Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting

[piebeyb]

Advise yourself because there's likely not going to be anybody to assist in this case to help you get over it, if you know how you got into that then there's nothing bad in figuring out the means to use in getting out of it all, we shouldn't start what we can't finish, addiction can lead to many different experience that may harm our mental, physical or life threatas a matter of fact, we can begin to gradually reduce the rate to gamble till we have the final expectations meant.

Yes, not only giving advice to yourself but also self-introspection about how far you have gone in gambling, whether it has given you happiness or chaos. If you really feel like you are in chaos, you should never continue gambling or place bets again to avoid addiction because gambling too deeply is indeed very difficult to cure. Moreover, sometimes it is difficult to listen to other people's advice.

I have experienced chaos before, but after thinking for a long time, doing self-introspection, I finally gradually reduced the bad habit of gambling without knowing the time, that's why now I prefer to gamble by limiting money and time without having to worry about addiction, because I have learned to be a more consistent gambler. being wise and responsible, that is the most important thing because it is difficult to rely on other people if we don't start from ourselves.

[Gormicsta]

This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:

Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.

Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?

You've highlighted very notable and helpful points, but on thing about addiction is that, at that point nothing else matters other than what you're addicted to, when a gamblris addicted, even when he realizes he needs help, and he's given some tips that'd help him fight the addiction, sticking to those tips is another battle, maybe he can try to do it for he first and second day, but that's it. So here are some points I feel would also be helpful to help fight the addiction faster.
1. AVOID BEING ALONE
You're likely to thing about doing things you're trying to get away from when you're alone or lonely, s try always being around people and friends ( who don't encourage gambling) they say you're likely to be like who you hang around with, so always handlg around people and avoid being alone at all time, except you're alone busy with something.

2. LOOK FOR A NEW HOBBY
You got addicted to gambling because you got too attached and used to it, so changing your hobby and finding something else tht excites you would really help you in getting rid of your addiction quickly.

3. GET A TRUSTED PERSON TO MANAGE YOUR FUNDS
If you're addicted to gambling, another way that can help you fight the addiction is looking for someoneyou trust to help you manage your funds, it could be your colleague at work, your secretary, your spouse or anyone you trust. That way you don't have easy access to your funds and can't gamble at will.

These tips could also be helpful

[Fredomago]

Advising is good behavior and a good step to prevent someone from gambling excessively, besides that apart from prevention there is another meaning, namely the presence of someone's attention and concern for us because they have taken the time to advise us so that the future will be even better and for that reason It's good if we listen and try to do what he says.

Listening to someone who shows care about us is the best way, though most of the time it is being taken for granted, I believe that with an open mind and willingness to move forward, even you are at first got too much into addiction time will come and will lead you to right direction if that self-will inside you overpower and dominates whatever involvement you've got to eny extent of gambling participation or worse to the point of gambling addictions.

[Blitzboy]

Advise yourself because there's likely not going to be anybody to assist in this case to help you get over it, if you know how you got into that then there's nothing bad in figuring out the means to use in getting out of it all, we shouldn't start what we can't finish, addiction can lead to many different experience that may harm our mental, physical or life threatas a matter of fact, we can begin to gradually reduce the rate to gamble till we have the final expectations meant.

Yes, not only giving advice to yourself but also self-introspection about how far you have gone in gambling, whether it has given you happiness or chaos. If you really feel like you are in chaos, you should never continue gambling or place bets again to avoid addiction because gambling too deeply is indeed very difficult to cure. Moreover, sometimes it is difficult to listen to other people's advice.

I have experienced chaos before, but after thinking for a long time, doing self-introspection, I finally gradually reduced the bad habit of gambling without knowing the time, that's why now I prefer to gamble by limiting money and time without having to worry about addiction, because I have learned to be a more consistent gambler. being wise and responsible, that is the most important thing because it is difficult to rely on other people if we don't start from ourselves.

