble and make money for ourselves. It is good for us to watch the way we gamble so that we can know when we are going too far in gambling. We gamblers need to have a system or how to detect when we are going too far in gambling. If we want to earn more and live a better lifestyle as a gambler, we need to make sure that we stick to gambling rules so that we don't go too far as a gambler ans end us losing more than we can afford to gain.

[Dewi Aries]

You are right in what you said, but it is also important that you have control over yourself and your emotions. Always think that gambling is just entertainment, don't expect to win big in gambling because that's impossible and if you always lose, that's normal in gambling, don't overthink and chase your loser. Just think that that loss is compensation for the entertainment that gambling gave you.

Of course that's the main thing that they have to realize and bring in every gambling involvement, self-control or limits will have an important role for your safety in the activity, why? because for the final result always runs depending on your luck and there is no certainty at all for a better result, usually in gambling the average final result is disappointing and far from expectations, which is why many end up horrible and beyond expectations when they come with an unreasonable mindset.

Casinos create systems only to benefit themselves, which is why there are so many temptations in gambling, none other than because it is to trap you, and if you are careless and get into the addiction zone then yes the casino smiles at the losers who want to make money by just hoping for luck. So yes you said the right thing, gambling just for fun is better, with that I think you will avoid things that are not wanted.

[maydna]

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Yes, that may be true, I slightly agree with something that seems to match the reality experienced by the gamblers there. True, their quality of life can suffer as a result of gambling that they have absolutely no control over in their minds, so it is only natural that gamblers always have strange assumptions and expectati ons.

Yes, for people who have managed to go through a difficult period such as the process of refraining from all temptations from gambling and managed to get out of the addiction  zone, they will be able to find out about what things they should avoid, because of course they certainly don't want the mistakes of the past to be repeated again, but it also depends on the person because obviously everyone has a different personality and nature, especially for those who have a character easily provoked and provoked, it is quite difficult to be able to do something like that, And I think they will only be able to realize by recognizing the signs that they will be worse off if they continue gambling. I think that only applies to those who are not too addicted, because as you said before for those who are already addicted, their  mindset is very disturbed and all they  want is gambling, nothing else and that is the  reason why they are difficult even just to look for signs that can have a worse impact..

That is why if you approach gambling, you must be prepared for all the consequences because many people are not ready for the risks behind gambling, so many of them end up experiencing gambling addiction without being able to cure their gambling addiction. They don't realize that they are actually addicted to gambling and don't want to stop before they are satisfied with getting what they want. Perhaps we have also seen this happen to people close to us, so we witnessed firsthand what happened to that person and especially their family, who could not endure what that person experienced.

Therefore, if you feel that you are getting too close to gambling, you should immediately distance yourself from gambling because it will make it difficult for you to leave gambling, especially if you just want to use gambling to get pleasure. In fact, if you realize it, you can get other pleasures that don't require money to get. You will not be able to see that you are actually too deep in gambling. Even if someone else advises you to leave gambling, you will not believe that he is telling the truth.

~snip~

Yes, that may be true, I slightly agree with something that seems to match the reality experienced by the gamblers there. True, their quality of life can suffer as a result of gambling that they have absolutely no control over in their minds, so it is only natural that gamblers always have strange assumptions and expectati ons.

Yes, for people who have managed to go through a difficult period such as the process of refraining from all temptations from gambling and managed to get out of the addiction  zone, they will be able to find out about what things they should avoid, because of course they certainly don't want the mistakes of the past to be repeated again, but it also depends on the person because obviously everyone has a different personality and nature, especially for those who have a character easily provoked and provoked, it is quite difficult to be able to do something like that, And I think they will only be able to realize by recognizing the signs that they will be worse off if they continue gambling. I think that only applies to those who are not too addicted, because as you said before for those who are already addicted, their  mindset is very disturbed and all they  want is gambling, nothing else and that is the  reason why they are difficult even just to look for signs that can have a worse impact..

This means that people who have successfully cured themselves still have the possibility of returning to gambling, especially if advertisements on the internet easily provoke them. Perhaps they can still stop themselves from gambling when they see the advertisements around them because they feel they have recovered from their gambling addiction. But after they browse the internet and find more advertisements, they feel they want to know what the development of gambling is because they never see casinos anymore. That is the starting point for them returning to gambling because they have seen advertisements on the internet. The influence of the internet is so strong that even those who have recovered from gambling addiction can return to gambling again.

