I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!!

[xSkylarx]

Lack of money is temporary and you should not think so much about the fact that your job is gone, you are a competent person and you have to prove it. You feel that the workplace you used to work for did not leave you. You can earn good money. Your job is gone so you can't get out of that place if you're heartbroken. There is no shortage of jobs if you have qualifications. If you can arrange a job next, look for an alternative income stream in addition to that job so that if one closes, you can continue well through the other.

It seems easy to say, but this is really difficult to do. I've been in the same situation before with OP, even though I do have those skills but still can't get hired. It is really a matter of opportunity that will arrive on you, and you need to grab or take all of it so that you'll see how it works. Again, if a door closes, there will be another door that will open to you, no matter how long it takes. Just don't lose hope and continue to find it.

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[doomloop]

It seems that you grew up in a negative environment. As a grew up my i never experienced to be scared on failing my grades because my parents did not set a very high expectation. They just let me study and supported me weather i get a  high or low grade. They do not demand and pressure me to study very hard and get this grades. This is just a suggestion do not do to your children what you had experienced when you are growing up. Being in that kind of situation it can affect their mental health and the fear deep inside them will grow and it will stays in their heart and mind forever. For you to be able to make a lot of money you have to find other means like finding a side job, creating your own business etc. If you will pursue your target goals then you will be able to earn a lot of money. Just be patient and work hard.

The way he was raised was way too negative for a kid to be raised and what he is going through is evidence for what he has been through in his childhood. According to him, it was his mother who has been so harsh on him which is another thing one cannot believe because generally it's fathers who are harsh on their children so that they learn the things the hard way and have a better future but this is something different.

Those parents who are harsh on their children on another level need to understand that this thing will have a negative impact on their minds in the future and they will be very vulnerable to even the small things and this negativity will never get out of their head just like what's happening with OP.

[Jocuserious]

In fact i am always in such a situation but i don't feel helpless because now i have started another business from where my income comes from which i run the family expenses. I made a lot of money from bounty but i lost a lot when i invested a lot new project.
The crypto market is a street where you will find positive and negative descriptions and here your experience will be highly valued because the profit will depend on how experts you are in investing or trading.

[Agbe]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

You topic made laughed because it's look like you are forcing yourself to make money at all means. The mindset in kid and the mindset in adult sometimes looks alike for achievement. What you like to achieve in the childhood display in the adulthood too. There are sometimes that the place of residence also change the thinking of human beings. Many people study hard in their school days to secure a good job after the university education but irony is found in many of them. And in most time childhood thinking becomes nightmare.

[Sterbens]

Lack of money is temporary and you should not think so much about the fact that your job is gone, you are a competent person and you have to prove it. You feel that the workplace you used to work for did not leave you. You can earn good money. Your job is gone so you can't get out of that place if you're heartbroken. There is no shortage of jobs if you have qualifications. If you can arrange a job next, look for an alternative income stream in addition to that job so that if one closes, you can continue well through the other.

It seems easy to say, but this is really difficult to do. I've been in the same situation before with OP, even though I do have those skills but still can't get hired. It is really a matter of opportunity that will arrive on you, and you need to grab or take all of it so that you'll see how it works. Again, if a door closes, there will be another door that will open to you, no matter how long it takes. Just don't lose hope and continue to find it.

If we are a married man, such concerns will continue to exist because we have dependents, namely wife and children, so in this case there will indeed be a lot of thoughts, especially if we do not have a permanent job and our money stock is still very limited.
Indeed, without money we can still live and I also recognize that not everything must be based on money. But in other conditions money is still one of the sources to prosper life now.
Many cases that occur begin with the absence of money so in this case I will not be naive even though everything is not only based on money but with money we can live properly.

[macson]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

i've heard very good sentences "if you chase the chicken too much then the chicken will run fast but if you give the chicken food, then you will easily catch the chicken", that also applies to money, when you chase money very hard then the money will keep away from you.

besides that when you get a lot of money, it won't guarantee whether you and your family will be happy, therefore from an early age teach your family simplicity so they don't force you to earn money in any way, you have to think about your future too and also them, don't do stupid things for money.

[Wimex]

This is something wrong that our parents taught us when we were little, and that many are probably still doing with their children..."study hard and have good grades so you can have a good future", fearing that if we didn't, it We would never be someone in life or typical phrases that..."if we did not graduate from a profession we would not get good jobs to survive in this world", that and many more lies that the only thing that causes is stagnation to achieve true success. Studying is not bad as long as it is done to learn and obtain knowledge, not simply to have good grades... learning about topics that can help you grow as a person is what should be important, it is what leads you to have a better quality of life, because it allows them to dare to do a thousand things to meet their goals, without fear of what will happen, and not just settle for having a stable job that will only consume them and wrap them in frustration for wanting to earn more, a good promotion maybe?, but what about the other alternatives... like a good venture that can be good enough to generate more than what a common job can give them.