Gambling's danger and addiction pose unique mental concerns. Recognize that even with self-imposed boundaries, old habits might return. Why? Gambling thrills sometimes trump reasonable thought, sending even the wisest into a downward spiral.

The key, then, lies not just in self-control but also in self-awareness. You showed this by setting limits. Moderation constancy is harder than it seems. The mind can always relapse after addiction. Can this control last? Or is it a temporary veil over an underlying issue? One must constantly review their connection with gambling to prevent it from taking over. Vigilance helps.

[Dewi Aries]

That's right, if someone is addicted to gambling he is not aware and forgets to control himself when gambling, and experienced gamblers must have felt the bitter and sweet feeling of winning or losing from gambling and in terms of this experience, of course this must be the basis for learning for beginners in gambling so that Always be alert when you want to gamble. Therefore, every gambler, both experienced and novice, must advise each other so that both can reduce the impact of risks due to gambling. Yes, it may sound very strange but it would be a good move if done.

Experienced gamblers always try to learn from every incident they experience so that they can improve their ability to gamble and also learn to control themselves better. They have experienced worse incidents while they were gambling and that made them learn a lot from their experiences and made them wise gamblers. But it's different from novice gamblers who don't have much experience because they often underestimate other people's experience and don't want to learn it because they think it will be of no use. Actually, there are lessons they can take. Yes, we can advise each other so that we can look after each other in gambling and not experience too many losses. And we can also reduce the impact of risks resulting from gambling.

I agree, friends, experienced gamblers will take lessons from every problem they have previously experienced, from there they will use it to control themselves better when gambling so that they can reduce problems or risks in gambling in the future.

Yes, that's right, while beginner or inexperienced gamblers haven't fully experienced actual gambling events or problems, they have only seen or heard stories from other people, so they don't fully understand what gambling is, and tend to play carelessly. without being balanced with good self-control, they will experience many obstacles when gambling.

It's true, from all this there will be a lesson, if we both remind or advise each other with the same goal, namely to minimize the risks posed by gambling, then it cannot be denied that there will definitely be risks, but we must be ready to accept whatever the risks are.

That way they can minimize the risks and losses that exist, with the experience that someone has will make lessons for the future when they gamble again, maybe they can limit gambling that has a big risk.
Also novice gamblers tend to be easily attracted by new halls such as promotions provided by gambling which is the goal to attract the attention of many people to play at gambling, For those who already have experience maybe they already understand the existing promotions, so they are not too enthusiastic about the promotions provided by gambling so they behave normally, but for beginners when they get information about promotions maybe they will immediately look for it and return to play with the existing promotion rules, but do not realize that it is just a pull so that they play longer at gambling so that the bookie gets more profit. and for beginners they should be able to play longer at gambling so that the bookie gets more profit. And for beginners they should be able to interpret gambling correctly, I mean don't make gambling the main income or a quick money maker.

[Gozie51]

Advising is good behavior and a good step to prevent someone from gambling excessively, besides that apart from prevention there is another meaning, namely the presence of someone's attention and concern for us because they have taken the time to advise us so that the future will be even better and for that reason It's good if we listen and try to do what he says.

Listening to someone who shows care about us is the best way, though most of the time it is being taken for granted, I believe that with an open mind and willingness to move forward, even you are at first got too much into addiction time will come and will lead you to right direction if that self-will inside you overpower and dominates whatever involvement you've got to eny extent of gambling participation or worse to the point of gambling addictions.

The challenge is that if we have not made up our mind to listen or ready to take advise that is given to us then we are simply going to waste the person's time, it is going to be like water on a stone. Sometimes it is our readiness to receive such advise that makes it work otherwise such efforts will be futile.  Like someone who is still addicted will later go back to gambling if he has not been convinced in himself to stop and seek for help, you can't help someone whose mind is not prepared for it or it will take a longer effort to get such persons out of their addiction.