We must always be careful not to be influenced by anything we see on the internet because the influence of the internet is very strong, and even people who have recovered from gambling addiction can return to gambling if they cannot control themselves after seeing advertisements on the internet. For people who are still unstable they will easily become addicted to gambling because by just seeing the advertisements, they will be curious and want to prove it directly by depositing their money to gamble. But after playing gambling for a while, they didn't find what they saw to be true, and that actually made them even more curious because they couldn't get it yet, so they kept trying. Even though they have succeeded in getting it, they want to get more, so they finally decide to use more, but in the end, they are the ones who experience more losses.

[Josefjix]

You are right in what you said, but it is also important that you have control over yourself and your emotions. Always think that gambling is just entertainment, don't expect to win big in gambling because that's impossible and if you always lose, that's normal in gambling, don't overthink and chase your loser. Just think that that loss is compensation for the entertainment that gambling gave you.

A loser today can turned to be a winner tomorrow in gambling. There's always this remorseful thoughts that flew across my mind whenever I'm gambling, everyday is an opportunity in the system and today is not the last day to try again, these statements along will refrained from taking another hand in gambling and always go straight to home. Losing is usually a normal activity that's carried out in the system which everyone doesn't seem surprised any longer, rather what keeps us tense is when our games doesn't go according to my plans, I mean our main games that we solely depend on.

[junder]

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Yes, that may be true, I slightly agree with something that seems to match the reality experienced by the gamblers there. True, their quality of life can suffer as a result of gambling that they have absolutely no control over in their minds, so it is only natural that gamblers always have strange assumptions and expectati ons.

Yes, for people who have managed to go through a difficult period such as the process of refraining from all temptations from gambling and managed to get out of the addiction  zone, they will be able to find out about what things they should avoid, because of course they certainly don't want the mistakes of the past to be repeated again, but it also depends on the person because obviously everyone has a different personality and nature, especially for those who have a character easily provoked and provoked, it is quite difficult to be able to do something like that, And I think they will only be able to realize by recognizing the signs that they will be worse off if they continue gambling. I think that only applies to those who are not too addicted, because as you said before for those who are already addicted, their  mindset is very disturbed and all they  want is gambling, nothing else and that is the  reason why they are difficult even just to look for signs that can have a worse impact..

That is why if you approach gambling, you must be prepared for all the consequences because many people are not ready for the risks behind gambling, so many of them end up experiencing gambling addiction without being able to cure their gambling addiction. They don't realize that they are actually addicted to gambling and don't want to stop before they are satisfied with getting what they want. Perhaps we have also seen this happen to people close to us, so we witnessed firsthand what happened to that person and especially their family, who could not endure what that person experienced.

Therefore, if you feel that you are getting too close to gambling, you should immediately distance yourself from gambling because it will make it difficult for you to leave gambling, especially if you just want to use gambling to get pleasure. In fact, if you realize it, you can get other pleasures that don't require money to get. You will not be able to see that you are actually too deep in gambling. Even if someone else advises you to leave gambling, you will not believe that he is telling the truth.

Yes, in my opinion, the initial problem that makes them finally stuck in such a cycle is that they come in a hurry because they see other people who managed to get a big win so that in their arrival they did not think at all about what risks there are in gambling, and in my opinion that is why they are stuck in a slump. Conditions like this are indeed very confusing in my opinion, it is true that there are still many logical suggestions for them but all of that is too late buddy, they will be very difficult to accept advice from others if they have entered the addiction zone, because it is clear as you said that all they think about is satisfaction in gambling, not at all thinking about what the impact will be as terrible someday.

Honestly, if the condition is like that, I can't be sure when they can realize their mistakes, maybe they can only wait for the time, hopefully they can really get bored with gambling and can realize all their mistakes, that's all.

[Fredomago]

You are right in what you said, but it is also important that you have control over yourself and your emotions. Always think that gambling is just entertainment, don't expect to win big in gambling because that's impossible and if you always lose, that's normal in gambling, don't overthink and chase your loser. Just think that that loss is compensation for the entertainment that gambling gave you.