People must change their mentality, if you want to earn more money, do not settle for just what you are currently generating, manage it well and dare to invest it in something that can change your life, and you no longer have to worry about needing money.

[kawetsriyanto]

You topic made laughed because it's look like you are forcing yourself to make money at all means. The mindset in kid and the mindset in adult sometimes looks alike for achievement. What you like to achieve in the childhood display in the adulthood too. There are sometimes that the place of residence also change the thinking of human beings. Many people study hard in their school days to secure a good job after the university education but irony is found in many of them. And in most time childhood thinking becomes nightmare.

Agree. He thinks too much about earning much money. He even assumes that his wife and kids feel unhappy if he can't get much money, it is surely a wrong mindset. I also have a wife and kids, they always happy whatever the money I get everyday. They thanks to God every time I can come back home safety. Health, safety, togetherness are something more important than money, it can't be be equated with money.

Anyway, childhood thinking shouldn't be a nightmare if we think more realistically. When we are a mature person, we must think more realistically and not to think idealistically.

[Texac]

You topic made laughed because it's look like you are forcing yourself to make money at all means. The mindset in kid and the mindset in adult sometimes looks alike for achievement. What you like to achieve in the childhood display in the adulthood too. There are sometimes that the place of residence also change the thinking of human beings. Many people study hard in their school days to secure a good job after the university education but irony is found in many of them. And in most time childhood thinking becomes nightmare.

Agree. He thinks too much about earning much money. He even assumes that his wife and kids feel unhappy if he can't get much money, it is surely a wrong mindset. I also have a wife and kids, they always happy whatever the money I get everyday. They thanks to God every time I can come back home safety. Health, safety, togetherness are something more important than money, it can't be be equated with money.

Anyway, childhood thinking shouldn't be a nightmare if we think more realistically. When we are a mature person, we must think more realistically and not to think idealistically.

That is the pressure of a man, a breadwinner in the family, he is living for his family, not just him.  are you happy when you can't make enough money to feed your family? That's what he's going through.  your wife and children don't complain when you don't earn much, but are you happy to give them a full life like other families?  one more thing, health, safety, solidarity... no money, how do you get those things?

[terencio]

 There are many ways to make money legally and ethically such as taking online surveys, participating in market research, selling your old jewelry, clothes, accessories, textbooks or unused gift cards online, teaching or tutoring English as a second language online, freelancing your skills or doing easy tasks online, babysitting, pet sitting or doing errands or chores for others, earning a bank bonus or cashback and rewards, recycling or scrapping items and borrowing money

[goldkingcoiner]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

I think that your childhood traumas were caused by your parents or other authority figures making unrealistically high demands of you because they were taught the same way and they think that such an upbringing must somehow be right. It is more important for you to overcome this trauma before you can live a happy life. Unless you live in a place with extreme poverty, getting a job after being fired is not hard. You just have been conditioned to be fearful of failure. But failure is important. It teaches us and makes us greater. Would your family starve if you had to find a new job? Would something terrible happen if you were to get a bad grade? No. That failure would have forced you to find a new path for success. Perhaps even a better path.

[Pierre 2]

First thing to say must be: never do anything unlawful. Life can be very worthwhile if you enough money. If you exploit your position you are making a mistake for sure. You can end up losing anything you own in life, reputation included. But I think I can understand OP when he says he is becoming anxious not making enough money. Many males in society are blamed a lot in society if they can't become richer somehow. Its like mandatory thing expected. Not everyone is this much lucky.

[rachael9385]

Life is sweet when we have family and life is more sweeter when money is involve but that does not mean we should hustle to kill our self, hunger for too much money can leed to danger or been at the wrong place at the wrong time. Most of this issues are caused by our parents talking about the rich one's they don't like other people children to be more better than theirs, they sometimes think about their own side and not thinking what the child wants, but OP all fingers are not equal and you can't be like others who has plenty of money, appreciate what you can afford and don't risk you self for money life is short and life is one, so enjoy the little you have and spend wisely.

[carlfebz2]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

I think that your childhood traumas were caused by your parents or other authority figures making unrealistically high demands of you because they were taught the same way and they think that such an upbringing must somehow be right. It is more important for you to overcome this trauma before you can live a happy life. Unless you live in a place with extreme poverty, getting a job after being fired is not hard. You just have been conditioned to be fearful of failure. But failure is important. It teaches us and makes us greater. Would your family starve if you had to find a new job? Would something terrible happen if you were to get a bad grade? No. That failure would have forced you to find a new path for success. Perhaps even a better path.