[len01]

Advising is good behavior and a good step to prevent someone from gambling excessively, besides that apart from prevention there is another meaning, namely the presence of someone's attention and concern for us because they have taken the time to advise us so that the future will be even better and for that reason It's good if we listen and try to do what he says.

Listening to someone who shows care about us is the best way, though most of the time it is being taken for granted, I believe that with an open mind and willingness to move forward, even you are at first got too much into addiction time will come and will lead you to right direction if that self-will inside you overpower and dominates whatever involvement you've got to eny extent of gambling participation or worse to the point of gambling addictions.

someone who gives us advice, of course he really cares about us not getting into bad zone of the impact gambling and of course someone who gives us advice has already experienced bad things so I agree with you both, if you listen to advice from anyone, you need to listen to it, even if its not we always have to do something to ensure that we can listen well, of course we can consider it one day when we almost have a bad experience.

I really understand the bad zones in gambling and what bad effects must be avoided and it all does not start from my own experience but also advice from other gamblers.

[arimamib]

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Yes, not only giving advice to yourself but also self-introspection about how far you have gone in gambling, whether it has given you happiness or chaos. If you really feel like you are in chaos, you should never continue gambling or place bets again to avoid addiction because gambling too deeply is indeed very difficult to cure. Moreover, sometimes it is difficult to listen to other people's advice.

Recognizing the negative impact gambling has had on your life is a crucial step towards healing. Self-introspection is essential in understanding the underlying reasons behind your gambling behavior. Reflect on the emotions, thoughts, and situations that trigger your urge to gamble. Identifying these triggers can help you develop coping mechanisms and avoid situations that put you at risk of relapse.

I dont think advices from other people would work for addicted people, because their logic on the matter has been overshadowed by addictive desire. the importance to have trusted people around is to be a good listener and to find alternative activities that can reduce the times spent on gambling.

[zuzie]

Advising is good behavior and a good step to prevent someone from gambling excessively, besides that apart from prevention there is another meaning, namely the presence of someone's attention and concern for us because they have taken the time to advise us so that the future will be even better and for that reason It's good if we listen and try to do what he says.

Listening to someone who shows care about us is the best way, though most of the time it is being taken for granted, I believe that with an open mind and willingness to move forward, even you are at first got too much into addiction time will come and will lead you to right direction if that self-will inside you overpower and dominates whatever involvement you've got to eny extent of gambling participation or worse to the point of gambling addictions.

Yes, gamblers should be willing to listen to other people's advice and try to think positively that there are still people who care and pay attention to us when we make a wrong move or gamble too much, with the aim that we don't suffer. There are many losses in gambling, but if the person is easily emotional, misunderstandings will arise and he will easily ignore other people's advice, so it is a loss if he underestimates good advice even though it is actually for our own good.
And with this concern we can also reduce and prevent us from becoming addicts and when we are in a casino the atmosphere will change, from what was previously fine, it does not rule out the possibility of becoming hostile. and we must avoid things like that as much as possible, in order to maintain emotional control and not cause new problems in gambling.

[KTChampions]

The challenge is that if we have not made up our mind to listen or ready to take advise that is given to us then we are simply going to waste the person's time, it is going to be like water on a stone. Sometimes it is our readiness to receive such advise that makes it work otherwise such efforts will be futile.  Like someone who is still addicted will later go back to gambling if he has not been convinced in himself to stop and seek for help, you can't help someone whose mind is not prepared for it or it will take a longer effort to get such persons out of their addiction.

Yes, this is a big problem that concerns not only gambling: many people think that they can figure everything out only based on their experience. And here this can be said to be a “natural” assumption since gambling is entertainment and what could be dangerous in entertainment? But in fact, there are many pitfalls and dangers, so ideally, a beginner in gambling should first familiarize himself with the theory and only then try practice.