A loser today can turned to be a winner tomorrow in gambling. There's always this remorseful thoughts that flew across my mind whenever I'm gambling, everyday is an opportunity in the system and today is not the last day to try again, these statements along will refrained from taking another hand in gambling and always go straight to home. Losing is usually a normal activity that's carried out in the system which everyone doesn't seem surprised any longer, rather what keeps us tense is when our games doesn't go according to my plans, I mean our main games that we solely depend on.

Better to have that kind of mindset, just stay calm as possible and accept the defeats and re-try to assess your strategy and try to find another set whenever you are already mentally recharge, chasing losses can only lead you to addiction and that's not a good way to treat this venue of entertainment or whatever you think you are aiming as some may really coming to make money, as long as you still have that control over your emotions then it's okay to move forward.

[maydna]

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Yes, in my opinion, the initial problem that makes them finally stuck in such a cycle is that they come in a hurry because they see other people who managed to get a big win so that in their arrival they did not think at all about what risks there are in gambling, and in my opinion that is why they are stuck in a slump. Conditions like this are indeed very confusing in my opinion, it is true that there are still many logical suggestions for them but all of that is too late buddy, they will be very difficult to accept advice from others if they have entered the addiction zone, because it is clear as you said that all they think about is satisfaction in gambling, not at all thinking about what the impact will be as terrible someday.

Honestly, if the condition is like that, I can't be sure when they can realize their mistakes, maybe they can only wait for the time, hopefully they can really get bored with gambling and can realize all their mistakes, that's all.

They won't think about what that person went through before they finally got a big win and just think that they can get a big win too. But that is wrong thinking because not all gamblers can get their big wins, and only those who really get their luck can win big. They have to change their mindset like that so that they don't become addicted to gambling because, after all, sooner or later, thinking like that will make them addicted to gambling that they won't realize. More people have thoughts like that when they see other people can win big easily and then decide to follow what that person does. But the reality will not be like what they imagine.

Yes, we can't be sure when they will wake up. We can only hope that they can quickly realize their mistakes so that they can learn from all their mistakes. We can only take care of ourselves while gambling so that we don't experience the same mistakes as them.

[Blitzboy]

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Yes, in my opinion, the initial problem that makes them finally stuck in such a cycle is that they come in a hurry because they see other people who managed to get a big win so that in their arrival they did not think at all about what risks there are in gambling, and in my opinion that is why they are stuck in a slump. Conditions like this are indeed very confusing in my opinion, it is true that there are still many logical suggestions for them but all of that is too late buddy, they will be very difficult to accept advice from others if they have entered the addiction zone, because it is clear as you said that all they think about is satisfaction in gambling, not at all thinking about what the impact will be as terrible someday.

Honestly, if the condition is like that, I can't be sure when they can realize their mistakes, maybe they can only wait for the time, hopefully they can really get bored with gambling and can realize all their mistakes, that's all.

They won't think about what that person went through before they finally got a big win and just think that they can get a big win too. But that is wrong thinking because not all gamblers can get their big wins, and only those who really get their luck can win big. They have to change their mindset like that so that they don't become addicted to gambling because, after all, sooner or later, thinking like that will make them addicted to gambling that they won't realize. More people have thoughts like that when they see other people can win big easily and then decide to follow what that person does. But the reality will not be like what they imagine.

Yes, we can't be sure when they will wake up. We can only hope that they can quickly realize their mistakes so that they can learn from all their mistakes. We can only take care of ourselves while gambling so that we don't experience the same mistakes as them.

A classic gambler's fallacy, right? Thinking "Hey, that could be me next!" after seeing someone win. We know that's a one-way trip to addiction. Gambling thrives on this faith that luck can be found. It's about knowing the odds and when to stop, not chance. Change mindsets, you're right. Our brains are wired to follow the winner, assuming their route will lead to success. It's like trying to catch lightning in a bottle. What works for one may not work for another. People will benefit sooner if they understand this. Gambling isn't a fairy tale with happy endings. Self-awareness matters. You can't influence others' reality wake-up calls. Keep yourself from slipping into the same trap. Mindfulness and knowing limitations are key. Gambling should be fun, not addictive. Stay focused and don't let the massive win deceive you.