There are situations in our lives on which it is really that something that affects us totally or generally because we arent get used to things like this or like that. For some people then it wouldn't really be that much of

an issue but for those people who hadnt been able to experience those hardships would really be totally in panic on the time that they are really such on a certain condition which we cant really blame them. We dont know the story behind and this is why its not really that ideal to be judgemental specially on OP that he might seems to be totally scared on why he is really that pursuing on having money more.
If we do speak or talk about the present thing on which if he had been able to spend up the money which it should really be remitted into his wife then it would really be a sure problem.

If you are still that anticipating for possible problem due to lack of money then it would be wise that you should really be thriving on having other source of income so that you would be able to avoid such problem.

[GeorgeJohn]

It is said that money is the root of all evil and that people become bad as soon as they have money, but to be honest, I see bad people because money is still in the minority; people without money, leading to misery, are innumerable.

Once you lack money, you will see the cruelty of the world; once you are short of money, you will truly understand that being rich means having many choices, but if there is no money, there is only one way to go: work hard to earn money.

When someone does not have money it will become soft like fresh bread but immediately money touches the person it will be obvious tahr the person get rigid, money is power, I don't believe in anyone know because I know quite well that you can never know the character of a humans until its satisfied or its contented with what it have.

[Xampeuu]

It is said that money is the root of all evil and that people become bad as soon as they have money, but to be honest, I see bad people because money is still in the minority; people without money, leading to misery, are innumerable.

Once you lack money, you will see the cruelty of the world; once you are short of money, you will truly understand that being rich means having many choices, but if there is no money, there is only one way to go: work hard to earn money.

When someone does not have money it will become soft like fresh bread but immediately money touches the person it will be obvious tahr the person get rigid, money is power, I don't believe in anyone know because I know quite well that you can never know the character of a humans until its satisfied or its contented with what it have.

money must be sought before it comes to us. but it's also not that extreme to make money, we have to know that our portion as human beings certainly has limited strength. what I mean here we have to be regular between making money with sufficient for our life needs. For example, many people work overtime and they forget to eat, and end up getting sick. it means he doesn't love himself. therefore we must be able to create intelligent work, so that everything becomes balanced in our lives

[HajiBagi]

Did you really just say illegal? What kind of money do you want that you don't even care how it will affect you in the end? We are all aware that people who are struggling will do anything to obtain what they need, but we don't hope to engage in any illegal activities in order to succeed in life. Happiness is the most important need for a family. Although I am aware that wealth can make a family happier, there are some joys that money simply cannot purchase. For you to act positively as a guy, you must be content in your life. You can't merely think negatively about a family issue without being happy.

Money is the source of all evil and can take you in directions you'll come to regret. What if, for example, a person you meet introduces you to a money ceremony and then asks you to bring a member of your family along for the ritual because you urgently need money? Money has both good and bad sides, and can help you get some of the things you need in life as well as bring about happiness, You can see that the family you are at odds with is still the one that expects you to become wealthy, therefore my recommendation to you is to stop arguing and find a better way to raise capital to launch a business, which is the best thing I believe you can do at this particular time.

[dothebeats]

The pressure of ensuring that we have the money to provide for our family is truly difficult to deal with specially during times when we can't do much. I know OP is desperate to earn for their family but it will be more difficult to do something illegal and be held accountable for that as all opportunities to earn and make money for your family will all be gone. So the bottom line here is -- work hard.

[RockBell]

The pressure of ensuring that we have the money to provide for our family is truly difficult to deal with specially during times when we can't do much. I know OP is desperate to earn for their family but it will be more difficult to do something illegal and be held accountable for that as all opportunities to earn and make money for your family will all be gone. So the bottom line here is -- work hard.

The primary purpose of making money is to feed, I sat down and consider a lot of things imaging having shelter and not having money to eat imagine what it will look like, I have done some research and have noticed that opportunities to earn have become very limited, which have even lead to the increase of crime rate in most capital cities everyone wants to make money by all means, the nature of how difficult things has become am still not justifying, the fact that it is wrong, sometimes when it comes to finance I become speechless, we have even gotten to the stage were calculation no longer work again, the money is never enough.

[reizella28]

It's okay to work very hard but don't pressure yourself, you have a partner now. It's easy to solve if you have a support right? Don't do the bad things for money because your
family will be suffer on your action.