[swogerino]

The challenge is that if we have not made up our mind to listen or ready to take advise that is given to us then we are simply going to waste the person's time, it is going to be like water on a stone. Sometimes it is our readiness to receive such advise that makes it work otherwise such efforts will be futile.  Like someone who is still addicted will later go back to gambling if he has not been convinced in himself to stop and seek for help, you can't help someone whose mind is not prepared for it or it will take a longer effort to get such persons out of their addiction.

Yes, this is a big problem that concerns not only gambling: many people think that they can figure everything out only based on their experience. And here this can be said to be a “natural” assumption since gambling is entertainment and what could be dangerous in entertainment? But in fact, there are many pitfalls and dangers, so ideally, a beginner in gambling should first familiarize himself with the theory and only then try practice.

I think that the first step is to acknowledge that you are going a bit far and this is easy to detect if you are having the good will of doing so.For example when you see that you are depositing more and more to chase losses and to recover your money which lead to more lost money it is the red flag that everyone should stop and think what are they doing,if they stop at this moment and most likely think cold headed they will realize that they have to take a break because things aren't going well at all.If people do not stop at this moment then they need professional help.

[Blitzboy]

The challenge is that if we have not made up our mind to listen or ready to take advise that is given to us then we are simply going to waste the person's time, it is going to be like water on a stone. Sometimes it is our readiness to receive such advise that makes it work otherwise such efforts will be futile.  Like someone who is still addicted will later go back to gambling if he has not been convinced in himself to stop and seek for help, you can't help someone whose mind is not prepared for it or it will take a longer effort to get such persons out of their addiction.

Yes, this is a big problem that concerns not only gambling: many people think that they can figure everything out only based on their experience. And here this can be said to be a “natural” assumption since gambling is entertainment and what could be dangerous in entertainment? But in fact, there are many pitfalls and dangers, so ideally, a beginner in gambling should first familiarize himself with the theory and only then try practice.

I think that the first step is to acknowledge that you are going a bit far and this is easy to detect if you are having the good will of doing so.For example when you see that you are depositing more and more to chase losses and to recover your money which lead to more lost money it is the red flag that everyone should stop and think what are they doing,if they stop at this moment and most likely think cold headed they will realize that they have to take a break because things aren't going well at all.If people do not stop at this moment then they need professional help.

Seeing the red flag of expanding bets to recover losses is the first step, but its often ignored. Gambling takes use of intricate mental processes. Theres more to it than luck or money. Remember risk, reward, and self-control. When one chases loses, rationality retreats. Hope outweighs judgment, a slippery slope. "Just one more gamble" leads to deception. When does gambling become a problem? When one ignores financial and emotional constraints.

If one cant stop, professional aid is essential. Understand your compulsions, not simply your willpower. Knowledge of human behavior and responsible gambling is crucial. Recognizing you need help is a first step toward recovering control.

[junder]

It's true as you said, professional gamblers are calculating in their gambling activities, even though they are gamblers but they have a different way from other gamblers, especially those who are aggressive in gambling, professional gamblers they will put more emphasis on learning from mistakes such as losing, I'm not saying that professional gamblers don't always lose, because obviously after all this is gambling that the chances of losing are greater than winning, but they have a pretty smart way by always doing ways or correcting their mistakes such as not acting too greedy to minimize the number of losses.

I think that professional gamblers will not really pursue a larger amount of winnings if the conditions do not allow, they prefer to secure a modest victory than to pursue something bigger but also has a higher level of risk. That's right, they do that because they had a pretty bad experience that traumatized them, which is why aggressive gamblers or beginners who like to overdo it have to experience bitter things first in their gambling so that they can realize or reduce their gambling so that the risks are not as terrible as before, and also on the other hand this is the reason why sometimes aggressive gamblers or beginners are very difficult to advise.

Professional gamblers already know what is involved in gambling so they can use gambling properly. Meanwhile, other gamblers don't know anything and are just trying to chase the win, which won't be as easy as they imagine. Professional gamblers have indeed experienced losses, but they can overcome bigger losses because they already know how. This is what most gamblers must learn so that they don't experience even bigger losses. Professional gamblers will also not be greedy in getting a win because if they have won, they can stop themselves to reduce tension and also to prevent the next loss in gambling.