[junder]

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Yes, in my opinion, the initial problem that makes them finally stuck in such a cycle is that they come in a hurry because they see other people who managed to get a big win so that in their arrival they did not think at all about what risks there are in gambling, and in my opinion that is why they are stuck in a slump. Conditions like this are indeed very confusing in my opinion, it is true that there are still many logical suggestions for them but all of that is too late buddy, they will be very difficult to accept advice from others if they have entered the addiction zone, because it is clear as you said that all they think about is satisfaction in gambling, not at all thinking about what the impact will be as terrible someday.

Honestly, if the condition is like that, I can't be sure when they can realize their mistakes, maybe they can only wait for the time, hopefully they can really get bored with gambling and can realize all their mistakes, that's all.

They won't think about what that person went through before they finally got a big win and just think that they can get a big win too. But that is wrong thinking because not all gamblers can get their big wins, and only those who really get their luck can win big. They have to change their mindset like that so that they don't become addicted to gambling because, after all, sooner or later, thinking like that will make them addicted to gambling that they won't realize. More people have thoughts like that when they see other people can win big easily and then decide to follow what that person does. But the reality will not be like what they imagine.

Yes, we can't be sure when they will wake up. We can only hope that they can quickly realize their mistakes so that they can learn from all their mistakes. We can only take care of ourselves while gambling so that we don't experience the same mistakes as them.

Well and that means as I said that they come because they see and are tempted from the victory that other people managed to get without seeing how much money the other people spent to get the big win, basically they did not see from various sides before finally deciding to follow and want the same fate as that person. The only thing on their mind is how they can get the victory like others get when on the other hand for this problem there is no way that can make them have the same fate as others except only luck will answer it.  This is a wrong mindset because every gambler has their own luck and in terms of time they will not know when they will be lucky, that's clear. Yes I also hope so, hopefully they can change their mindset as soon as possible so as not to suffer too much defeat which ultimately makes them regret it. That's right, of course over time if they continue to think like that then they will unconsciously enter the real addiction zone, so even though other people can win that way it doesn't mean you will have the same fate as them even by following the way like them.

Honestly it's out of our control and maybe we can only hope for the best for them to sober up soon.

[tusandii]

You are right in what you said, but it is also important that you have control over yourself and your emotions. Always think that gambling is just entertainment, don't expect to win big in gambling because that's impossible and if you always lose, that's normal in gambling, don't overthink and chase your loser. Just think that that loss is compensation for the entertainment that gambling gave you.

A loser today can turned to be a winner tomorrow in gambling. There's always this remorseful thoughts that flew across my mind whenever I'm gambling, everyday is an opportunity in the system and today is not the last day to try again, these statements along will refrained from taking another hand in gambling and always go straight to home. Losing is usually a normal activity that's carried out in the system which everyone doesn't seem surprised any longer, rather what keeps us tense is when our games doesn't go according to my plans, I mean our main games that we solely depend on.

Better to have that kind of mindset, just stay calm as possible and accept the defeats and re-try to assess your strategy and try to find another set whenever you are already mentally recharge, chasing losses can only lead you to addiction and that's not a good way to treat this venue of entertainment or whatever you think you are aiming as some may really coming to make money, as long as you still have that control over your emotions then it's okay to move forward.

From your statement, what I understand is that chasing defeat is unnecessary and just needs to be ignored.
It very important for us to remain committed to plan that has been made before placing bet, planning using budget that we can afford to lose which will prevent from feeling like chasing losses and this way it always said by several people on this forum because of the way we this discussion very easy to say but very difficult to do.
But as long as someone wants to learn how to gamble healthily, there no harm continuing to learn control all for their own good.

[Weawant]

This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:

Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.

Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?

Don't allow yourself get to the point of addiction because it is when you get addicted you then start to put up habits as drinking and others probably to help you was off the pains off your losses which on the long run you never get to forget those losses by drinking or drugs.

Most times these guidelines help to gamble responsibly but it's sad that most persons fail to be disciplined enough to want to keep to these guidelines which would have helped them become better persons regardless of their gambling habits, discipline is one key factor they should be considered because you could have a strategy and plans as well but if you are not disciplined you will still fail at it.