If you have relative and family all over you
You I'll know it's not easy damn
Conquer your challenge depends on your readiness of standing fit and taking cautiousness without looking at those points that seems to be your weak points else you would get depressed to face them.
Accept the advice if necessary to you, works towards if you are serious to make a change and then let your challenges and the effort ness take the lead.
The only change that is constant is nature.