If most gamblers could learn from professional gamblers by not chasing too many winnings, they could prevent their losses from getting bigger and could feel that what they got was actually enough and there was no need to chase wins because it would be difficult for them. They also know what to do if they win or lose because they have learned a lot from professional gamblers so they can be wiser in using gambling. The experience they gain is very useful for them because they can learn from their experience so they can overcome bigger losses. They can prevent the risk of bigger losses because they know that if they experience a lot of losses, it will make their emotions increase and can cause a loss of control and in the end, they will only experience more losses.

Beginners should be able to look at experienced gamblers to model what should be done when gambling precisely when getting a loss and victory, although the decision is entirely up to them but there is nothing wrong with looking at experienced gamblers in dealing with various things in gambling. By studying the experience that an experienced gambler has, they can take good examples for them to do and practice in gambling to avoid excessive risk. So there is nothing wrong with seeing or taking experience from those who are experienced.

They also have to avoid dissatisfaction as well as eliminate it so as not to chase bigger wins when they have won, even if it is small there is nothing wrong with them cashing it in, unless they are ready for the risks that will occur but unfortunately some of them do not think about the risks that will occur so they are not ready for the risks, and cannot accept the defeat they get. They should be able to correct their own mistakes and not be upset with what they get. If only they can learn from the past that's also good.

I agree, friends, experienced gamblers will take lessons from every problem they have previously experienced, from there they will use it to control themselves better when gambling so that they can reduce problems or risks in gambling in the future.

Yes, that's right, while beginner or inexperienced gamblers haven't fully experienced actual gambling events or problems, they have only seen or heard stories from other people, so they don't fully understand what gambling is, and tend to play carelessly. without being balanced with good self-control, they will experience many obstacles when gambling.

It's true, from all this there will be a lesson, if we both remind or advise each other with the same goal, namely to minimize the risks posed by gambling, then it cannot be denied that there will definitely be risks, but we must be ready to accept whatever the risks are.

Realizing that this experience will be useful for them will make them wiser in responding to gambling and will not gamble excessively. They will also continue to learn to control themselves when gambling because that is what can prevent them from experiencing defeat. Self-control can also make them aware that gambling is just entertainment and that they should not overdo it in gambling.

In fact, beginner or inexperienced gamblers can learn from their experience even though they haven't had much experience. They can also learn from other people's experiences so that they can add to their lessons and be wise when playing gambling. They also will not gamble carelessly because they must continue to use gambling as entertainment without any other purpose.

Studying the experiences we have or other people's experiences can provide knowledge about gambling and can give us the methods we should use when gambling so that we can reduce the risks posed by gambling. Even though it is difficult to learn, we should still try because it can increase our knowledge.

The little experience they have, they should be able to make it a lesson, whether they win or lose, there will definitely be things that can be used as experience for them in the future. And actually in my opinion do not have to have experience to gamble, they can take experience from other people who have been gambling for a long time to make their own learning, by knowing what to do like those who have experience maybe they can minimize the risks involved. Experienced gamblers should also be able to give good direction to those who are beginners about things to avoid and things to do. As you said making gambling as a purpose for entertainment, that's what they should teach novice gamblers.

The huge experienced gambler will lay the game continuously after the continuous loss,they will mark all the loss in the gambling by keep of the records.The gambler can improve their game by daily playing the game,because as like trading the gambler can able to learn the gambling by making the many games.So don't worry for the small losses in the gambling sites.One day the same gambling sites will give you huge compared to your complete loss in the gambling site.Many old gambler will say you to quit the gambling by seeing your continuous losses,you need to overcome this using the strong win in the gambling with some patience.

Marking their losses does not mean they have to chase them because they know that chasing their wins will be difficult to do, and even though they use more money, they can still win or recover their losses. Professional gamblers will not worry about losses that have occurred because they know that winning and losing in gambling is part of gambling and if they have lost in a row, they can only stop gambling. They will not continue gambling because it could cause other problems, which might become bigger if they lose control of themselves. That is why we must be able to take lessons from every experience we have from gambling or learn from other people's experiences so that we can use them for ourselves to prevent more losses in gambling.

You are right, the defeat that has occurred should not be used as a grudge and take it out by gambling and chasing wins that can cover the defeat that has occurred, because this will only make it difficult for them later. The defeat that has occurred should be used as a lesson for the future, that when gambling and taking arbitrary actions because it can lead to fatal mistakes. In my opinion, the defeats that have occurred are better forgotten and not remembered, let alone gambling for revenge is just stupid, the host will not give victory after they have lost a lot even though they have run out of money because the bookie will not care about them which the bookie will only focus on the profits they have to get.

[Fredomago]

Advising is good behavior and a good step to prevent someone from gambling excessively, besides that apart from prevention there is another meaning, namely the presence of someone's attention and concern for us because they have taken the time to advise us so that the future will be even better and for that reason It's good if we listen and try to do what he says.

Listening to someone who shows care about us is the best way, though most of the time it is being taken for granted, I believe that with an open mind and willingness to move forward, even you are at first got too much into addiction time will come and will lead you to right direction if that self-will inside you overpower and dominates whatever involvement you've got to eny extent of gambling participation or worse to the point of gambling addictions.

Yes, gamblers should be willing to listen to other people's advice and try to think positively that there are still people who care and pay attention to us when we make a wrong move or gamble too much, with the aim that we don't suffer. There are many losses in gambling, but if the person is easily emotional, misunderstandings will arise and he will easily ignore other people's advice, so it is a loss if he underestimates good advice even though it is actually for our own good.
And with this concern we can also reduce and prevent us from becoming addicts and when we are in a casino the atmosphere will change, from what was previously fine, it does not rule out the possibility of becoming hostile. and we must avoid things like that as much as possible, in order to maintain emotional control and not cause new problems in gambling.

It's a fruit of being dominated of addiction, instead of taking it as positive advice most of the time it will be misinterpreted and the person who are drown with his addiction will simply ignore whatever he heard from those people who loves him and care for him, he will start moving away or ignoring whatever things that those people are trying to help help coping with this bad vice that he's addicted with.

However, if he manages to listen and take it as a good way to help him then the possible outcome will be for betterment and will
lead him to recover.

[Oilacris]

Advising is good behavior and a good step to prevent someone from gambling excessively, besides that apart from prevention there is another meaning, namely the presence of someone's attention and concern for us because they have taken the time to advise us so that the future will be even better and for that reason It's good if we listen and try to do what he says.

Listening to someone who shows care about us is the best way, though most of the time it is being taken for granted, I believe that with an open mind and willingness to move forward, even you are at first got too much into addiction time will come and will lead you to right direction if that self-will inside you overpower and dominates whatever involvement you've got to eny extent of gambling participation or worse to the point of gambling addictions.

Yes, gamblers should be willing to listen to other people's advice and try to think positively that there are still people who care and pay attention to us when we make a wrong move or gamble too much, with the aim that we don't suffer. There are many losses in gambling, but if the person is easily emotional, misunderstandings will arise and he will easily ignore other people's advice, so it is a loss if he underestimates good advice even though it is actually for our own good.
And with this concern we can also reduce and prevent us from becoming addicts and when we are in a casino the atmosphere will change, from what was previously fine, it does not rule out the possibility of becoming hostile. and we must avoid things like that as much as possible, in order to maintain emotional control and not cause new problems in gambling.

It's a fruit of being dominated of addiction, instead of taking it as positive advice most of the time it will be misinterpreted and the person who are drown with his addiction will simply ignore whatever he heard from those people who loves him and care for him, he will start moving away or ignoring whatever things that those people are trying to help help coping with this bad vice that he's addicted with.

However, if he manages to listen and take it as a good way to help him then the possible outcome will be for betterment and will
lead him to recover.

On the time that you are?

- Forgetting your main priorities
- Spending more time with gambling
- Spending more money with  it
- Putting up some compromise with other important things

Its a solid indication that you are really that addicted to gambling and curing it or quitting will really be that just not that easy.
Although we can quit if we do really meant it but we know that not all people would be having that kind of mental strength on which they
can able to do such thing.

Be responsible on the time that you do gamble then you wont be experiencing any problems or consequences if you
are that mindful about your actions and wary about those things which needs to be prioritize and things which are needed
to be that avoided.

[Promocodeudo]

Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.

Also that the budget on gambling weekly should not be higher than 2 to 5% of the gambler weekly income.

Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.

Gambling should be for fun. It should not be what someone should consider to give a break for, but to be done at a very short period of time weekly.

Gamblers should not chase losses too

in my experience, if you are on the losing side while you are playing the game. take a pause, assess the situation and check where you are at your set budget. sometimes gamblers are getting lost once they are suffering losses after losses. and they forget all the budget constraints they have.
you need to be firm with your decision if you are setting your limits. always check yourself if you want to continue or not, see the bigger picture of what you're about to execute.

This only happens when the person involved is not an addict, if he eventually becomes an addict taking a break can never be an option, instead he or she will even go further to do anything to satisfy him or herself, addicted gamblers don't see losing as anything because the believe that they can win anytime, when they lose, they strategize and go for more, I think at this point there is no adding that's going to be useful to this person, unless God is involved to salvage the situation if not, you being the adviser might end up having issue with him or her, the question might come from him to you, he might say is the money your own, why not allow me to do what I like, I think this situation is complicated.

[Mauser]

The challenge is that if we have not made up our mind to listen or ready to take advise that is given to us then we are simply going to waste the person's time, it is going to be like water on a stone. Sometimes it is our readiness to receive such advise that makes it work otherwise such efforts will be futile.  Like someone who is still addicted will later go back to gambling if he has not been convinced in himself to stop and seek for help, you can't help someone whose mind is not prepared for it or it will take a longer effort to get such persons out of their addiction.

Yes, this is a big problem that concerns not only gambling: many people think that they can figure everything out only based on their experience. And here this can be said to be a “natural” assumption since gambling is entertainment and what could be dangerous in entertainment? But in fact, there are many pitfalls and dangers, so ideally, a beginner in gambling should first familiarize himself with the theory and only then try practice.

The dangerous part about gambling is that people can spend unlimited amounts of money on it. When we go out for a night of drinks, or to have dinner in a restaurant or watch a movie, we already know roughly how much money the night is going to cost us and if we can afford it with our monthly budget. With my family we allocate some money for eating in our favourite restaurants 2 times per month, more than that is just too expensive. Now with gambling it's a completely different story, because we can be winning or losing money during a night and need to always keep our bankroll in mind. What has helped me a lot after learning all the basics in gambling is to remind myself that the same type of games will also be around the next day. There is no need to place all my money in a single night, because I will have the exact same chances of winning the next day as well. I had the problem in the past to feel like I need to reach a certain profit before stopping to gamble and it barely worked as I mostly lost money the longer, I played. In the end it took me a long-time to recover those losses again and avoid doing the same mistakes all over again. Having good friends can be really helpful in such a case, because they have a better feeling of what is going on when they see us gambling recklessly. That is why I am always trying to listen to my friends and value their opinion when they want to tell me something.

[topbitcoin]

And with this concern we can also reduce and prevent us from becoming
On the time that you are?

- Forgetting your main priorities
- Spending more time with gambling
- Spending more money with  it
- Putting up some compromise with other important things

Its a solid indication that you are really that addicted to gambling and curing it or quitting will really be that just not that easy.
Although we can quit if we do really meant it but we know that not all people would be having that kind of mental strength on which they
can able to do such thing.

Be responsible on the time that you do gamble then you wont be experiencing any problems or consequences if you
are that mindful about your actions and wary about those things which needs to be prioritize and things which are needed
to be that avoided.

What you said is true, that it is one of the characteristics to know someone whether someone is a gambling addict, or not.
Although it is indeed very difficult to get out of this condition, but this is not the only basic reason for us to stop trying to try to control ourselves over gambling or decide to quit this activity.

And perhaps it is not the difficulty that makes us afraid to make an effort, but it is precisely the fear that makes it difficult for us to take a step. Because we are often frightened by an anxiety, that we will find it difficult to find other pleasures other than playing gambling, and we are also often afraid that when I stop playing gambling, then I will lose friends, because most of my friends are gamblers. It is thoughts like that that sometimes continue to haunt us and overshadow us. Even though we know that when this gambling cannot be controlled, then this will only result in a significant loss.

[Dewi Aries]

This only happens when the person involved is not an addict, if he eventually becomes an addict taking a break can never be an option, instead he or she will even go further to do anything to satisfy him or herself, addicted gamblers don't see losing as anything because the believe that they can win anytime, when they lose, they strategize and go for more, I think at this point there is no adding that's going to be useful to this person, unless God is involved to salvage the situation if not, you being the adviser might end up having issue with him or her, the question might come from him to you, he might say is the money your own, why not allow me to do what I like, I think this situation is complicated.

Your statement is very correct, I quite agree with your assumption, the fact is that it is not easy to take any prevention even for some people it might be easy to do but for people who have entered the addiction phase the situation will be different again, as you said that taking a break will never be an option, and if anyone chooses then I think only a few are able to do it. Their only option is to win so they will only be able to stop when they have exhausted all their money in every session they do.

Gamblers who are already addicted have a different mindset from other gamblers, especially those who are still in the safe zone. Basically and the reality is that they want to win but object to losing or even don't want to lose, and if they lose then obviously it's not the end of the world, they will do anything just to gamble, borrowing has become an alternative that they do if they have run out of money and none other than that all to catch up on previous losses. On the other hand they think that losing is a form of sacrifice, and it's useless even if you advise them I don't think it will have any effect. This is the bad impact of gambling if you have entered into addiction, there is no better end result except losing again, because even if they win then they will act greedy.

[zuzie]

Yes, gamblers should be willing to listen to other people's advice and try to think positively that there are still people who care and pay attention to us when we make a wrong move or gamble too much, with the aim that we don't suffer. There are many losses in gambling, but if the person is easily emotional, misunderstandings will arise and he will easily ignore other people's advice, so it is a loss if he underestimates good advice even though it is actually for our own good.
And with this concern we can also reduce and prevent us from becoming addicts and when we are in a casino the atmosphere will change, from what was previously fine, it does not rule out the possibility of becoming hostile. and we must avoid things like that as much as possible, in order to maintain emotional control and not cause new problems in gambling.

It's a fruit of being dominated of addiction, instead of taking it as positive advice most of the time it will be misinterpreted and the person who are drown with his addiction will simply ignore whatever he heard from those people who loves him and care for him, he will start moving away or ignoring whatever things that those people are trying to help help coping with this bad vice that he's addicted with.

However, if he manages to listen and take it as a good way to help him then the possible outcome will be for betterment and will
lead him to recover.

Basically, for someone who has experienced addiction, it is very difficult for him to change his behavior well even though he uses various alternative methods such as advice from his own family, he will not be easy to carry out this advice if he does not have a strong belief in himself to change, and this This often happens when an addict realizes that he has behaved badly and wrongly when he experiences a disaster in his life, and as a result the people closest to him will stay away from him.

Yes, that's right, therefore there is nothing wrong if we listen to other people's advice, maybe with that advice we will become people who behave well in order to avoid risks in gambling and avoid a bad life.